Chapter 133 Give thick belts "thorns" to prevent overreaching

Thickness is the thickness of "thick-skinned", but also the thickness of "generous".After talking about "thick skin", let's talk about "generosity".People often say that you should be tolerant and kind to others, and it is a blessing to suffer a loss. However, for the villains, tolerance and tolerance are their connivance, because they will only regard your tolerance and tolerance as a performance of fear of them, so they will be more arrogant If you are arrogant and aggressive, if you hit you three times and still don't stop, then you are a villain.You should "bite" him.

Philosophy often regards degree as the unity of quality and quantity.That is to say, in the degree, it includes a certain combination of quantity and quality. In the degree, the nature of things will not change fundamentally within a certain range. Once this degree is exceeded, the nature of things New characteristics will appear, just as water is still water within 100 degrees, but it turns into gas once it is boiled.There is also a limit to adopting a thick strategy. For example, in the following situations, one cannot blindly adopt a "thick" strategy: One is that when the opponent is making progress, he should not be "thicker".After some people infringe on certain interests and authority of others, they succeed because the other party adopts a "thick" attitude.However, after this kind of person succeeds, he discovers new goals and new interests, which stimulates his desire for self-interest, so that the original behavior is transformed into another unacceptable thing.At this time, as the person concerned, he cannot naturally maintain a "thick" attitude, but must resolutely fight back and resist as the nature of things changes.For example, when some criminals rob houses, they only aim at some gold and silver treasures at first, but later find that there is also a very beautiful woman, so they suddenly have evil thoughts and attempt to rape.In this case, the family originally restrained their resistance because they did not want to cause their lives to be disturbed by some external objects. Now the matter is no longer an external object, but their own flesh and blood compatriots. No more concessions.

In daily life, there are often such ignorant people who do whatever they want, take advantage of their colleagues and other people's tolerance, and take advantage of it.When dealing with this kind of person, after a few times of tolerance, and seeing his true colors, he should not tolerate it any longer. You can give the other party a little color, and bravely defend your rights through legitimate means. The other party realizes that he is not.Of course, there can be many ways and means to make this known, but the purpose is always the same, that is, to let the other party understand one's true attitude. This is a principle that can be referred to.

The second is that when you are on the verge of "desperate situation", you can't be "thick".The intolerable situation usually occurs in some public places.Some people think that no one knows them, and it will be difficult for them to meet each other in the future, so they are in a relaxed state.Such a state often makes people get rid of certain responsibilities and obligations they have undertaken in the past to a certain extent, and also relaxes the restraint of conscience on themselves to varying degrees, and thus occurs and commits some immoral and excessive behaviors.

For example, on the train, in the park, on the bus, etc.It is very interesting that in such public places, some people often hold a mentality of making big things small, making small things small, and causing trouble as little as possible, and they are "thick" to some excessive and aggressive behaviors. Attitude.In this way, one side is aggressive, but the other side is calm, and it is easy to create an environment and conditions that are conducive to the continuous expansion of some people's aggressive psychology.However, it is precisely in this situation that some people can easily push people to a "desperate situation" because of their unscrupulous and self-willed behavior, so that a kind of intolerable psychology has developed.

Thick black advocates: To maintain one's backbone, put one's sword into the scabbard, but draw it out without hesitation when self-defense is needed.Since you can't avoid it, it's better to solve it as soon as possible.Don't be so "thick" that it can no longer be "black". The so-called "no more than three things" refers to people's "thickness" to the same object. It can be done once or twice, but it must never be backed down again and again. As long as you have surrendered once, you will surrender again and again. Therefore, it is a wisdom that cannot be ignored to show courage in front of others without losing the opportunity.Don't be a doormat, act decisively when angry.

When eating persimmons and picking the soft ones, when people get angry, they often find those who are weak and kind, because everyone knows that doing so will not lead to any worrying consequences.There are such people everywhere in our environment. They seem weak and deceptive, and they will eventually be deceived.A person's apparent weakness actually encourages and condones another's desire to violate you. Thick Hei Zhe emphasized: We need to know the importance of maintaining courage, and don't overly elevate others so that we are in awe of them.No one can surpass the limitations of human nature.Murderers are also afraid of being caught, and authority is just a superficial force brought about by status.

We believe that people should have a little bit of sharpness. Although they don’t have to be fully armed and thorny like hedgehogs, at least they should make those ferocious animals feel helpless, and the gains outweigh the losses.