Chapter 62 Skill 55 Killing Zan Art
Do you need the most powerful move in your treasure bag to open up business opportunities, ignite friendship, and even detonate romance?I'm going to teach you a trick now, but on one condition: you must be careful about its lethality.Once you master this trick, your tongue becomes a deadly weapon.This trick is called the art of praise, which is to praise the clear personal characteristics of others.
It is difficult to use the art of killing zan for the first time, so I took a slight detour when teaching this technique in the workshop. Halfway through the course, I asked the students to close their eyes and think about what they knew from the previous practice. any group member, and I say, "Think of something about this partner's appearance or personality. It's not necessarily something you'd compliment. For example, his smile is really cute, or Her eyes twinkled, or he radiated trustworthiness, figured it out?"
If you're talking to a stranger who is likely to play a pivotal role in your personal or professional future, look for one definite, unique quality in him or her. When the two of them were about to finish their conversation, they looked straight into his eyes.Say his name first, and then say your killer praise, the other party will be full of joy. Then suddenly I said out loud, "Okay, now go find that guy and tell him the good things you noticed!" The thought stunned the students.Gradually, one by one, they mustered up the courage to walk up to the team member and used the art of killing praise.Hearing a near stranger compliment one's beautiful hands, or the depth of one's eyes, filled everyone with joy.Every corner of the venue was filled with laughter.Standing on the stage, I saw all the faces off the stage, with reddish cheeks and shy smiles. No one dislikes others using this trick on themselves, and Bishazan Art established a friendship between the two. This trick is the same as a cannon, if you are not careful, it will go off.Here's what to look out for when using this powerful weapon. Rule 1: Must kill art must be used in private.If you stand with four or five people and only praise one woman for being slim, the other women must feel like a bucket of lard.If you tell a guy that he's a man of beauty, other guys will feel like they're a clock tower.Plus, you're embarrassing the person you're complimenting. Rule 2: Killer compliments must have credibility.Take myself as an example, I am a sound patient.Even the simplest happy birthday song, I can sing like a sow.If anyone is stupid enough to tell me he likes my singing, I'll treat his compliments like pig's rot. Rule 3: Repeat this trick on the same person at least half a year apart.Otherwise, others will think that you are insincere and flattering, and you must have intentions in your heart.That would be bad. If you can aim accurately, the art of Zanshazan can take everyone down.However, the effect of the must-kill praise art is still the greatest when it is used on people who are new to it.If you want to compliment your friends every day, use this trick.
If you're talking to a stranger who is likely to play a pivotal role in your personal or professional future, look for one definite, unique quality in him or her. When the two of them were about to finish their conversation, they looked straight into his eyes.Say his name first, and then say your killer praise, the other party will be full of joy. Then suddenly I said out loud, "Okay, now go find that guy and tell him the good things you noticed!" The thought stunned the students.Gradually, one by one, they mustered up the courage to walk up to the team member and used the art of killing praise.Hearing a near stranger compliment one's beautiful hands, or the depth of one's eyes, filled everyone with joy.Every corner of the venue was filled with laughter.Standing on the stage, I saw all the faces off the stage, with reddish cheeks and shy smiles. No one dislikes others using this trick on themselves, and Bishazan Art established a friendship between the two. This trick is the same as a cannon, if you are not careful, it will go off.Here's what to look out for when using this powerful weapon. Rule 1: Must kill art must be used in private.If you stand with four or five people and only praise one woman for being slim, the other women must feel like a bucket of lard.If you tell a guy that he's a man of beauty, other guys will feel like they're a clock tower.Plus, you're embarrassing the person you're complimenting. Rule 2: Killer compliments must have credibility.Take myself as an example, I am a sound patient.Even the simplest happy birthday song, I can sing like a sow.If anyone is stupid enough to tell me he likes my singing, I'll treat his compliments like pig's rot. Rule 3: Repeat this trick on the same person at least half a year apart.Otherwise, others will think that you are insincere and flattering, and you must have intentions in your heart.That would be bad. If you can aim accurately, the art of Zanshazan can take everyone down.However, the effect of the must-kill praise art is still the greatest when it is used on people who are new to it.If you want to compliment your friends every day, use this trick.