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Chapter 180 The love of adversity is boundless

When people get along with each other, there is love and affection. At critical moments, a kind of "high righteousness" that can overcome death is formed because of sincere affection, which means that one has cultivated to a very high level of being a human being. During World War II, in the concentration camps of the Nazis, a black man became the object of others' venting. There was a white violinist named Heppani. He died of depression and played a piece of wonderful music to this black friend every day. The eyes of the black friend gradually shone with happiness, and they became confidants since then.One day, the prison has to deal with everyone, some people are killed, others are released, and everyone is assigned a number plate. Unfortunately, Hepany's number belongs to the ranks of execution, while black people are sent to prison. release.Just before Hepani was pulled out to be executed, the black friend snatched Hepani's death number and gave him his birth number, and rushed out to die by himself.Afterwards, Heppani saw a sentence written with nails on the wall: Those who give me hope and help, I am willing to give back with my life.It never occurred to Heppani that what is left for others to help others is life.

Adversity tests your attitude as a person, and the way you do things. "A friend in need is a true friend", everyone is familiar with the saying.In the Jin Dynasty, there was a man named Xun Jubo who once went to visit a friend who was sick in bed.At this time, the enemy army broke through the city, burned, killed and looted, and the people fled in all directions with their wives and children.A friend advised Xun Jubo: "I am very sick, I can't walk, and I can't live for a few days, so run for your life!" But Xun Jubo refused to leave, he said: "What do you think of me, I have come a long way I came here just to see you. Now, the enemy army is entering the city, and you are sick, how can I leave you alone?" Then he turned and went to make medicine for his friend.His friend begged him to leave quickly, but Uncle Xun comforted him with medicine and water and said, "You can recuperate at ease, don't worry about me, I'll take care of you when the sky falls!"

At this moment, there was a "bang", the door was kicked open, and several ferocious soldiers rushed in and shouted at him, "Who are you? You are so bold that everyone in the city ran away. Why don't you run away?" Xun Jubo pointed to his friend lying on the bed and said: "My friend is very sick, I can't leave him alone and run for my life." He said solemnly: "Please don't frighten my friend, just call me if you need anything. Even if I were to die for my friend, I would never frown!" The enemy army listened to Uncle Xun's generous words and saw Uncle Xun's fearless attitude. He was very moved and said, "I didn't expect that the people here are so noble. How dare they invade them? Let's go!" The enemy army withdrew.

It is impossible not to marvel at the power that justice manifested in times of adversity can produce. A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable to encounter failures, setbacks or difficulties. At this time, what is needed most is the help of others. This kind of help will make others remember for a lifetime.At the end of World War I, Kaiser Wilhelm I was considered the poorest person in the world, and he was betrayed by all.He had to flee to Holland to save his life, and many people hated him.But at this time, a little boy wrote a short but heartfelt letter expressing his admiration for the Kaiser.The little boy said in the letter that no matter what others think, he will always respect him as emperor.The Kaiser was deeply moved by this letter and invited him to his residence.The little boy accepted the invitation and was accompanied by his mother.His mother later married the Kaiser.

"I didn't know he was in such pain at that time, even if I knew, I couldn't help!" Many people said regretfully.Such a person is not so much that he does not know the pain of his friend as that he has no intention of knowing.Because, you don't need to spend a lot of effort, you don't need to spend a lot of money to help, you just need to give him sincerity to comfort him. People are always sensitive to their own suffering, but they lack understanding of the pain of others.They don't understand other people's needs, let alone put in the effort to understand them; some even pretend not to know what they need, probably because they don't have any personal pain or pain.

Although few people can achieve the state of "people are hungry, others are drowning", but we can at least feel the needs of others at any time, always care about our friends, and help them out of difficulties. When a friend is seriously ill, you should visit more often , Talk more about the topics of interest that your friends care about; when your friends are frustrated and frustrated, you should encourage them; when your friends are sad and unhappy, you should kindly ask them.These timely comforts will warm the hearts of the wounded like sunshine and give them hope.Sometimes even if you don’t have to work hard to help others, others will keep it in mind and "give you a peach and return it with a favor."

1. Lengmiao may not be without eminent monks. 2. Don't underestimate people in humble surroundings.Because there may be tigers and leopards hidden in the deep mountains, and there may be unicorns in the wild grass. 3. Being out of power doesn't mean always out of power, and ordinary people don't always mean to be ordinary people. 4. Friendship in need is heavy, so you must remember it. 5. The villain is devoted to benefit, and the gentleman is devoted to righteousness.The real incense should be burned on the word "righteousness", which cannot be bought with any amount of "incense money".

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