Chapter 7 Lesson 1 I'm sure I'm going to remarry - Observing the man you're dating from ten aspects

How can you know whether this man can continue to get along? Here are a few tips for you, you might as well try. 1 Look at his daily necessities Is his home full of books or ball game awards? Is it a group photo with his family? Do you dare to use his bathroom without disinfection? If he just doesn't like tidiness, it will be very difficult for him to change his bad habits.You have to make a decision: Can you live with such a man? Are you sure you can change this messy environment? 2 Look at the friends he made You can't possibly like all of his friends, but if you don't like most of them, it's a reminder that he's not for you.It is not a bad thing for a man to make some girlfriends, which helps him understand the characteristics of women and also shows that he can communicate with the opposite sex.Be careful if he only has a girlfriend and no boyfriend.Such a man will often feel threatened by other men, and he needs to strengthen his self-confidence in front of the opposite sex.

3 See how he treats children He will never be a good father if he finds the child troublesome and refuses to be close to the child.If he not only doesn't hate children, but is also willing to talk to them, even leaning over to listen to them, lying on the floor and playing games with them, this man will undoubtedly make a good father, and you deserve to develop a relationship with him. 4 to see if he is punctual Make an appointment with him at 8 o'clock, but he doesn't arrive until 9 o'clock, it means that he doesn't take you seriously.His feeling that his time is more important than yours is really a lack of respect for you.

5 Listen to what he likes to say This is the man who impresses women the most when he talks warmly about his family in front of his girlfriend.If he wants you to share his joys or pains, he is selfish.There is another type of man who likes to criticize others, looks down on anyone, listens to rumors, and even gloats about other people's misfortune. This kind of man should stay away from him as soon as possible. 6 See what he said about his ex-girlfriend A man who speaks ill of his girlfriend is unreliable.Since they were in love once, why should they slander their reputation? Respecting your ex-girlfriend is a magnanimous man.But if he keeps saying nice things about his ex-girlfriend in front of you, it means he still misses her and the old relationship is unforgettable.

7 Look at his attitude towards his mother Don't get close to a man who treats his mother badly.A man's attitude towards his mother says a lot about his attitude towards women.A man who respects his mother also knows how to love his wife.However, it should be noted that if a man is overly attached to his mother and obeys what he says, he may lack independence. Such a man is rarely manly. 8 See how he thinks about money Some men are always rushing to pay bills, which does not prove that he is generous, but that he wants to control his girlfriend; and men who are stingy and stingy are destined to care about their emotions.As for the profligate, often overdrawn, or even heavily in debt man, you must never associate with him.

9 Look at his attitude towards work In a sense, a man's attitude towards work is his attitude towards life.For any man who quits after the slightest disappointment at work, he can almost predict that one day, if there is a little setback in the relationship between husband and wife, he will also leave. 10 to see if his mental health A man who likes to be sarcastic is actually raising himself up by belittling others.These men are mentally unhealthy.There are also men who get angry for no reason, sometimes yell at TV shows, and may be rude to restaurant waiters.He may have hidden hidden dangers in the spirit and is at risk of developing depression.