Chapter 8 Lesson 1: Marrying again if you are sure - Thirteen types of men who are unworthy

In daily life, women often meet all kinds of men.From a woman's point of view, the following thirteen kinds of men should be treated with caution and handled with caution. 1 very cool, very deep man They are often inexplicably miserable and cynical.This kind of man is undesirable, in fact they live in In the self-righteous miserable world, the pain is so painful that it is necessary to pursue a state that will never be obtained.When they get along with women, they are always indifferent, making women miserable.They are good at deceiving women who yearn for vigorous love, but this kind of love is only a flash in the pan.

2 A man who pursues his career too much Men with careers and status are the most favored by women, but if men who value careers too much, they will often sacrifice their personal emotions and choose women who can help them in terms of money, power and ability.The mate selection of this kind of man who pursues his career too much is conditional, so he is not a real partner who can share weal and woe. 3 "Prodigal" type of man They have a wide range of contacts, and they never planned to stay with a woman for the rest of their lives.But "men are not bad, women don't love", many women who don't believe in evil are often eager to try, wanting to bind them with true or pure love, this is just wishful thinking.

4 machismo men They like to shout, and they look like "what a man has to worry about without a wife".If this kind of man is like this on the surface, and you really love him, then you can maintain his dignity by accommodating; if the same is true in his bones, then it will be miserable to be his wife. 5 oily men This kind of man talks sweetly and compliments every woman hypocritically, which makes people get goosebumps all over, without any sincerity.However, many girls like this one, they are confused, and they are still secretly smug.It's not bad to be friends with this kind of men in daily entertainment, but it would be bad if they take their words too seriously.

6 Men with lots of female friends They take great care of every woman like a nice guy.Whether there is a real friendship between a man and a woman needs to be discussed, but if he takes care of every confidante or good sister in every detail, he will undoubtedly have no more time to take care of you.Believe it or not, just try it. 7 Men who pay too much attention to their image Dress grandly and decently, always brush your hair three times and look in the mirror three times before going out.On the surface, he is trying to please women, but in fact, the person he cares most about is himself, and he is very selfish, rarely taking women's feelings into consideration.

8 Men with an Oedipus Complex and Feminine This kind of men had too much contact with their mothers or too little fatherly love when they were young, so they depend on their mothers for everything when they grow up. They lack independent consciousness, poor adaptability, and lack of confidence in doing things.Because of being too Oedipus, their behavior and psychology have become feminine, which can be seen from their appearance and preferences.For example, they like to wear soft cashmere fabrics, love to whisper, hate sports, and love to watch TV series.Associating with this kind of unmanly man, you will not only feel that he is not a man, but you will also feel that you are less and less a woman.

9 A man with great ambition but little talent This kind of man is very ambitious, pursuing a perfect life and a successful career.So they arrange their lives to the fullest according to society's expectations. They never miss work, friends and entertainment, and they all want to be at the forefront of trends.But often they lack connotation, no real talent and learning, so they fill up time with many things and give you a false appearance of a successful man.If you live with him, after a long time, you will find that he is just a fake good man, and this kind of man will not have much success in his life.

10 raunchy artists This kind of man is very talented, they have rich imagination, and often become artists that everyone admires.They feel that they are unique, that their actions and thoughts are very different.But they don't pay much attention to their appearance, maybe they want to show that they are different, they have long hair, their clothes are ragged, and they don't take a shower for a long time; and they are too intoxicated in artistic creation, it is easy to ignore your beauty exist.Living with him, you often feel that this is not a real life, you cannot accept his ideas at all, and you are even more powerless to change him.

11 Men in a hurry to get married This kind of man will propose to you after dating you for a few days or even hours.At the beginning, he will act very gentlemanly and romantic. He will walk with you on the beach, send you a bouquet of flowers, prepare dinner for you, and say "I love you" sweetly.But if you really marry him, you will find that everything he does is superficial.Immediately after marriage, he changes completely. He is always critical and moody, and he never thinks he is in the wrong.Therefore, such men should be avoided as soon as possible, especially those who have been married many times.

12 Money-obsessed Rich Men They put money first in everything, as if they have everything if they have money, they are satisfied materially, but they are very empty spiritually.With this kind of man, women often become fools.Her spirit is also very empty, and she likes to show off her material conditions to other women. 13 Mentally Unsound Men Psychologically unhealthy men should never make choices, it is very painful to live with them.Common mentally unsound men include the following: (1) Narrow-minded: the wife is not allowed to have any contact with other men. (2) Psychological darkness: In order to achieve the goal, they often use despicable means but are not ashamed.

(3) Cowardly and cowardly: do nothing and be looked down upon by others. (4) Alcoholism and gambling: irrational, easy to be manipulated by others or the environment, and lacks tenderness for his wife. (5) Frivolous behavior: He takes a very casual view of the relationship between the sexes and often plays with women. (6) Very stingy: Don't spend money when you need it, and control every penny very tightly. Choosing a life partner is a lifelong event, and a woman must not act hastily, otherwise, many conflicts will be caused after marriage, not only will it be impossible to talk about a happy marriage, but it will also lead to the breakdown of the family.

There is a kind of man, although they are not good at words, they care about you, can give wholeheartedly, can accept your strengths and weaknesses, and are willing to spend an ordinary life with you.This kind of man is trustworthy and entrusted for life. If you meet him, you should never look forward and backward and pursue romance again.Because, you are a woman living in reality.