Chapter 14 Chapter 12 Meeting a rare bosom friend——The way of expressing the subconscious mind

"How does the subconscious communicate with us?" After Ruo Ling finished the product launch, this question has been haunting her. During the product launch, Ruo Ling finally realized the benefits of applying the old man's teachings to life.As usual, the day before the press conference, Ruo Ling would be so nervous that she couldn't sleep well.On the day of the press conference, Ruo Ling felt her heart beating faster and her hands and feet were sweating, which was a typical panic disorder. But this time Ruo Ling felt much better, because she remembered what the old man taught: "You are not your job, you are not your performance, you are not your success, and you are not your failure. These external things cannot be shaken at all. Your inner true self, see clearly the false identity of the ego!"

Although Ruoling still doesn't feel her true self, she found that the "none of the above" self-denial method is very effective. She reminded herself repeatedly like a mantra: "I am not my job, I am not mine... "As a result, the press conference went extremely smoothly, with more guests than in previous years, and the press conference was held with great vigor and vigor. Therefore, Ruo Ling feels that after she doesn't work so hard, the effect is very good; more importantly, she feels relaxed and happy, so she can enjoy the results of the work better. "This year's performance appraisal should be super excellent!" Ruo Ling's phone rang when she was happy, and she saw that it was actually Li Jianxin calling.

Ruo Ling was actually thinking whether he should ask him about subconsciousness, but the phone call came unexpectedly. Is this the synchronicity that Jung said? ① "How have you been recently?" Li Jianxin asked on the other end of the phone. "Oh, very good, I just finished the product launch event!" Ruo Ling replied happily. "Oh, that's just right, let's come out and talk! How about tomorrow night?" Li Jianxin's voice was full of expectation. "Well... I'll ask if Zhiming is free." For so many years, Ruo Ling is not used to meeting and eating alone with men.

"Oh...Of course, it's an old classmate, and I haven't seen him for a long time." Li Jianxin didn't expect Ruo Ling to mention Zhiming. "I'll call you again at night!" Ruo Ling hurriedly hung up the line, blushing.I don't know why I am so sensitive, but it's just old classmates meeting for dinner and catching up, not to mention that Ruo Ling really wants to ask him something. "What is my subconscious mind doing?" Ruo Ling thought it was funny. ＊＊＊ The next evening, Ruo Ling and Li Jianxin met alone.Zhiming was not free, so he said that he had to catch up with the thesis, so he asked Ruo Lingdai to ask Li Jianxin.This hit Ruo Ling's heart, because if Zhiming was around, she would be embarrassed to talk too much with Li Jianxin.

Li Jianxin chose a western restaurant on the top floor of a high-end hotel, where he could have a panoramic view of the night view of the city.Ruo Ling was pregnant with ghosts, and didn't know where to ask, but fortunately, Li Jianxin preemptively asked: "Did you find the information from last time?" "Well, I found some good information." Ruo Ling couldn't help sharing with him the model of the carriage that the old man said. Li Jianxin's eyes lit up when he heard this, and he kept asking Ruoling where he found this material.Ruo Ling couldn't help it, so she could only vaguely say that she synthesized some things and came up with it.

"Wow, you really deserve to be the goddess in my heart!" Li Jianxin said in admiration without emotion, making Ruoling flush with shame.On the one hand, she felt ashamed, and on the other hand, she had a vague feeling that Li Jianxin had actually had a crush on her since college, but she couldn't resist such an explicit expression. "I'm sorry, I'm so excited." Li Jianxin felt a little embarrassed when he saw Ruo Ling's reaction. The ego in Ruo Ling's heart was secretly happy, but she joked, "Is it the 'god' of nerves?" Li Jianxin said sincerely: "Really, I rarely meet such a bosom friend!"

Hearing this, Ruo Ling thought in her heart, how she wished that Zhi Ming would be her bosom friend by her side! After a pause, Ruo Ling asked: "Based on your understanding, what method do you think the subconscious mind usually uses to communicate with us?" "Psychologists generally say that dreams are the bridge from the subconscious to the conscious." Li Jianxin replied without thinking. ② "So the subconscious mind has the function of warning?" Ruo Ling's impression of the dream seems to be an omen. "Not only that, dreams can give us a lot of inspiration and encouragement, and they may also sort out and show you some of the mentality of your daytime life at the time of the dream. Of course, dreams have the function of warning and guiding, and at the same time, they can let you vent your emotions. Your own repressed personality traits." Li Jianxin said a lot in one breath.

Ruo Ling tried her best to pretend that she understood what he was talking about, and then asked easily: "Apart from dreams?" Li Jianxin froze for a moment, surprised at how quickly she changed the subject. However, he continued to provide his own opinions: "There are many seemingly simple life events that seem insignificant, but there are some hidden information. For example, you want to work in a certain industry, so you have to take a test for a license. Can’t find the test admission ticket, traffic jams, etc., and many unsatisfactory things happen one after another, which shows that your subconscious actually doesn’t want to take this road.”

"There are still some life patterns that recur..." Ruo Ling tried her best to answer, trying to use some "routine" skills. "Yes! Exactly!" Li Jianxin immediately agreed with the goddess, although he himself was more like a demigod. "If your relationships repeat the same pattern over and over again, say your co-workers, your boss and you get along, wherever you go you meet the same people, the same things, the same way of interacting, then you are Know that it is a subconscious pattern that is controlling your fate and behavior!" "Yes, this is a good way to find our hidden life automatic navigation system model." Ruo Ling deliberately used a series of technical terms she stole from the old man, but in fact she couldn't figure out what she was talking about. "And..." Ruo Ling pretended to be thinking...

"The other thing is that you slipped the tongue, said or did some things inadvertently. Although they are not the same as your original intention, they may be the real thoughts in your subconscious mind." Li Jian couldn't help it, and said it out first. Ruo Ling immediately nodded her head in agreement, thinking that I must remember these points carefully.At this time, she thought of the emotions mentioned in the movie and the addiction of Shengpeptide, so she said cautiously: "There are still some addictions..." "That's right!" Li Jianxin slapped his thigh! "Addiction, that's right. Why didn't I expect that some people clearly know that smoking is bad, but they can't stop this kind of slow suicide behavior. This is the best example of subconscious manipulation!"

What he said was not exactly the same as what Ruo Ling said, but Ruo Ling felt that what he said was very reasonable and nodded in agreement. After a meal, Ruo Ling collected enough information, and Li Jianxin also felt that he had met a bosom friend. The two sides took what they needed and went home happily. (to be continued)