Chapter 177 Worship cold temples on weekdays, burn incense when in a hurry

The Chinese are the most particular about living within their means. In order to meet some urgent needs, most people have to save a sum of money in the bank even if they live frugally.Because with such a savings, I feel at ease in my heart, and I can take it out to resist for a while at a critical time.In the same way, if you want to find someone to do something, you should first save in the favor account. With this kind of favor savings, it will be much easier to find someone to do things with. If you don't have any savings in your favor account, when you need to use favors, you will naturally be ruthless.Therefore, there must be no negative numbers on the human relationship account. Once there is a negative number, the human relationship debt is too much. When you find someone else to do things, they will have ideas. Original, but over time, others will be unhappy.Only when you take the initiative to help others, do enough favors, and enrich your favor account, your savings in your favor account will increase and become more and more sufficient.

In the real world, many people have one or several bank passbooks. If you deposit 50,000 yuan at the beginning of the year, at the end of the year, you will find that the passbook is more than 50,000 yuan, because there is interest!The same is true for developing and maintaining interpersonal relationships. The key lies in the usual savings of favors. The practice of "not burning incense at ordinary times and holding Buddha's feet temporarily" is absolutely not advisable. While we know the importance of daily burning incense in interpersonal communication, we also need to know the meaning of "often going to the cold temple to burn incense".Burn incense to those cold temples that no one usually goes to, don't just pick hot temples where incense is flourishing.Because there are too many people burning incense in the hot temple, the attention of the gods is distracted. When you go to burn incense, you are just one of the pilgrims. You cannot show your sincerity, and the gods will not have a special favor for you.So once you ask him for something, he will only treat you as everyone, and will not take special care of you.

But the gods of the Leng Temple are not like this. Usually the gate of the Leng Temple is neglected and no one pays respect, but you go to burn incense piously. The gods of the Leng Temple think it is a great favor in the future. If you ask him for something, he will naturally take care of it. Mr. Qian Zhongshu lived a relatively peaceful life, but when he was writing in Shanghai, he was embarrassed for a while.After dismissing the nanny, his wife Yang Jiang took care of the housework.At that time, no one bought academic manuscripts, and Qian Zhong’s motivation for writing novels was more or less mixed with earning money to support his family.However, his meticulous work of 500 words a day is definitely not a commercial writing speed.Just when Qian Zhongshu’s family’s life was unsustainable, Huang Zuolin directed Qian Zhongshu’s wife, Yang Jiang’s four-act comedy "Ruyi" and five-act comedy, and paid the remuneration in time, so that the Qian family overcame the difficulties.

Forty years later, the reason why director Huang Shuqin, Huang Zuolin's daughter, was interviewed by Qian Zhongshu and started filming a TV series was because she carried a letter written by her father Huang Zuolin.Qian Zhongshu is someone who he will remember all his life when others do things for him.Huang Zuolin's charitable help 40 years ago, Qian Zhongshu has not forgotten to return it 40 years later. Feng Shui turns.Although some people's abilities are very mediocre, they will become lucky people in the face of circumstances.If one day the Feng Shui changes and the cold temple becomes a hot temple, who would think that you are following the trend if you worship this hot temple at this time because of your love for the cold temple?

Most people always think that the Bodhisattvas in the Leng Temple are ineffective, so they become Leng Temple.In fact, it is common for heroes to be in trouble and strong men to be down and out.As long as they are in peace, they will still soar into the sky and become a blockbuster. From now on, pay more attention to the friends around you. If there is a "cold temple" worthy of incense, don't miss it.