Chapter 8 Chapter Eight Say Love Boldly

"Smart words make color, freshness and benevolence."From ancient times to the present, a man's silence has been regarded as the greatest virtue. Once upon a time, just like the popular advertising slogan - "a man talks beer without talking", silence was once considered a sign of a cool man.Full of reason and good at controlling his emotions, he is regarded as a real man.On the contrary, those who talk softly and chase women's asses all day long are regarded as "dog men" and are looked down upon. However, after decades or even half a century, this masculine aesthetics has completely collapsed.

"Silence is golden, eloquence is silver" is a thing of the past, now "eloice is gold".A new evaluation criterion has been introduced into the identification clause of a good man-whether it can make a woman happy physically and mentally. Therefore, rhetoric is no longer a bad thing, but an important benchmark for measuring a good man. Being good at complimenting and pleasing a woman is not necessarily coaxing.He who pleases women, talks about love, and satisfies women sexually is a lovely and sexy man. "I like that kind of man", modern women have no taboo to express their love.Once a woman has social status and economic strength, rich men are no longer the only choice.I don't require too high a social status, as long as I am a man who can make me happy physically and mentally, and a man who is happy as long as I can be together... The size standard for women to measure men has changed.

Those who were labeled as "dog men" in the past are now favored as "good men". On the contrary, the "cool men" who used to be silent in the past have plummeted in value, and the final conclusion is that "a boring box is boring. Not fun." Most Japanese men are not good at words.But still wishful thinking - women will see us. In fact, such a man is no longer in the market. So, how can we have the magical skills of talking about love? Japanese men who are timid and timid often think, "What can I say to make the other party happy?" "Is it too hypocritical to say this?" This kind of "positive thinking" is of no help.It's better to praise women directly and "without shame".

The so-called love skill is to express your love "without thinking".Don't think that a simple sentence "you are so beautiful" is a compliment to women.Stupid people always think that when they see a woman, they must first compliment her on how beautiful her face is.In fact, there are not many people who are praised as beauties purely because of their beauty. If you think it's too straightforward to praise her beauty, you can also praise her hairstyle and skin, but if it doesn't work, focus on her clothing and accessories.There is always a bright spot, a beautiful point, to be praised.The key is to express the beauty of women as soon as possible.

Those who really can’t even say this, might as well send text messages. Yes, if you want to please a woman, you should at least wear a mobile phone.Don't be too annoying to send text messages, but send some pictures and texts from time to time.The cuteness of the old man is very attractive to women. To please women, to make women happy physically and mentally, was first advocated and practiced best in Europe. Especially Latin American men, the education they receive from childhood is the loyalty and perception of love and sex.I have developed the habit of praising and pleasing women by my ears and eyes.

But don't forget that Japan also has good examples.If you read the novels more than a thousand years ago, you will know that high-grade lust is one of the upbringings of the upper class. Incisively and vividly describes the true love between men and women, among which Genji's outstanding talk about love is completely worthy of being a love book in today's society. For example, the volume of "Broomwood". Genji lodged with a wealthy family for asylum.One day, through the paper door, I happened to see Xuxian Kongchan from a rich family talking to a boy. It all poured out.

"Perhaps, this is too abrupt and presumptuous, and lacks politeness. In fact, I have fallen in love with you a long time ago, and I confess my true feelings like this. I have been waiting so hard for so long, please don't regard me as a flamboyant." Genji's quick-witted and nonchalant talk is definitely a subtle and bold courtship.Facing the hesitant Kong Chan, Genji continued to express his love.Yes, once a man decides to say love, he must do it in one go.Don't put on a show, just play with your accent.If you hesitate halfway, you'll lose your "sex"—like stale beer.

Kong Chan, half forced and half helplessly carried into the bedroom, still refused: "I am humble and lowly, how dare I have any unreasonable thoughts." Genji did not relax: "Why, keep avoiding timidity again and again? Since the opportunity is bestowed by God, it must be due to a predestined relationship in the previous life, and we are married today. Such a romantic relationship is incomprehensible, and there is nothing to be sad about." "Predestined relationship in previous lives" is purely made up, and it can be made up wherever you think of it. But it works for women.Kong Chan, who was forced to this point by Genji, could no longer escape: a fait accompli, we can only agree with each other...

