Chapter 49 Chapter 4 Contingency Techniques in Debate

Tan Xinpei, a well-known Peking Opera performer, once played Tian Dan in "Golden Stone", because he was in a hurry to catch up with the show, he realized that he forgot to wear the black hat after he appeared on the stage.The audience in the audience were surprised when they saw it. Unexpectedly, he had an idea and read calmly: "The state affairs are in such a mess, I forgot to wear the black gauze." Another time, Tan Xinpei played the role of Yang Liulang in "Yuanmen Zhanzi", but this day the actor who played Jiao Zan forgot to hang his beard in a hurry, and he didn't notice it after he came on stage. Where is father, hurry up and call me." The actor was alert for a moment, and hurriedly left the stage to hang his beard, and the audience immediately applauded.

In life, there are various situations that cause disadvantages to people, and it is impossible to have a one-size-fits-all solution.Therefore, if you are dissatisfied or have an opinion about someone's work style or way of dealing with the world, you need to adapt to the specific situation at that time. In some occasions, people will always encounter some unexpected things, maybe it is their speech gaffe, maybe the surrounding environment makes them unexpected, maybe the other party's reaction is not as quick as expected.In this situation, it is necessary for people to learn to control the situation, that is, to adapt to the situation so as not to cause themselves a dilemma.

The Soviet poet Mayakovsky gave a speech to a diverse audience at a conference, and his humorous words caused bursts of laughter and applause from time to time.At the end, suddenly a tall and thin man squeezed to the front of the stage, stretched his neck and shouted: "I don't understand your joke!" "Aren't you a giraffe!" the poet sighed: "Only a giraffe soaks its feet on Monday, and it will feel it on the weekend!" "I should warn you!" bellowed the lanky one. "It's only one step from great to ridiculous." "That's right," said the poet, pointing to himself and the man. "It's just one step from great to ridiculous."

"Your poems are appalling, they don't boil, they don't burn, they don't infect," said the tall, thin man. "My poems are not boiling water, nor a stove, nor plague." The poet replied with a smile. "You yourself said that you should wash off your dusty traditions and habits, so since you need to wash your face, that means you too are dirty," said the tall, thin man sarcastically. "So, do you think you are clean if you don't wash your face?" The poet retorted. The tall, thin man couldn't argue with Mayakovsky, and said angrily: "You will be short-lived if you write poetry like this. You will be finished tomorrow, and you will be forgotten yourself. You will not become immortal."

Following the man's words, the poet said, "Well, please come back in a thousand years, and then we can talk, if you haven't rotted yet!" Facing the planned and purposeful series of attacks by the opponent, the poet is calm and calm, has a sharp mind, and responds skillfully, or reverses the confrontation, or pretends to be stupid, or uses allusions. He is both humorous and aggressive, showing extraordinary His adaptability and irrefutable logical force. Sometimes in the debate there will be questions that are not easy to answer directly, or comments with ulterior motives, or cross-examinations that imply insults... If you don't deal with it properly, you will often put yourself in an embarrassing situation.Therefore, machine debate has become an indispensable weapon at this time.It can play some special roles in avoiding, defending against humiliation, persuading, and resolving embarrassment.

Yuan Zhi was the head monk of Tiantong Temple in Ningbo during the Qianlong period of the Qing Dynasty.Although he has no intuition skills, he is quite adaptable. That year, Emperor Qianlong went south alone in micro-clothes.After arriving in Ningbo, I went to Tiantong Temple alone.Yuan Zhi heard about this and immediately went to the foot of the mountain to wait.After a while, Emperor Qianlong came in front of him.Yuan Zhi clasped his hands together in front of him, bowed and said softly: "The abbot of Tiantong Temple, a young monk, Yuan Zhi is here to pick you up. I hope you will forgive me."

