Chapter 72 mature love

“Only love can justify sex,” says sixteen-year-old Betty, “so I keep loving.” There are sociohistorical reasons for this cynicism.Betty may feel guilty that the only way to justify her sexuality is to be in love.Love, real or imagined, can atone for her guilt.But love is more than feelings and passions, love is a system, including attitudes and a series of behaviors, that sublimate the life of the loved one and the loved one.Romantic love is often blind, it only recognizes the good in the loved one, but does not see his faults.In contrast, sensible love accepts the good without rejecting the bad.Sensible love, whether it is a boy or a girl, does not try to use or possess the other person.Everyone belongs only to him or herself.This kind of love gives everyone the opportunity to develop freely and make everyone the best version of themselves.Love and sex are not the same thing, however, lucky people are able to combine the two.