Chapter 17 Case5. The secret of a woman on a business trip

He is a player, he only wants sex, ask himself if he can afford it? Don't turn the question to the stupid question of whether you are in love with him or not, Ask if the other person is in love with you, or if you are in love with the other person, Always the most inappropriate fake question for a woman. Case5. The secret of a woman on a business trip Lillian. 30.Senior personal assistant. I used to be like this I don’t know which movie said that women who stay at home cannot forgive their husbands for having extramarital affairs; women who have stolen food only begin to understand the mentality of men who want to be wild.

I always thought it was just an excuse for a prostitute to play tricks, and a good woman would never cheat.But after meeting P, I realized how complex and natural arousal is. God knows, I have always been a woman who loves exclusively. I have been dating my first love for 7 years, married for 3 years, and the relationship has been very solid for 10 years.My husband is an honest man, down-to-earth, not fond of flowers, a bit stupid, but trustworthy.I read English, and I found a good position in a foreign company with good conditions and many opportunities to travel.The number of business trips I made, from once or twice a year at the beginning, became more and more after China joined the WTO. In the past two years, I have to go out almost every month.My husband is very relieved, because my boss is a strong woman, he said with a smile that he is not afraid of troubles between the secretary and the boss, unless I am gay.

Meet a master flirt on a business trip The appearance of P is unexpected.He is a Chinese American, about 40 years old, a diamond king, but he looks like a 30-year-old, very authoritative, and an important partner of our company.I heard that he is an entrepreneurial genius, and he is already a CEO in the United States at the age of 25.The first time I saw him, I didn't like him at first, because his appearance was too cool and arrogant.He's not very polite to me either, and the kind of virtue that sends me to work is the most annoying thing. I am a woman with a strong personality. When people treat me hard, I will act "hard" and behave even better. Don't let men underestimate me.Maybe because of this, he suddenly looked at me differently, Fei Fei liked to sit next to me, staring at me honestly.The boss laughed and said that he might have taken a fancy to me. I actually blushed when I said that. How old is he?Feel a little annoying.But the recognized talent always looks a little complacent.Oh, what am I doing?Seeing him the next day, he involuntarily strengthened his sense of self-protection and resistance.He probably thinks I'm very funny, once he suddenly asked with puzzled eyes: "Could it be that you're in love with me?" I laughed and said, "Don't all Oriental girls have a sense of humor?" I was so angry that I left immediately, and was taught a lesson by the boss who didn't know.

The more I hate, the more I miss The strange thing is, the more I hate him, the more I miss him.Does a woman feel chased after being flirted with by a man once, especially for a married woman who has only been in a relationship once?There are still people chasing!This kind of mentality is so attractive. I also made a long-distance call and told my husband that P was disgusting. My husband said, "I still think I'm the best." When he said this, I really subconsciously compared the two.Frankly speaking, my husband is inferior in terms of knowledge, appearance, status, wealth, and achievements.In terms of personality, the husband is honest, with his own advantages and disadvantages, but P is humorous and clever, and there are always unspeakable excitements with him, and every moment is a challenge and expectation.He is an attractive man, there is no doubt about it.He can touch people's hearts with a single word, which is also his deep skill in flirting.Don't talk much, don't do much, you just can't resist being captured all at once.Ah, I can't help but blush when I think of this, why do I think of this?They have never expressed anything, and it has always been just a fantasy I made out of nothing.What am I doing?

I only had one meeting with him during the second business trip, and he didn't sit next to me, and left in a hurry after the meeting, as if he was going to catch a plane.I'm actually a little lost.What am I thinking?Want him to keep flirting with me?Do you want to see him more and wait to be teased by him?For the first time in my life, I found that I didn't understand my own passions.I keep reminding myself that I am a married woman with a husband who loves me and can cook for me, and I never hate women who don't obey women.What bothered me the most was not thinking about him so much, but that he hadn't done anything enough to cause me to have this unnatural sensitivity.I fucked in private without being teased, what a horrible thought.I went to the hotel to wash my face in cold water. I was so strange in the mirror. I wished I could go home and hug my husband to escape all this.

formally seduced by him The third business trip to see P is two months later.Before departure, I was inexplicably looking forward to it. I don’t deny that I wanted to see him, listen to his voice, see his expression, and be “tortured” by him.A desire drove me towards him. Did he cast a spell on me?When I saw him, I was as unnatural as if I was seen through by him at a glance. He threw a question to me at the right time: "Is it because of me that I was shivering just now?"This time the boss did not have a companion, which added to my wild fantasy and anxiety.I kept chanting like I was reciting the Peace Sutra: "I love my husband, I love my husband..." Turning around suddenly, I found that he was listening to me very closely behind me, and then left with a hideous smile.Embarrassed to death.Why does he always find ways to make me feel ashamed?

