Chapter 33 5.Show-offs are spoiled kids

Personality Type: Show off Comprehensive psychological strength index: ★ Typical character: Kong Yiji Character traits: Absolute emptiness. A performer is enough to give the impression of vanity.But compared to a person with a flaunting personality, he is a bit insignificant. In this world, some people are tortured by low self-esteem, and they spend their whole lives trying to break free from their powerless fate and the shadow of childhood; Everyone is regarded as the target of attack. Without a target, his life will lose its meaning; Constantly beautify and show off yourself, and prove to the world how awesome and glamorous you are, so as to gain a sense of value.

Show-offs are basically spoiled kids.It's not that they're kids, it's that they never grow up psychologically. Every child likes to compare himself with other children. At first they compare whose toys are more fun and beautiful, and later they start to compare whose parents are richer and more powerful.It can be concluded that the children who are fixed in this psychological stage and finally develop a showy personality in the future are neither the best nor the worst.Even if their parents do not spoil them, at least they will not beat or scold them. For people with a showy personality, the living environment of "more than the top, more than the bottom" makes their ego rarely suffer setbacks when they are young.However, precisely because they have neither suffered much setbacks nor are they all loved by thousands of people, their ego and the world have not established a firm connection, and they have been floating on the surface of the world.The ostentatious person has neither much love nor much hatred for the world, so he is afraid that others will not know who he is, and he is afraid that he will be overwhelmed by the world.

Unfortunately, just because they have neither much love nor much hate for the world, show-offs don't remember it deeply, so they are extremely insensitive to it.This has led to a phenomenon that they seldom develop the sensitivity of the inferiority type, the fanaticism of the possessive type, and the strong desire to attack and perform.They are empty-minded, soulless, and can only represent their selves by their social attributes, the scarce resources they possess.Therefore, it seems that people of the flamboyant type succumb to the social value order more than any other type of person, and are very keen on showing off their beauty, money, and power.

If you want to use one emotion or mental state to represent a personality type, then the inferiority type is fear, the aggressive type is anger, the possessive type is fanaticism, the performance type is anxiety, and the show-off type. man is empty.Yes, emptiness is their characteristic and their worst enemy. As I said before, people who show off can't do much in this world.Because they are extremely insensitive to the world, unable to refine their mental state into a kind of possession and creation of the world.Their character is only suitable for others to provide them with props to show off, and then they use it to dance around.

Psychologically, they are parasites.In reality, often too. There is no doubt that the vast majority of people who show off are vain and vain.Like aggressive people, most of them can't do much in this world. And when they are showing off (also performing), they don't care as much about the audience's reaction as performers.Half of their show off is a show for the world, and half is a show for themselves.It doesn't really matter how the world sees your performance if you can convince yourself that your performance is successful. Because all they need is this psychological effect: Look, you noticed me, how awesome I am.

Identifying a showy type is much easier than identifying other personality types.Firstly, people of the ostentatious type never hide, as long as a specific situation arises, they immediately wish to show off what they think is the best thing; secondly, their actions are generally exaggerated, their language is superficial, and their expressions are superficial; Third, they are not interested in many serious matters of human life. Accurately speaking, show-offs do not have mature values, at least not as typical of other personality types.They belong to this kind of people, who are born into this world by accident, show off, find a little feeling that they live in this world, and they are not bad, and then leave, leaving nothing behind.

They basically only have two values: game life and possession. Combination: ostentatious personality + desire to possess = greedy person In this world, there are miserly people and there are generous people; there are greedy people and there are greedy people. Most misers are possessive people who don’t have any beliefs. Their belief is the most vulgar property. Giving others a little property is tantamount to killing them; inferiority-type people and performative people are sometimes generous. Time is something outside of them; those who have no desires and desires are mostly gentle people, who have nothing to do with the world and don't worry about gains and losses.Greed is concentrated in possessive and ostentatious people, especially if a ostentatious person is keen on possession.

Combination: Show-off personality + game life = surly person The ostentatious people in No Game No Life are surly, supercilious, showing indifference and hostility towards the world.But they will not be hypocritical.When encountering complicated situations and encountering people who are stronger than them, their performances often screw up.Play with a possessive, a showman, it's easy to take advantage of them. Just like other Game Life people, the ostentatious people in Game Life often show indifference to life and the world through their eyes and corners of their mouths.But this kind of indifference is often interpreted by them as arrogance.They actually don't care much about what others think of them, but for them, life is tedious without the exclamation of the crowd.

People who are also showing off, greedy people are far more cunning than surly people.The latter will not rack their brains to take advantage of others, but the former will.In extreme cases, even if the greedy person is very rich and does not lack a few dollars, he will take as long as he can take advantage of a few dollars. Under normal circumstances, he always shows off in front of others how rich his family is and how good he is. Broadly speaking, surlyness and greed are both diseases.