Chapter 11 Lesson 1 I'm sure about remarrying - smashing men's love lies

If you fall in love with a married man, you must be miserable, because: (1) When a married man falls in love with a woman other than his wife, it does not necessarily mean that his marriage is unhappy or he loves the cheating woman too much. When a man expresses his love outside of marriage, he only wants to possess this woman in his heart, and he will not naively think of marrying her.When a woman expresses her love, the scene of two people wearing wedding dresses standing in a church will often flash in their minds.This world of different mentality constitutes a huge psychological difference between men and women when they have extramarital affairs.

After a man has experienced the fresh period of marriage (probably two years), he begins to dream in his heart of having a chance to cheat.But family is a very safe, well-fitting and casual vest for him.He is struggling to find what he calls a noble love in the vast crowd, but in his heart, there are scenes of pornographic episodes.He has a wife who is very satisfied and trusts him, and this trust spurs him to speed up his pace to find a confidante.He can’t say that he has no love for his wife, and he even has a heavy sense of responsibility for the family. He will devote a lot of effort to the growth of the child, and will be saddled because his wife suddenly gets sick one day. He is a good husband and a good man.

(2) Married cheating men with minor accomplishments, most of their attractiveness is created by their wives. The charm of a mature man in them has always been admired by his wife, which breeds pride and self-confidence. His eyes reveal peace and warmth because of his wife's tenderness. He has learned how to express his feelings through his wife's teachings several times... … He will not go to that kind of dirty place, which is neither safe nor affordable. To find a safe and free woman, he only needs to wear a "love" coat. (3) In fact, even if he doesn't meet you, he will fall in love with other women at first sight.

This kind of man will say to a woman: I love two women the most in my life, one is you and the other is my mother.It's not that he has no feelings for this woman, he always thinks about her, and when he is on a business trip, he will buy something that is slightly cheaper than the gift for his wife.At home, you are often really absent-minded towards your wife because of you.This is exactly what he wants. He hopes that in his stable life, he can have the passion and colorful life of his youthful love season. Sometimes, when you are passionate, you will have the idea of ​​marrying you, but afterwards you will rationally reject your own weak soul.

(4) A man only wants to be in love with you, and he is both happy and afraid of the idea of ​​an extramarital woman wanting to marry him. If you want to marry him, what a man is proud of is that this woman really loves him, but what he is afraid of is that he will be entangled by a woman without complaint or regret.The end of this relationship mostly started from the moment the woman asked him to divorce and she wanted to marry him.However, the man who had an affair didn't want to leave her soon, so he took a roundabout tactic until the woman couldn't stand it anymore and left him.

(5) Generally, any man who finds excuses not to divorce many times but desperately confesses his love to you has no intention of marrying you in his heart. He doesn't want to marry you, he will find an excuse to break up with you.At this time, he already regrets that he has developed too deep a relationship with you, making himself exhausted.What he is considering at this time is how to end the relationship with you. It is best if you can't wait to leave, maybe you still feel sorry for him, but in any case, it must not affect his career and family.On the night when you wrote your farewell letter and prepared to leave, he would kneel in front of you and say with muddy tears that his heart was broken.

This is the true face of a philandering man who confesses his love to you in a dignified manner. A woman who is in love, knowing this, will you still love? Therefore, you should take good care of your flower of love and let it bear fruit Produce the fruit of your imagination.