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Chapter 12 Chapter 10 When Spirituality Meets Science—We Create Our Own World

meet the unknown self 张德芬 2152Words 2018-03-18
The crowd of people coming to the studio gradually poured in, Ruo Ling quickly found a seat and sat down.The hostess briefly introduced the background of the movie, saying that when it was released in the United States in 2004, it was a hit at the box office that year. The reason for the blockbuster is not that many people went to see it, but that one person watched it many times, and a lawyer watched it ten times because he didn't believe why he couldn't understand a movie. Ruo Ling thought, it's over, I have no hope at all. However, if you come here, you will be safe, and if you don't understand it, just appreciate the hero and heroine!At the end of the first movie, Ruo Ling was in a state of bewilderment and self-defeating, when the hostess came on stage.I heard that she used to be a TV news anchor in Taiwan, so she must have good eloquence.After her clear and vivid guidance, Ruo Ling finally understood the meaning of the movie just now.Roughly speaking: Our brains process 400 billion bits of information per second, but we are only aware of 2,000 bits of information.

Therefore, we will selectively look at things, and use this to experience people and things in this world. As for how to choose, it is influenced by the various conventional concepts, beliefs, standards, values, etc. that the individual has been instilled since childhood, and it is completely different from person to person.Therefore, everyone looks around every day, and what he sees is what he wants to see, and the brain will automatically get rid of other things. "Is this how everyone's values ​​and prejudices are formed?" Ruo Ling thought, but she was embarrassed to raise her hand to ask.

This video also talks about the "material reality" and "the observer affects the observed" that the old man once asked Ruo Ling to study. Ruo Ling is confident about this part, and he is very proud that he has received "secret teachings", the tail of the ego It started to warp up. Ruo Ling suddenly felt that she was like the protagonist in Jin Yong's novels. She was born in a poor family and had ordinary qualifications, but because of chance, she met an expert, and after giving advice, coupled with her own hard work, she finally practiced a lifetime of magical skills...

Another shocking sentence from the hostess interrupted Ruo Ling's martial arts daydream: "Because everything is the vibration of energy, and the observer will affect the observed, so we create our own world." Ruo Ling felt that this sentence was still difficult to digest. "We created our own world? Then everyone's world should be beautiful, why is this world still so ugly?" Ruo Ling didn't dare to refute on the spot. The movie also said, "Scientists have proved that the same object can exist in different places at the same time", and there are photos to prove it.

"So what?" Ruo Ling thought, "If this is the case, then the god stick who claimed to be able to clone himself the year before last and was imprisoned last year was misunderstood by everyone. He should be a guru, not a god stick!" Ruo Ling sniggering. At the beginning of the second film, Ruo Ling was dazed by the neurobiological and biochemical reactions of the brain in the film, and her eyelids were covered with sleepy bugs.When the hostess came to the stage, Ruo Ling was refreshed. Sure enough, being a newscaster is different.She concluded: "If you keep doing something repeatedly, physiologically, we will establish a long-term and fixed relationship between some of our nerve cells. It's miserable...then you're rewiring and integrating that neural network repeatedly every day. It becomes an emotional pattern for you."

Ruo Ling thought, then my nerve to get angry when encountering unsatisfactory things must be very rough! "What's worse," the hostess changed the subject, "when we have some kind of emotional feeling at the level of the body or the brain, our hypothalamus will immediately assemble a chemical substance called "peptide" ①, and then The blood runs to every cell in our body...accepted by thousands of receptors around the cells. Over time, the receptors have a specific appetite for a certain peptide and will produce hunger. So if you have not been angry for a long time , your cells give you a biological need to lose your temper..."

This is really scary, isn't it the same as drug addiction? ! Ruo Ling couldn't sit still anymore, she couldn't bear to receive so much information a day, and she didn't want to analyze it anymore.She slipped out quietly while the third movie was playing. *************** Back home, Zhiming hadn't come back yet, and he vaguely remembered that he said that there was a celebration party at school tonight to celebrate a female colleague who was promoted to a professor.Ruo Ling was a little hungry, so she went into the kitchen to cook something to eat. Thinking about the past few weeks, since meeting the old man, Ruoling's cynical temper seems to have changed, at least the number of temper tantrums has decreased a lot, and she feels relieved.

But it seems that the distance with Zhiming is getting farther and farther. I used to talk about some things about the company when I went home. Although I complained about this and that, complaining is also a kind of communication.Recently, Ruo Ling spends a lot of time introspecting, recalling what the old man said a lot, and using what happened that day to analyze and corroborate it, so she seldom talks.And Zhiming was also very silent during this period of time, and the two hadn't felt intimacy for a long time. Up to now, Ruo Ling has not mentioned the matter of the old man to Zhiming.She could imagine the disdainful face of Zhiming, a materialist.She herself is still groping in doubt, so she hopes to tell Zhiming after she has figured it out.

Thinking about it, Ruo Ling fell asleep on the sofa. When Ruo Ling was woken up by the sound of pushing the door, she looked at the clock, it was past twelve o'clock.Looking up at Zhiming who had just entered the door, he was a little drunk, and would always complain about him, but today he felt that Zhiming's face was flushed, which was really good-looking. Zhiming was a little surprised that Ruo Ling hadn't slept yet, he lowered his head and said apologetically, "Go to K Song, I'm late." Ruo Ling didn't speak, she took Zhi Ming's hand and sat down.Ruoling knew that Zhiming was afraid of her getting angry, this was a common drama in the past.But Ruoling is a little different, and tonight, she hopes to have a close relationship with Zhiming.

"It's been a long time since I did it," Ruo Ling thought, "Zhiming should be very happy with my embrace!" The two have been together for more than ten years, making love is no longer new, and Ruo Ling especially has no interest.As a man, Zhiming has some physical needs after all, Ruo Ling can cooperate when he is in a good mood, and when he is in a bad mood, he pretends not to know, is tired, and has a headache. Anyway, he has used all kinds of tricks. "I'm tired." Of course Zhiming understood Ruo Ling's meaning, but said vaguely. Ruo Ling was taken aback, "Isn't this my usual excuse? How did it become his?"

After the two of them went to bed, Ruo Ling still didn't give up, and reached out to touch Zhiming's chest. This was Zhiming's sensitive zone, and it was also the part of Zhiming's body that Ruoling admired the most.Zhiming's chest muscles are developed and open, which can best express his masculinity.But Zhiming hummed, turned over, turned his back to Ruoling, and started snoring within a minute. Ruo Ling was angry, her "ego" shrank to the point of nowhere, and she didn't fall asleep until midnight when she opened her eyes. (to be continued)
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