The next day, after the meeting, he sternly told me and my fellow manager to come to his hotel suite for another talk.There is no denying that he takes his work very seriously, and I have always admired him silently, especially because the white shirts he wears at work are very nice and very sexy.I blush again at the thought of this. He noticed, I was so stupid.How else does he want to torture me?It can be inferred that he is a veteran in the field of love, and his purpose is invisible. I was confused by him.After the meeting, the manager had another meeting, but P asked me to stay and discuss some details.My heart is beating.

With the two of us left, he was very gracious and asked me if I wanted a drink and played some music. "Have you always been so reserved?" I pretended not to think so, and stayed generously, showing that I had no wrong thoughts.But he showed his true colors, came over and said in a low voice: "Did anyone tell you how beautiful your eyes are?" Before I could react, he quickly kissed me on the cheek and added: "In a foreign country , this is a polite kiss, expressing respect and appreciation for women, you don't mind." I have been messed up by him, how can I find out what kind of medicine he sells in his gourd?I panicked and said that I wanted to leave, but before he could finish speaking, I staggered out of the room.God, what the hell happened?what will happenI couldn't sleep all night, so he called in the middle of the night and asked me if I couldn't sleep, saying that I suddenly thought of me, and asked if I could come to his room for a while, and he wanted to show me something.I'm stupid, but I also understand his purpose, he wants me. Oh My God!I couldn't breathe normally, and I was afraid of being discovered by him, so I said I was not feeling well and wanted to sleep, so I hung up the phone.Fortunately, I returned home the next day.

hesitation wild nature I know his purpose, and there is still a month before the next business trip, and I am in a mess.Ask yourself honestly whether you are in love with him or not.I can't answer, and I can't deny that I was intimidated by his appearance, and I often miss him, but I can't figure out his bottom line, but there is a powerful force of lust that sucks me in.I often revisit the clips of being blown kisses by him, afraid to ask myself if I want to go further and do things I shouldn't do with sexy men.His sexual invitations actually attracted me, so I hated myself for being promiscuous, because I was such a bad person in my bones, and I was also a bad woman.Once a woman confirms that she has a bad nature, she will continue to be bad, will it be like this?

Su Hei Analysis: Lillian didn't need to ask the fake question of "whether she fell in love with him", just as she also realized that lust is a natural physiological and psychological reaction. The point is not to deny it, but to control it, face and manage it, and transform energy Recycling and strengthening yourself is a mature self-healing technique, instead of suppressing yourself, the result is exactly what you want. The more you suppress, the more you will be tempted to death by it. Lillian has little love experience and rarely flirts with men. The early dedication may not be because of firm feelings, but because he has not met a match yet.When a woman is provoked by a man's lust, no matter who she is, she will have a contradictory psychological reaction, intellectually resist and disgust, but at the same time cover up her subconscious desire to be aroused.

In fact, the excitement of being pursued is also a normal physical and mental reaction of women. If you notice it, you just need to deal with it.The problem is that she may have subconsciously suppressed the desire to deviate in the long-term one-way relationship. Once the love player suddenly appeared, the sudden vanity and pleasure when the lust was aroused taught her to be unable to resist, tempted and blamed herself. All of a sudden moral collapse, swaying left and right, more likely to fall. Lillian should accept that she has a normal reaction of lust, and recognize the purpose of the other party, so as not to get confused and lose her rationality. He is a player, he only wants sex, ask himself if he can afford it?Don't turn the question to the stupid question of whether you are in love with him. Asking whether the other party is in love with you, or whether you are in love with the other party, has always been the most inappropriate fake question for women, because lust can have nothing to do with love, the mess is One's own heart, and the desire to deviate, are farther away from love than the Great Wall. The fact is that he needs the sexual stimulation of cheating, and he has no intention of love; she can't control herself as a "fledgling", and easily burns herself when she falls down, and is finally tortured to death by false feelings, unable to face her husband and herself, and falls into self-denial and self-blame What a pity in my chronic nightmare. See clearly early on, deal with it calmly and gracefully, and say no to what shouldn't happen.This is not for morality, but for self-protection. The so-called feeling of loving each other very much will be forgotten immediately when encountering another substitute.