Qianlong asked: "Since you know that I have come here, why don't you lead all the monks, open the mountain gate, and kneel down to receive the holy driver? Do you intend to desecrate the holy driver with your light bow?" Yuan Zhi said unhurriedly: "You little monk dare to desecrate the holy bow, just because this time the holy monk is making a private visit in disguise. If the little monk works hard to mobilize the crowd, it may attract the attention of tourists and hinder the health of the holy monk, so the little monk is here to greet you quietly. .” Hearing that what he said was reasonable, Qianlong pardoned his innocence and let him lead the way.After climbing a section of the mountain path, Qianlong said to Yuan Zhi, "Great Monk, I am going up the mountain today, can you compare me?"

Yuan Zhi heard the words and said with a smile: "Long live God going up the mountain is like the Buddha leading you to the sky. One step is higher than one step." When Qianlong heard this, he felt extremely uncomfortable: Yuan Zhi compared himself to the Buddha, and he took the upper hand, but There is nothing to blame, so I have to give up for the time being. When Qianlong left the temple, Yuan Zhi sent him down the mountain.Qianlong said: "When I went up the mountain, you said that one step was higher than one step. Now that I'm down the mountain, how can you compare?"

Yuan Zhi thought for a moment, then calmly smiled and said, "Now it's like coming to the Buddha to bring Long live down the mountain, the back is higher than the front!" "Ah!" Qianlong was impressed by Yuan Zhi's eloquence when he heard it.The well-educated Emperor Qianlong didn't know that he was improvising nonsense, but he appreciated Monk Yuanzhi's wit and calmness. Adaptation is also often used in the interpretation of concepts. There is a corrupt official who loves to search for folk treasures.One day, Xie Jin passed by the corrupt official's house with a tortoise, claiming that the tortoise could live to 10,000 years, and that it could cure all kinds of diseases and bring the dead back to life. It was the most precious thing in the world. Rare Longevity Turtle.When the corrupt officials heard about it, they wanted to buy the turtle.Xie Jin pretended not to sell it at first, but later sold it with an ingot of gold.

The next day, the corrupt officials invited relatives and friends to come and watch the rare turtle.When the corrupt officials fished the turtle out of the pool, it was already dead.The corrupt official came to Xie Jin angrily, and asked, "Why are you lying?" Xie Jin said: "Oh, I didn't lie to you at all, today just happens to be the 10,000th birthday of this turtle." As a kind of ability, adaptability needs to be cultivated for a long time, and certain conditions must be met.Generally speaking, the more knowledgeable and experienced people are, the stronger their adaptability will be.

