Chapter 10 Lesson 1 I'm sure about remarrying - understanding a man's silence

In an era that pays attention to communication and relationships, it seems that everyone hangs around in teahouses, restaurants, karaoke and dance halls, and more than half of them are "drunkards who don't want to drink."They are willing to spend money and be happy to accompany certain relationships (not willing to do so), but on another occasion, they become the object of others paying the bill.Under this general trend, one or two personal characteristics can be seen in the performance of men in the social field.Especially when there are occasional ladies present, it is even more obvious.

The one who speaks eloquently and jokes constantly is often the maker of the atmosphere until everyone's cheeks are numb with laughter.At this time, the silent man on the other side was particularly eye-catching.Usually women prefer cold, silent men.In the past few years, Takakura Kenda's popularity is an example.When a man talks too much, it always makes people think that the weight is not enough.But if you don't say a word, how can social occasions produce attractive charm? It can be seen that this silence is conditional.Say what should be said, and stop what should not be said.It is to grasp the degree well.If the silence is well mastered, the man's charm will be multiplied, making others feel "bottomless" and "unfathomable", so he is more attractive.However, if you keep silent and don't open your mouth once in half a day, people will think that you behave strangely, keep them at a respectful distance, and lose the fun of interacting with people.If you are not in the crowd, you are naturally capable and just enjoying yourself blindly.It does not meet the requirements of modern people.To be with the crowd, what you need is to be outstanding and extraordinary in it, which is enough weight.Silence becomes a weapon at this time, which can conquer or kill people.

Because people have the instinct to ask for details.Seeing a man who is silent but fair-looking, and he has a witty remark from time to time, all of them point to the end, and everyone laughs at him but he doesn't laugh, women are particularly interested in this kind of "killer".Indifference becomes detached, few words become knowing, and humor is more interesting because of its precious words, which makes it more attractive than ordinary talkative and relaxed men.Although on the scene people hope that someone will bring relaxation, in fact, the beneficiaries are often those who don’t smile easily and talk little. Because of their timely speaking and long-term listening, they become the target of people’s attention and go back to ponder.Once a man becomes a "concern" in a woman's heart because of his silence, it is estimated that the story will happen.

At this time, there is the experience that real gold is not afraid of fire.If this man is ignorant, shy, and not good at eloquence, and resists a woman's attack, he will be laughed at in two or three rounds. This kind of man can only be called an honest man of few words. , has nothing to do with charm; while a man is full of poetry and books, but he cherishes words like gold because he doesn't like clichés. The current popular disgusting words have something to do with it, and it’s never okay to chase after the phone. If you don’t call, you won’t hear from them, and they will never go online; A woman is hard to resist charm.It wasn't until he was married that he realized that a man who talks less has as many advantages as disadvantages.Because traits are especially pronounced in silent people.

Women fall in love because of the charm of this silence, and because this silence is natural, they strengthen their determination to transform.The two of them had a quarrel until they got married, and they still had a mysterious attraction.You don't think you can guess what kind of medicine he sells in his stuffy gourd, and his mouth is hard to open. Of course, he is like a mirror in his heart, taking care of everything for you, and occasionally when you are sullen, he will be silent and let you know. You can't help laughing from the bottom of your heart, even when you are old, you are still wondering what he is thinking, isn't this the same as getting married with a question mark? You can't be depressed, and you can't rest assured. When you think about him day and night, you wonder: Who is he? ? When you are speechless, he makes you think a lot.Occasionally there are amazing words, which make you laugh again.So a woman who is going to marry a man who is silent and humorous must be prepared: "There is no peace in my life, and I am always chasing it."Among them, the ups and downs change with different stages and themes.But it is unlikely to leave absolutely, because he can't let you see through, so you "wanted to ask him for details" over and over again, and finally found out that this is the cleverness of a man.

A good man is like a maze like a woman, you can't get out of his mind, and there are infinite scenery after thousands of turns.The most important thing is to verify your identity before invading, otherwise, if you plunge into a dead end, you will have nothing but to cry.If the silent man has nothing to say because he has nothing to say, but you are dazzled and mistakenly think that he has manliness and taste, after getting along with him, he will taste like chewing wax, which is really unbearable.If unfortunately you add a lot of reliability and depth to your subjective judgment and then stand up and marry, it will definitely be a tragedy afterwards.When he raises his fists, his voice is loud, and he is not refined, he is like an uncivilized stone.So for women, although liking silent men is a kind of subconscious dependence, but it depends on what material it is made of, whether it is genuine or fake, and it depends on the skill of knowing people.

Then again, if a silent man is backed by a well-proven education and demeanor, then silence is a song of charm, enough to kill the most sensitive woman; In this era of sociability, single men and women need to practice a skill, in addition to enriching and improving themselves, it is to choose a moderate way of expression for themselves.