Genji's ingenuity lies in faithfully accepting all the women's "excuses" - all because of your compulsion and willfulness - and bravely playing the role of "bad guy": Yes, compulsion and willfulness, the "bad" is me. Kong Chan felt confident, she fell into Genji's arms and closed her eyes with peace of mind. Genji was only seventeen years old at the time.A rare talent, a rare eloquence.Being able to cultivate like this did not happen overnight.However, the love-talking technique in "Broomwood" is worth learning from.Whether it is true or false, speak it boldly first—this was the case in the past, and it should be the case today.

The example of Genji tells us that love is indispensable in love.Sometimes, saying love is not limited to being in love.In all interpersonal relationships between husband and wife, children, same-sex friends, etc., love plays a key role. It can also promote pleasant emotional exchanges between each other and make the other party feel comfortable. Of course, it can also relieve the tension when speaking. Enumerating so many importances of saying love does not mean that saying love is equal to saying love. Before you say love, you must emotionally attract a woman to your side.Leaving aside a person like Genji who has a head and a face and status, most mature people do not have such status and financial resources, so it is not easy to make women interested in what you say.

It is even more difficult to make the other party have sexual interest and make the other party want to get close to you. The caveat here is that you must never tell about yourself, especially about your pretentious past. Once you retire, you will lose your business card and official title.Loneliness is unbearable, and he is particularly concerned about his past official titles and "great achievements" he has done. All people, especially young people, hate hearing old people talk about the past, especially about their self-satisfaction.Upon hearing this, he immediately got up and left.Compare your heart with your heart, as if you are disappointed when you hear others boasting. Even if you say the wrong thing, you will never be pretentious or boastful.In fact, whether it is "extraordinary" or not, you will naturally understand after dating. It would be better to talk about some failed experiences and some silly stupid things, so that everyone will have a good impression of this old man and find this old man cute and funny. Yes, this cuteness and humor are too important, and all the romances and loves of the Platinum Generation have begun since then. Japan has had a "word spirit belief" since ancient times, believing in the power of words.Just saying "You are so good" is enough to change a woman and bring her into a new life. I myself am a person who is changed by words. When I was in the first grade of middle school.In the Chinese class, the teacher asked to faithfully express his sincere feelings in the form of words with 31 words. I believe that a handwritten poem was praised by the teacher, and I fell in love with Chinese after being pleasantly surprised.The more you love, the better you write, and the more praise you get as a result.Being praised has inspired my strong passion for literature.The more you praise, the harder you work. I once asked a famous painter with a good personal relationship: "Why do you want to be a painter?" He replied: "There is no special reason." Painting, praised: "The painting is very good."He was so happy that he was dying, so he worked hard to paint and was praised again.Now that you have been praised, let’s work harder to draw. As a result, the harder you work, the more you are praised. The more you praise, the harder you work, and the better you draw. When I arrived in junior high school, the art teacher also praised: "The painting is really good." "Just like this, I went back and forth among the praises, and I became a painter unknowingly," he said lightly. It can be seen that many talents are inspired by the encouragement of others. The opportunity to stimulate intelligence is created by words. On the contrary, those who claim to be "no talent and no wisdom" just haven't met someone who can stimulate their intelligence.However, it is not too late, as long as someone praises you, you may awaken new talents. In this way, words of praise sometimes have great potential to change lives. Give it a try and praise the people around you. Is the dialogue between husband and wife, mutual praise already too rare? After Japanese men retire, they will immediately get close to their wives and rely on them, but not all wives will comply with their husbands' requirements and live in harmony.Among them, there are also some wives who resent their husbands for neglecting the family and treat them deliberately and coldly as revenge.Even if it is not so excessive, as long as the husband is at home, the wife will feel unaccustomed and uncomfortable, appear restless and worried.To eliminate the quarrel between husband and wife and fill the gap between husband and wife, good words of love can come in handy. People who have trouble speaking in person can write notes.Those who are hard-won and reticent all the year round can start with the morning greetings.The important thing is to open your mouth and gossip. "Today's hairstyle is nice", "Today's breakfast is delicious", etc.When your wife beams with joy when she hears a compliment, you rediscover the power of words. Good talk about love fosters great relationships.Start from the side first, and then practice it bravely and boldly. First of all, you have to do it, firmly believe that you can do it, and take the first step bravely. With the first step, there will be the second step. In the near future, your heart will surely shine like platinum.