Ma Ji, a famous cross talk actor, once performed in Huangshi City, Hubei Province.Before his performance, an actor mistakenly said "Huangshi City" as "Huangshi County", which caused the audience to laugh.Amidst the laughter, Ma Ji came on stage.He opened his mouth and said: "Today we are honored to perform in Huangshi Province..." Just as everyone was whispering, Ma Ji explained: "Just now one of our actors called Huangshi City a county, which is downgraded. I am here Of course, it must be said to be provincial, and it will be raised to a higher level. This way, one step down, ha! It’s level!" A few words caused the audience to burst into laughter, and Ma Ji cleverly rounded things up, making the performance go smoothly conduct. Different situations have different functions; different situations, of course, also have different styles.Adapting situational styles to our persuasive (or argumentative) purposes can often achieve twice the result with half the effort.On the contrary, it will only get twice the result with half the effort, or even backfire. Yue Guang of the Jin Dynasty discovered that a good friend hadn’t visited for a long time. It turned out that this friend was a guest at Le Guang’s house last time. When he was about to drink a toast, he found a snake in the glass. Because it was hard to say it directly, he drank it down. So now he has it. seriously ill.Yue Guang went home to check and found a bow on the wall of the room with snake patterns painted on it, so he re-arranged the banquet according to the previous arrangement, reproduced the last drinking environment, and brought the sick friend He was forced to invite him, and then asked him, "Did you see anything in the cup?" The friend said, "It's the same as what I saw last time, there is a snake in the cup!" Le Guang then said, "The snake in this cup is The shadow of the bow on the wall!" The guest looked up at the bow on the wall, and stopped insisting that there was a snake in the cup, and healed immediately. The false thesis of the opponent can be refuted by cloning to reproduce a specific concrete environment.The story of the cup bow snake shadow illustrates the impact of the environment on a person. In 1890, Mark Twain and his party of more than 20 people attended a feast hosted by Mrs. Dodge.After a while, everyone in the banquet was talking to the people next to them, their voices raised higher and higher.mark?Twain felt that it was offensive, and it would be inappropriate to stop it loudly at this time, so he said to a lady sitting next to him: There is only one way to quiet this noise.You tilt your head towards me, as if you are very curious about what I have to say.When I speak in a low voice like this, the people next to me will be curious.All I have to do is babble for a while, and they will all quiet down one by one. "Then, he started speaking in a low voice. After speaking for a short time, the silence really spread. In this way, Mark Kerwin continued to speak in a more serious voice until the restaurant was completely silent. Seeing that the time has come , he opened his mouth to explain why he wanted to play this game, and asked them to be more polite from now on and not scream at the same time. Of course, people agreed with his opinion with actions. With the help of the situation, making associations and taking advantage of the situation, the theme of the speech can be highlighted and the argument can be more powerful.Of course, the situation-based method has no rules to follow, has a large degree of freedom, and requires a person's excellent mind. A clerk took an angry customer into a quiet room, and after entering, he gently closed the door, ready to have a good talk with the customer, but the customer's voice was louder than before. He shouted again and again: "What are you going to do? Do you want to lock me up here?" It turned out that the room felt too cold - there were only two chairs facing each other, and a lonely table .The windows are a bit small, and the room is extremely clean, filled with a solemn and tense atmosphere.The clerk came in and out frequently and didn't think there was anything wrong, but the customer came in for the first time. Undoubtedly, this negotiation that ignores the environment must end in failure in the end. Create a specific situation, can send a specific signal to the other party, and play an excellent role as a foreshadowing for communicative activities. When Huang Yanpei was a national senator, he flew from Chongqing to Yan'an to visit in order to promote the unity of the Kuomintang and the Communist Party.Mao Zedong met him in the reception room of the Great Hall of Yangjialing, where the Central Committee was located at that time.There are several paintings hanging on the four walls of the reception room, one of which has a wine jug and several cups, with "Moutai" written on it, and Huang Yanpei's inscription: According to legend, a visitor came to Maotai to wash his feet in the brewing pool. I don't care if it's true or not, just drink two or three cups in the cold weather. This painting was "painted to entertain" Shen Junru's second son, Shuyang, for his father during the third anti-communist upsurge of the Kuomintang.When asking Huang for an inscription, he remembered the rumor that the