Chapter 18 Case6. Lovers who only love constellation matching
It turns out that our feelings are very fragile, but we can deceive ourselves to love deeply,
It is okay to sacrifice for love.
Case6. Lovers who only love constellation matching
Lily. 30.Single OL.
Libra can't love Libra
No one would believe that someone like me with good looks and a career is still single.
People said I was a bachelor, kept finding me high-class boyfriends, and suggested that I go to those six-minute blind parties.I'm a fashionable woman, but I don't have the courage and face to play the embarrassing game of openly finding a mate.
But youth has come to an end.Woman 30, really very depressed.
I am a woman with typical Libra personality traits. I am not sure about too many things, vacillating, love to escape, and can't resist loneliness.It’s because I was born with a good life, so I have smooth sailing in my studies and career. However, I have never found a way out in love. I am always searching and wandering. The reality is cruel. When I have an enviable job and appearance, I lost the right to happy love.
Fate taught me that the person I love doesn't love me, and the person who loves me is not my ideal partner.I have tried to love a married man because his zodiac sign matches mine, but unfortunately he is a heartless man who cheated me of my body, money, and my pure feelings.That was the emotional trauma of 5 years ago, and I can't forget it until now.
I no longer believe in myself, I can only leave love to fate.I believe in fate, I believe in horoscopes, I believe in fortune tellers, and I believe in everything that can tell my fate.So I really like reading the horoscopes in magazines. I worship gods and believe in Buddhism and also believe in the gods of the West. I once went to Tibet to ask lamas for advice.
My friends think I’m a weirdo. The man around me who likes me is actually pretty good. He looks good and has a good career, but he’s also a Libra. Difficult, I hope that the partner is a big man who will take care of me and protect me, but he is more indecisive than me.Why find a man like yourself!
Everyone doesn't understand me.
I like that he is a Taurus
Two years ago, by chance, I met my current favorite.I work at the same place as him.He is a man with a wife and an 8-month-old daughter.He is a Taurus. He has a solid personality and doesn't like to talk, but I just fall in love with his eyes and his strength, which is my favorite personality.
Frankly speaking, I don't know him well, I can only try to understand him through the zodiac and constellation, and guess the love fortune between me and him through the horoscope.I love him so much, I think he is my MrRight.I believe he also loves me very much, because he has done many things for me without telling his wife, and takes good care of me.He said that if he had known me earlier, he would have insisted that I would not marry him. Unfortunately, he already has a wife, so he is no longer qualified to love me.I was moved, but also helpless.Is this my fate?
I know very well that we are not possible, the last time I fell in love with a married man has hurt me to death, and it ended fruitlessly.You might think I'm a self-inflicted, slutty woman, and I also think of myself as a slut who falls in love with married men, but it never occurred to me to ask him to divorce me.I was thinking about his daughter, because I also grew up in a single-parent family, and I didn't want the next generation to suffer innocently.I really think so, without any hypocrisy.He said that if I don't mind, he is willing to take care of me for the rest of my life.No matter whether he is telling the truth or not, I always hear it sweetly in my heart.
He would come to my house for two or three nights a month, and lied to his wife that he was on a business trip.Our sex life is great, he does it well every time, and he also gives me tempting designer lingerie to wear to have sex with him.He's a horny man, but I don't mind because he satisfies my sexual desires.
I once asked him if he had other women besides me, but he didn't answer me directly, he just kissed me.I know, my heart hurts again, but I can't ask more.Men are like this, and this is my life.
Fear of fortune teller's prophecy
I am very afraid of losing him, but I am also afraid of continuing to have an affair with him. In the end, I still hope to have a family, a husband who loves me, bear children for him, and be a happy housewife.I am not a career woman, and I am not a strong person. I am afraid of making decisions, so I hope that there will be a strong person to make decisions for me, so that I can feel the happiness of being loved.
I really want to know if there will be a future if we develop with him like this.I hope for a miracle, so I heard from a friend of a friend that I made a special trip to Shanghai to meet an expert who was said to be very accurate in fortune-telling.He said that I will meet my future husband within six months.
Impatient, I asked him if he was the married man I was in love with now.But he shook his head and said no, and said that this man lied to me, and we will break up soon.For some reason, I was actually very disturbed after hearing this, although I always hoped to have a good husband and live a good life.But why did he lie to me?
Half a year is coming soon, I am very afraid, afraid of losing him, I am not willing to part with him.If I can be with him, I am willing to exchange 10 years of my life.Am I unwise?Maybe yes, to be honest, he never promised me anything, he only said that he wanted to take care of me for the rest of his life, but until now, he has not spent any money on me, except for those obscene clothes for his entertainment.He may also be lying to me as the fortune teller said, he only wants my body... But I still love him very much, and I can't bear him to leave me.
I don't want to believe the fortune teller's prophecy, but I dare not disbelieve it.Is this my fate?I know that what I want is a name, a husband, I know I won't be with him forever, and he may not be serious, but I don't know what I want, I don't want to lose him, I love him very much, It drives me crazy……
What should I do?
Su Hei Analysis:
How can we lose what we have never had?
What Lily fears in her heart is that she will lose someone by her side, not that she is afraid of losing.She never got him, so there is no such thing as losing.She knew that she wanted a stable married life, and neither the present one nor the past one were ideal candidates, but she was afraid of being lonely, so she hooked up with them, convincing herself that she is now happily desolate, losing her mind, and would rather exchange 10 years of her life What is it?Think clearly.How many 10 years can we have?She wants to believe in a fortune teller, but she is also afraid of facing reality, "knowing" that her husband will appear in the future, what else is she afraid of?Afraid that when true happiness appears, she will lose the current misfortune? Lily is so contradictory and lacks self-confidence that she has nothing to say!
True happiness requires reason, not destiny.Finding the wrong man will only make you miserable, but it is your choice.
The so-called feeling of loving each other very much will be forgotten immediately when encountering another substitute.It turns out that our feelings are very fragile, but we can deceive ourselves to love deeply and sacrifice for love.This is a very naive idea!
There will definitely be great changes in 10 years. If variables are to appear, they cannot be avoided. This is also the only way for everyone to grow.Constellations and divination are not the beacons of love. Whether it is true or not, credible or not is not the point. The point is superstitious mentality, which makes people regress, even degenerate, and lose the ability to be independent. This is the danger of superstition.
Many lost women use the horoscope to find their personality and fortune.You must know that most of the constellation data in low-level publications are scribbled things, which lead people to get lost more than give pointers.Women just believe in it, like to be stereotyped, and are viciously hypnotized by them, thinking that people with a certain constellation have a certain personality.Are Libras necessarily vacillating?Are Taurus men necessarily reliable?It's just that you are willing to be stereotyped by the constellation and give yourself an excuse to be obsessed with him.
You actually want to rely on.
Do you want to degenerate or progress?Whether it is infatuation or superstition or losing oneself, the one who loses in the end is yourself.
Not everyone can fall in love, maybe it's because the fate hasn't arrived, maybe it's because you are too blind.Love is very realistic, and you can't be too emotional or risky, especially if you are not a casual and strong person, then it is better to be down-to-earth.Returning to autonomous reason is the beacon of love.