Chapter 143 Patience "grinds" to the destination

The mother of Picasso's son Colaude Jr., Françoise Gilot, loved painting very much, and no one would disturb her once she entered the studio. Once, the son wanted his mother to take him to play, but Gillot had devoted himself to painting. When he heard the knock on the door and his son's cry, he just responded and continued to paint.After a pause, the son said again: "Mom, I love you." But the response he got was only: "I love you too, my baby." The door still didn't open. After a while, the son said again: "I like your paintings, mother." Gillot was happy, and she replied: "Thank you! My dear, you are such a little angel." But she still didn't open the door.The son said again: "Mom, you draw so beautifully." Gillot stopped writing, but did not speak or move.The son said again: "Mom, you can draw better than Dad."

Gillot's paintings are of course no better than her husband, Picasso, the master of painting art, but her son's words speak to her heart, and she also feels his son's urgency from his exaggerated evaluation, and finally Still opened the door. Little Colaude knocked on the door of his mother, who was immersed in painting, in a soft way. If the opposite sex you are pursuing is a career-oriented person, then you can use "grinding" to make her impatient, and finally have to "raise the white flag" to surrender to you.Of course, if the other party hates you from the heart, it is useless for you to "grind" to death.

A Hong Kong female writer formed an affair with a mainland man in a strong romantic atmosphere. She said that that man was the worst-qualified boyfriend among her boyfriends. The origin of the matter can be traced back to a few years ago, when a female writer came to Shanghai for the first time to negotiate the authorization of her novel to be published by a Shanghai publishing house. At a dinner party, a female writer met a certain man. The man was deeply moved by the life experience of the female writer. After the dinner, he told her an astonishing sentence: "Can I pursue you?" She just took it as a joke at the time.Unexpectedly, the man really started to pursue fiercely. He brought a lot of friends and started to "stand guard" at the hotel where she was staying every morning.Regarding the man's move, the female writer felt that she was afraid to step out of the restaurant if she encountered a terrorist.The man who kept his eyes on him kept calling to "harass" the female writer, and told her, "If you don't show up again, you have to notify all your friends and tell them that I'm going to chase you." Writer, Jizhongshengzhi said: "You buy me coffee, let's have a good chat."

Knowing that mainlanders have low incomes, she simply drank five or six cups of coffee in one go, ready to "bankrupt" her suitors.As a result, he also ordered five or six cups of coffee. Not only did he not feel ashamed when he checked out, but he gave the waiter a considerable tip.The female writer's strategy of making the other party retreat in the face of difficulties did not succeed. The most intense thing was that on her last night in Shanghai, the man who mustered up his courage kissed the female writer violently in public.The female writer whose face paled in an instant was speechless for a long time, and then she was so excited that she almost cried: "How could you do this."

When she left Shanghai, the man chased her all the way and beat her. When she arrived in Xi'an, he also followed her to Xi'an; when she arrived in Taipei, he made countless phone calls. At this point, the female writer said: "As long as I exist on the earth, it seems that I can't escape from his palm." She had to declare her surrender and marriage. "Grinding Gong" finally "grinded" to have a lover.It can be seen that with enough patience and skill, no matter how difficult it is to find people, they can be successfully persuaded and won over. What should be noted here is that "grinding" requires patience and the courage to let go of the so-called face.It is obviously impossible to find someone to do things without patience. In fact, patience is also a kind of wisdom. People without patience can only do small and easy things, but they cannot do big and difficult things.

It is the patience of this kind of lingering that can finally get things done.