Red Army washed their feet in the Maotai wine pool. The title was an allegory, but he did not expect it to be hung in the living room where the CCP leaders received guests. He opened up his heart and had a long talk with Mao Zedong, which caused a major turning point in his life. The world of scale is so big, and the world of creating a debate situation is so big that there is no need to discuss it. In daily life, it is really helpless to "virtualize" a situation like this, but it can be done occasionally. In 1936, when the whole country was full of anti-Japanese war, Yan Daogang, an aide of Chiang Kai-shek, served as the chief of staff of the Northeast Army.The generals of the Northeast Army dared not speak out about this, but Commander Wang Mingzhe took the opportunity of a banquet and gave a speech in public drunkenly: ...Our hometown is in the northeast, occupied by the Japanese!We thought that the chairman of the committee could lead us to fight back to our hometown. We traveled tens of thousands of miles from the northeast, central China, and this time to the northwest, just to realize our desire to fight back to our hometown! …Who would have thought that when they fought in Shaanxi, the losses would not be compensated, the officers and soldiers who died and their family members would not be compensated, and the survivors who died in the battle would live in Xi’an, with no relief at all…The situation of Deputy Commander Zhang (Zhang Xueliang) is even more sad , his monthly income and expenses are only 100,000 yuan, which is still not as good as Mr. Hu Zongnan... It's really sad! As he spoke, Wang Mingzhe burst into tears, tears streaming down his face.All the generals of the Northeast Army present were grieved. Yan Daogang was extremely embarrassed at the banquet but couldn't attack, because everyone thought Wang Mingzhe was drunk. On the way home, Wang Mingzhe asked his entourage: "How do you think my play is going?" The entourage suddenly realized that he was not drunk at all, but was playing crazy with alcohol to beat the Northeast Army back to his hometown. The heartfelt thoughts and dissatisfaction with Chiang Kai-shek's passive resistance to Japan were vented. Different environments have different meanings. In the debate, only by choosing those environments that are consistent with the content and purpose of the debate can we easily receive the predetermined effect. Avoid going to the other party's "turf" to talk.This "site" mainly refers to the other party's office and home, because in these places, the owner is easy to persuade the other party. Can speak to an introvert in a formal setting and an extrovert in a relaxed setting. A spacious and comfortable place is the first choice for persuasion or argument.When the opponent's status, age and strength are above ours, we should choose a spacious and comfortable place. Do not sit in a place where people come and go and argue with others, to prevent both parties from flustered and emotional fluctuations. Conversations in one's own room or drawing-room are more convincing than in someone else's. In your boss's office, try not to sit directly across from your boss.The boss' chair is a symbol of power, and ignoring it can be beneficial to both parties.Sitting next to your boss can take the stress out of talking to him. It is possible to speak to an unrepentant or depressed person in an easily pleasing place. On-the-spot evidence collection is a method to seize certain things and situations at the debate site as arguments in time during the debate process to counter the opponent's point of view and demonstrate one's own point of view. On-the-spot evidence collection can take static things, dynamic things, and historical facts.The former two are highly intuitive, and the latter is well-known by local people, so this method has strong refutation. In a debate contest titled "Is Lei Feng spirit still needed in the era of reform and opening up?", members of the opposing team insisted on advocating that aspiring young people should do big things and achieve big things, and not spend energy on trivial matters.The affirmative team immediately retorted: "Big cause is accumulated by specific small things. Just like our teaching building is built brick by brick, the carpet on the floor is woven with wool. It's hard to imagine, A person who is unwilling to do such trivial things as a brick and a line can achieve a great cause!" This kind of on-the-spot evidence collection comes at your fingertips, and through image metaphors, it is eloquent and powerful, leaving a clear impression on people. To make good use of this method of on-the-spot evidence collection, one must be familiar with the on-site and local conditions, have insight into the details, and be adaptable. Once, a hawker was selling beans at the market at 2 yuan per catty, and the buyer counter-offered 1 yuan and 50 cents.When there was a stalemate, the buyer took out a cigarette from his pocket and was about to smoke it. Seeing that the cigarette was more expensive, the peddler had an idea and said, "Young man, you have spent so long fighting for 50 cents. In fact, you just need to smoke less." A cigarette is enough. A catty of beans can cook a big dish, and it costs less than a cigarette." As soon as the