Chapter 15 Lesson 2 Marry after finding the right one - "Tenderness and consideration" is the most important thing

What kind of wife to find is not only a matter of choosing a life partner, but also a question of what kind of family to build.George Bernard Shaw said: "Choosing a wife is like planning a battle. If you make a mistake once, it will always be bad." Some people say that an ideal wife has the following ten criteria: (1) Lively, cute, docile, gentle. (2) Always give people a new feeling. (3) Be able to detect her husband's hobbies as soon as possible. (4) Housekeeping is done well, not vulgar. (5) Ingenuity, not cleverness. (6) Be good at understanding and sympathy. (7) Diligent and thrifty, not stingy.

(8) Can speak well. (9) Not fancy, graceful. (10) Rich in self-cultivation. Among these ten standards, there is no beauty standard, because this is looking for a wife, not a model or an actor.Someone once said: Women are beautiful because they are cute, not cute because they are beautiful.The meaning of cuteness contains tenderness, thoughtfulness, and understanding. Only a gentle, considerate and considerate wife can make the family a peaceful haven.When you come back home tired from outside, you certainly want your wife to be considerate of you, let you go home to rest quietly, make you feel warm and warm at home, you can relax to your heart's content, abandon all worries and pressures, you can be in Restoring physical strength at home, replenishing energy, and inspiring the courage to fight hard,

A gentle, considerate and considerate wife can provide you with a relaxed environment, and she will not become jealous because of the opposite sex in your social circle. She will be very clever and become friends with your opposite sex friends.She will not restrict your freedom, she will make you feel that she understands you, supports you, and is your strong backing. A gentle, considerate and considerate wife can make you like your home and make you miss your home when you are away. Moreover, your children will also like your home, because in this family, because of such a wife , everyone will feel warm.

A gentle, considerate and considerate wife can constantly change patterns to add freshness to the family, often bringing surprises.For example, suddenly one day, she invented a delicious dish, or changed her attire to enhance her physical charm and attractiveness, or she suddenly proposed that the whole family go on an outing on weekends.She will let you regard family life as the happiest time and the best time, and let you immerse yourself in family happiness all your life.Not only you, even your children will be obsessed with this family, no matter how far you go, no matter how beautiful the outside scenery is, no matter how exciting the outside world is, they will think about this home, be obsessed with this home, and try their best to return to this home .

Therefore, when looking for a wife, you must not act hastily, and you must have a clear purpose-to build a happy and warm home for yourself.