Chapter 31 3.Possessive people can quickly simplify the complex world to their advantage or not

Personality Type: Possessive Comprehensive psychological strength index: ★★★ Typical character: He Shen Personality Traits: Possession makes life meaningful. If we want to survive, we must possess food, nourishment and other things.We also like to own a house, a car, whatever, to marry a wife, or to play mind games with other people. However, not all people are possessive, because for many people, it may just be a need of life.Only in this case does the psychological tendency to possess constitute character: possess for the sake of possessing, if I don't possess a pile of money, I don't have pleasure, or I can't live psychologically.

Possessive people have an obvious characteristic: the "self" seems to have never developed.Relying on the ego, a possessive person cannot survive psychologically. He must constantly possess many things in the world and fill them in so as to make his ego strong.The more possessions he has, the more powerful he feels. Possessive people are keen on taking advantage and are selfish.If there is no benefit, he will not waste time. The most snobbish people in this world are not necessarily possessive, but what is certain is that they are generally snobbish, and many times they don't hide it hypocritically.They treat you differently when you are poor and when you are rich.When they make friends, they socialize selectively.Basically, they have no friends.They also have little love, and women are just goods for them to show off their worth.They lack sympathy and will not easily give a few pennies to a street beggar.They are economically savvy, good at rational calculation, and can quickly simplify this complex world to his advantage or not.

Possessive people do not believe in fate, but in luck and miracles.For them, fate is a frustrating thing, and they refuse to submit to it.But they always look forward to good luck again and again, looking forward to a miracle happening one day. Combination: Possessive personality + eager to possess = possessive A possessive person will almost instinctively choose possessive values ​​to "fit" with his personality, telling himself that it is right to madly chase power, money, and beautiful women. For them, the world is a gold mine, a supermarket, and nothing else.And to be able to dig out the gold and take it as their own, and to be able to move home as much as possible the things in the supermarket is the purpose of their coming to this world.

If they have a hundred dollars, they will never look down on a penny, but will also keep this penny in their pockets.This is because, psychologically, what a penny represents is as important as what a hundred dollars represents. For this type of possessive people, what they possess is their life.Take these things away and they will fight you hard. Combination: Possessive personality + having some kind of ideal = "successful person" or potential "successful person" In this world, someone uses money to serve his ideal. , and even go bankrupt.Such people are often low self-esteem type.

The reason is simple, for them, money itself does not bring meaning, it is just a tool.A life in which a certain ideal cannot be realized is a life of failure. In this world, there is another kind of person who does exactly the opposite. He also has some seemingly lofty ideals, but this ideal does not bring him meaning in life. It is just a means for him to make money or protect his own interests. . For such people, having a certain ideal is not because it is so attractive, but because they are shrewdly aware that if they do not realize this ideal, their way of making money will encounter some troubles, or, It is very likely that there is no guarantee for what you own.They not only see the pile of money in their hands, but also see the reality of a society and the future direction.

Such people tend to be "successful people" in general terms.Even if they're an ant now, they could be a potential "successful". Combination: Possessive Personality + Playing Life = Rogue People who take possession of power, money, beauty and other "material" things as the meaning of life will inevitably lose the real meaning of life, this is not a secret. The result can be imagined: he has anxiety, and the heart that hopes life can reach a spiritual height will condemn him.The main way to escape this condemnation is to continue to possess wildly. Psychologically, people have a strange kind of self-persuasion, that is, they do something that they don’t feel reasonable in their hearts, and they continue to do it in order to convince themselves that it is right to do so.The reason why some killers become more and more cruel is because killing one person has broken through his bottom line of being a human being. Then, killing one person is killing, killing two is also killing. The more he kills, the worse he will be psychologically. Being able to convince yourself that killing is justified.

For the possessive person in the game life, continuing to frantically possess scarce resources cannot solve his anxiety.The ideals and spiritual heights of this world are always a threat to him, and he cannot swallow this world in one gulp, psychologically as if the world is his private property and controlled by him.In this case, he must mentally despise the world, refusing to recognize any of its moral rules, the only rules of the game being his. Such a person is a rogue.