Chapter 2 Confidence is the first bucket of gold in life

People often ask me how I got my first pot of gold, where I got it, and how much.In fact, every time someone asks me this question, I want to say that the first pot of gold for a person is self-confidence.Don't be afraid even if you have no money, self-confidence is your capital.Some people also add a bad modifier in front of self-confidence, called blind self-confidence, which I don't like to hear.I've said many times how bad ego is, but I think one of the few good things that has a little to do with ego is self-confidence.Confidence, of course, has self-awareness, and faith, faith that believes.Believe it is positive and healthy.Believe in yourself.A person who believes in himself will believe in others and the future.

One should not feel inferior, and one must not divide oneself into different levels, and classify oneself into a certain level to limit one's own energy.I went to school in Lanzhou when I was 14 and a half years old. I was so poor that I only had one pair of trousers, so I worried throughout the semester whether the trousers would be worn out.This caused me great psychological pressure. I was always worried that the pants would be torn, and every time I stood up, I had to sneak to see if there was a hole in the back.At that time, I really felt inferior, because I had a pair of torn pants, I walked aside when I was walking, I couldn’t find a good posture when I stood in line, and I didn’t have the energy at all.When we say that a person is spiritual, it means that he presents a positive and upward state.He is magnanimous and kind when dealing with people; he is hardworking, daring to take responsibility and not afraid of difficulties when dealing with things.Such a spiritual person can form and attract others to associate with or work with.I remember my dad said two words to me very solemnly when I was young: don’t cause trouble if you have nothing to do, and don’t be afraid of trouble if you have something to do.If I encounter difficulties and think of these two sentences, I will mobilize all the energy in my body at once.When I went to school to give a speech, I also told college students that this generation of college students should be psychologically strong.To be able to see what is lacking in our era, and then what we can do, don't sneak around and go around.A limp person and a cunning person, no one dares to work with him.

A confident person dares to tell the truth, even if the truth hurts others, others will trust you in the end, because he can hold you.Confident people are not afraid to expose their individuality, and dare to reveal their true heart.What I say is what I think in my heart, and I will not cater to anyone.Personality is based on truth.If you are authentic, don't be afraid of your personality being discovered.From the perspective of market exchange, we have a principle, which is differential exchange.If you have a pear and I have an apple, exchange can occur. If everyone is a pear, there will be no exchange.Confident people dare to take out their own apples.

This point is the most inspiring to me is the cartoon "Mulan".Hua Mulan's father said to Hua Mulan: "Every flower that blooms on a tree is unique. You may be the last one to bloom, but you must be the most beautiful." This sentence is very good , is a big reason.Now we talk about publicizing individuality. I don’t think individuality has to be deliberately publicized, it’s better to exist naturally.Personality and ego are not the same.Personality is the characteristic of your objective existence. You are an honest person, a clever person, or a person who blinks when you talk. These naturally occurring personalities are your signs.But once everyone is encouraged to publicize their individuality, individuality may become a subjective setting.He has short hair, but he has long hair in order to be different.And this personality is not his own, but a latest development and design.We can appreciate his innovations in his image, but to say it's his personality would be an understatement.Personality is an inherent and constant individual characteristic, and it is the basis for understanding and grasping each other. If this basis can be designed at will, people really cannot be trusted.