Chapter 17 Lesson 2 Marry after finding the right one - You have to be careful when you marry some women

1 Marrying a woman who is much more educated than you should be cautious When dating, it is necessary to find a woman with a certain level of education.But if the other party's education level is much higher than yours, it's a bit bad, because a woman's education level is too high, and her self-esteem often reaches the point where a man can't stand it.Not only that, but if you have any suggestion and put it forward for research, she will put on the airs of a doctor and snort at you, and even say that all your suggestions have no theoretical basis at all. You must keep this point in mind, don’t fall in love with any pretentious lady who still talks about “theoretical basis”, especially if she has any academic qualifications to be proud of, you should stay away from her even more.

2 Be cautious when marrying an overly beautiful and charming woman A man works hard all his life, probably for the purpose of fame and fortune, and beauty.If a man can marry a beautiful woman, he will be very excited in his heart.But an overly beautiful and charming wife who attracts men's attention everywhere will bring him at least two kinds of disasters: (1) kill yourself.If the wife is too beautiful, the man is easy to be satisfied and at ease with the status quo, so he does not try to make progress, so he often does not achieve much in his life.If it didn't work out, even his wife wouldn't stay by his side in the end, and it would be over.Secondly, the man naturally cherishes this sweet wife and is obedient to everything. In the end, he loses his masculinity, loses his own opinions, and becomes a puppet at the mercy of his sweet wife.Again, I miss my lovely wife all day long and fall in love with that tenderness, so it is difficult to concentrate on work.And there is always a sense of uneasiness, subconsciously afraid that my wife will run away, or someone else will come to seduce her.If it’s not done well, I’ll be in panic all day long, wishing I could be with my wife all the time. If I lose a lot of things that belong to a man, I won’t be able to do many things.

(2) Provoke jealousy.It is only natural that marrying a good wife will arouse the envy of others.There is a saying: "Children are your own good, husbands and wives are other people's good." Obviously a beautiful woman will make colleagues, neighbors, relatives and friends even more jealous.Sometimes people's psychology is very strange. If you can't say it outright, they will reject you in secret.Of course you can't figure out where you offended your colleagues and superiors, and the people who reject you may not be able to clearly state it, it's just a kind of psychological mischief-jealousy.If your boss's wife is ugly, he might even give you small shoes to wear; in fact, you didn't offend him, it's just that your wife is too beautiful to make him uncomfortable.So you have to know that a beautiful wife may bring out a group of enemies for you.

3 Be cautious when marrying a doll-shaped woman This type of woman looks childish, mature on the outside, but extremely childish on the inside.Innocent, happy, carefree, and proud of being loved, she is not a housekeeper.When a man marries her, you have to be prepared to take care of the housework yourself, so that the family can be in order.Because the child's temper of this type of woman will remain until middle age.Of course, if you marry a wife and just want to find a gentle little woman to love back, then this type of woman is quite suitable. 4 Be cautious when marrying an emotional woman

This type of woman is very emotional, chattering for a while, taciturn for a while;Feelings are very changeable, come on suddenly and violently, and are unpredictable.If you don't have considerable tolerance, manliness, and intimidation, you'd better not marry her. 5 Be cautious when marrying a strong woman The Chinese describe women's weak attachment as "a little bird clinging to a man", and the Western saying is "always clinging to the grape trellis".Strong women are just the opposite of this type of character, and tend to be more masculine: obsessed with career, and have the desire to command others, including men.If you don't have the quality, wisdom and ability to make her admire, then after the honeymoon, you will slowly find that you have become her appendage, and this feeling is often unbearable for men.

6 Be cautious when marrying a money-worshiping woman Such women often rely on selling their hue or even their bodies in exchange for money.This type of woman has a "serious" relationship with a man on the surface, but she tries to spend his money desperately.The more her boyfriend's money is spent on her, the more she has a sense of conquest, and the greater her desire to conquer.When her boyfriend can no longer support her, she will leave him and find another man.It can be seen that this kind of woman worships money, but money may not be able to buy her love.She is willing to be your wife, nine out of ten because of your wealth; when she meets someone richer than you, or when you become less wealthy, she may fly to other branches Be a phoenix.

7 Be cautious when marrying a woman who is too shrewd Originally, it is a virtue to be meticulous in doing things, but being too shrewd becomes critical.This kind of women may try their best to conceal their character during their relationship, but once they get married, their shrewd and overly shrewd character will be fully displayed.When you want to fall in love with her, she is putting on a housewife air, picking on the servants, finding fault, think about it, isn't this a big spoiler? In short, an overly shrewd woman has nothing in her mind except an abacus.This kind of wife will never know how to comfort the person next to her pillow. Unless you are a businessman and plan to have a wife who doubles as an assistant, you will be interested in this kind of woman.

8 Be cautious when marrying a rich woman You must understand this saying: "The more money, the weaker the brain's ability to move." If you have money to squander, it's not a problem to be as clumsy as a pig; however, if your wife has money, You are a pauper, and if her young lady loses her temper, you can't bear it.According to common sense, most of the rich ladies are women who study the art of controlling their husbands all day long.Unless you are virtuous and ready to be popular with women, otherwise, don't marry a lady who is too rich. 9 Be cautious when marrying a woman who feels too good about herself

"Self-admiration type" women cannot be chosen as objects. This type of woman always faces the mirror from time to time, and has no distractions in order to dress herself up.It is commonplace to spend hours on makeup.Not only is this a waste of time, it is also a waste of money. Most of these people have a strong self-esteem about their looks.Some are not confident about the whole state and appearance, but at least have confidence in a certain part.Even if she doesn't have an appearance to be proud of, she is willing to spend a lot of money on artificial remedial measures to make herself more beautiful.So, I went to have my hair permed yesterday, and today I went to the beauty parlor to do cosmetology and gymnastics. Tomorrow, I plan to

Go to the women's clothing store to try on... She loves being the center of attention.If the men were too courteous to her, or flattered or flattered, she would smile. Therefore, wives with narcissistic tendencies often show coquettish attitudes, or give big glances, or wink to their husband's friends, neighbors, and handsome salesmen... She likes her husband's care and love.However, if she wants to dedicate all her love to her husband, it depends on her husband's fortune. She has a hope: not only her husband, but if she can charm all the men in the world, it would be great.

It is impossible for her to help her husband, let alone comfort and motivate him.Not only that, but the following thoughts are hidden in my heart: "Well, with the charm I have, it is reasonable to find a more ideal man. Really... I am downgraded to marry him, of course he is grateful, even if he treats me like a treasure and takes good care of me, it should be." There are too many problems with this kind of woman being a wife.Vanity is strong, he can do whatever he wants, and even has a sadistic side.