Chapter 17 don't let the details betray you

After the book "Details Determine Success or Failure" became popular all over the country, the word "details" became a key term that made people's eyes tighten.Here, we would like to remind everyone: the quality of a person is reflected in the details, and the details are very important in the communication package. Be careful not to let the details betray you and affect your communication effect.The following details betray you are very noteworthy. Relaxing and keeping your feet flat is the most basic posture requirement when sitting down and talking.Therefore, when talking with people, you should avoid sitting with your feet crossed, so as not to give the other party the impression of being immodest.

Spitting is the easiest way to directly spread bacteria. Spitting everywhere is very rude and definitely affects environmental sanitation and physical health.If you have to spit, please wipe the phlegm on a tissue, throw it in the trash, or go to the bathroom to spit, but don't forget to clean up the sputum and wash your hands. Throwing rubbish is one of the most uncivilized behaviors that should be reprehensible. It's understandable that some people have to chew gum to maintain oral hygiene, but we should be mindful of how we appear to others.Keep your mouth closed while chewing, and wrap the chewed gum in paper and throw it in the trash.

Some people are used to picking their teeth, picking their nostrils or picking their ears in public with toothpicks, little fingers, keys, hairpins, etc. This is a very bad habit.Especially in restaurants or teahouses, when other people are eating or drinking tea, such indecent gestures often make bystanders feel very disgusted.This is very indecent behavior. Some people with a lot of dandruff often scratch their scalp in public because their scalps itch, and the dandruff will fly around, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.Especially on such a solemn occasion, it is difficult to get others' understanding for such an approach.

Some people like to fiddle with their hair from time to time. For men, this seems a bit frivolous. It is best to get rid of this habit.What needs to be reminded here is that women with long hair often fiddle with their hair unconsciously when talking with people, but this habit will make people feel disrespected.Therefore, in order to prevent this habit from affecting the success or failure of communication, those who have this habit should pay attention to get rid of it. Some people will vibrate their legs intentionally or unconsciously while sitting, or let their crossed legs swing back and forth like pendulums, and feel good about themselves and think it's harmless.In fact, it can be very uncomfortable.This is not a sign of civility, nor is it elegant behavior.

In social situations, yawning gives the other party the feeling that you are not interested in him and you are showing a lot of impatience.So, if you're about to yawn uncontrollably, be sure to cover your mouth with your hand immediately and say, "I'm sorry." When talking with people, if you play with your fingers unintentionally, it will give people a feeling that you don't take the other person seriously.So, pay attention to corrections. Some people often pull the hem of their clothes unconsciously when they are talking to each other; some women wear short skirts and keep pulling the hem of their skirts when they sit down.This is an inappropriate gesture.Therefore, in order to avoid this kind of embarrassment, the dress should be considered.

Mobile phone is an indispensable communication tool in modern people's life, how to use this modern communication tool has also become a problem that cannot be ignored in communication.If you're so busy that you have to bring your phone out to social situations, here's a minimum of what you should do: One is to lower the ringtone or adjust it to a vibration state so as not to alarm others. The second is that if your mobile phone rings accidentally and someone is next to you, you must apologize and say, "I'm sorry, please forgive me." Then go to a place where it will not affect others, and then sit down after speaking.

Third, when you need to answer the phone, find a quiet place with few people to answer it, and control the volume of your speaking. Fourth, if you are talking at a dining table at work or at a party, in a conference room, in an elevator, etc., try to keep your conversation short so as not to disturb others. Fifth, if it is inconvenient to talk for a long time on some occasions, tell the caller that you will call back when you have time, and don't force yourself to answer and affect others. If the list goes on, we may be able to list 80 noteworthy details, but this list will lose its meaning.Here are some common details that are not noticed by you but may betray you. I just hope to attract attention and hope that you can pay attention to grasp your own quality from small things.Because, starting from small things, doing things seriously is a kind of quality.By training your literacy by doing ordinary little things, you can make yourself truly extraordinary.

1. Create an image that suits you, instead of imitating others, causing the consequences of learning to walk in Handan. 2. To package both inside and outside.Because clothes can pack the body, but not a person's temperament and self-cultivation. 3. Be sure to pay attention to the details. A small detail may ruin all the packaging at once. 4. To make a good first impression, you must do everything from appearance to mental state.Don't make appearances without reality. 5. Communication circles at different levels have different communication requirements, and should be properly packaged according to the corresponding requirements.