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Chapter 67 Lend outstanding people to benefit

Outstanding people can also become your nobles, bringing you fame and fortune. An Arab named Abudu, who was originally poor and penniless, used this method to ask the world. Not only did he ask many famous people to be friends, but he also asked for millions of fortunes for himself. Abdu posted photos of many world celebrities in his autograph book, and then imitated the autographs of celebrities and signed them under the photos.Abdu traveled around the world with these autograph books, visiting business tycoons and well-known millionaires. "I came all the way from Arabia to visit you because of my admiration for you. Please post a photo on this "Who's Who in the World", and then please sign your name. We will add a profile and wait for it to be published. , I will immediately send a volume..."

How would the rich man who was visited by him react when he saw that the photos and signatures in it were all contemporary world celebrities?Everyone loves fame and fortune, especially the rich love false fame.Therefore, most people willingly signed their names and provided photos. And because these people have a lot of money and like to show off, when they think of being ranked with world celebrities, they feel infinite glory.In this way, they will pay Abdul a considerable amount of money without hesitation.The publishing cost of each autograph book is no more than a dollar or two.The rewards given by the rich often exceed thousands of dollars.

Abdul spent 6 years traveling to 96 countries, and more than 20,000 people provided him with photos and signatures.The most paid by these people to Abdul was 20,000 U.S. dollars, and the least was 50 U.S. dollars, with a total income of about 5 million U.S. dollars.Abdu himself thus became a successful person. The Arabs in this story are cleverly exploiting the influence of these prominent celebrities, and using their influence to achieve their own purposes. Some outstanding people can be regarded as "celebrities", because they frequently appear in the media, and the people who are exposed in front of everyone are well-known figures.As for those who are not known to the public and don't show their faces often, they may not be outstanding. As long as they are slightly famous people in the circle around you, they can be counted as "outstanding people". With the help of these people, use them skillfully , It will play an even more powerful role in your career and life.

This Arab made his way to wealth by taking advantage of the "fame" of outstanding people, because for ordinary people, those so-called "celebrities" are more prestigious in people's eyes and have a special status group. The words and deeds of "celebrities" are influential and, to a large extent, imitated by the public. "Celebrities" may exist in our own social circles. Maybe we don't have the ingenuity of this Arabian to find a celebrity who is bullshit.But his skills in making friends with "celebrities" can also be borrowed in our communication.

Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black.We should try to make friends with people who are better than ourselves, and work towards this goal.If you make friends with those who are outstanding, you will be able to learn from them and make progress; on the contrary, if you make friends who are far inferior to yourself, you will inevitably stay where you are, or even regress. We can look for people who are outstanding in a certain industry and who stand in a dominant position in society, and those who have special talents.For example, outstanding contributions to society, outstanding experts, learned scholars, talented artists, etc.This kind of outstanding person is by no means defined by a person's preferences, but can only be obtained through social recognition.

As for how to make friends with these people, there is no established way, maybe you can take the initiative to recommend yourself, or get a strong recommendation from a famous person, of course, you can also join a group of heroes to find friends.Living among them, carefully observing people with different personalities and different moral values ​​is not only a pleasure for the eyes, but also helpful for you. Almost all young people are eager to become friends with talented people.I always think that if I have a little talent, it will be like a fish in water.Even if this goal cannot be achieved, it can still satisfy the psychology of co-prosperity with it.However, even with these talented and charismatic characters, it is not necessary to throw yourself into it desperately.Not losing judgment is the most appropriate way to communicate.

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