vegetable buyers heard this, their "competition" suddenly disappeared, and they bought two catties for 4 yuan. The hawker has a quick mind, collects evidence on the spot, and reasoned cleverly, which won the admiration of the vegetable buyers. On-the-spot evidence collection is an eloquent method that is clear and transparent because the things cited are often seen and heard by the debater on the spot or in the local area, which is obvious to all, vivid and concrete, and intuitive and true. .This method is frequently used in field debates. In order to make good use of the method of obtaining evidence on the spot in the debate, one must be familiar with the situation on the spot, and be good at seeing the development of the situation, seize the opportunity, adapt to the situation, and attack at the right time. British poet George?Murray was the son of a carpenter, and he was very respected by the British upper class at that time.He never concealed his origin, which was extremely rare in British society at that time. One day, a dandy met him in a salon. He was very jealous and wanted to slander the poet, so he asked loudly: "Excuse me, may I ask if your father was a carpenter?" The poet replied: "Yes." The dude said again: "Then why didn't your father train you to be a carpenter?" The poet replied with a smile: "Excuse me, Your Excellency's father must be a gentleman?" The dude replied arrogantly: "Yes!" The poet added: "Then why didn't your father train you to be a gentleman?" Facing the malicious question of the dandy, the poet did not answer directly, but took advantage of the situation and asked the other party's way, so that the dandy would lose face and make a fool of himself. The advantage of making use of the topic is that it is rational, easy to accept, and often plays a wonderful persuasive role. After Li Bai came to Beijing in response to the edict, he was depressed because he saw the emperor and the dignitaries who only knew how to enjoy themselves drunkenly.The emperor's brother-in-law, Yang Guozhong, was originally dissatisfied with Li Bai because of personal grievances, so he deliberately told stories in front of the emperor. He said in front of everyone: "Cao Zijian wrote poems in seven steps, and Li Hanlin is famous for his poems. Why don't you have any poems to write today? If I can be like Cao Zijian, I, Yang Guozhong, will throw myself into the ground." Li Bai had already understood Yang Guozhong's intentions, "hehe" sneered a few times and said, "Uncle Guo's words are wrong. Cao Zijian made a poem in seven steps, which was forced by his brother Cao Pi! I, Li Bai, have no ideas about divisions, and no power struggles. How can I be compared with Cao Zijian! You want me to write poems like Cao Zijian, but where do you put the emperor?" After hearing Li Bai's rebuttal, Yang Guozhong didn't know what to say for a while.Seeing that Yang Guozhong was speechless, the emperor smoothed things over and said to Li Bai: "Uncle Guo wants to provoke you, so don't think so much." Li Bai said: "Since the emperor has no taboos, it is not difficult for the uncle of the country to ask me to compose poems like Cao Zijian. Excuse me, what should I do if I can do it? I, Li Bai, will take a bet with him!" After hearing Li Bai's cry, the others all wanted to see the excitement and booed together: "Yes, uncle Guo dares to bet or not?" Yang Guozhong thought to himself: "Seven steps into a poem, I have to write the title. How can Li Bai have the same mentality as Cao Zijian?"Just gamble, the bet can't be too small, in front of everyone, Li Bai must make a fool of himself.Thinking of this, Yang Guozhong said: "I don't have any property, so I don't dare to gamble too much, just bet half a gold and silver! If Li Hanlin can write a poem in seven steps, I will lose half a gold and silver to you!" Half of the gold and silver, everyone heard it, and even the emperor frowned. The money is a treasury, how can you boast that you took half of it to bet with Li Bai? Li Bai glanced at Yang Guozhong: "Uncle Guo is really rich and powerful! Say it again." Yang Guozhong thought that Li Bai was timid, so he became bolder. He boasted to the emperor and everyone: "If I write a question, as long as you Li Hanlin writes a poem in seven steps, and the Holy Majesty and everyone are present, I will lose half a gold and silver to you. Son of Heaven There is no joke in front of you." Li Bai also faced the emperor and said: "Okay, let uncle Guo come up with the question now!" Yang Guozhong said casually: "Let's start with 'there is no joke in front of the emperor', and you can write poems!" Li Bai then started to chant: After reciting a poem, Li Bai only took three and a half steps, and everyone present cheered loudly! "Good poetry, good poetry!" "Good question! Where did Uncle Guo get so much money?" Some people whispered to each other: "Yang Guozhong made such a big bet, didn't he rely on search for ill-gotten gains!?" Just when everyone was discussing, Li Bai recited another seven-character poem, which won louder applause from the crowd. Cao Zijian made one poem in seven steps, and Li Bai made two poems in seven steps. Li Bai chanted: Before Yang Guozhong could speak, Li Bai was about to settle the bill.Yang Guozhong was so embarrassed, he really wanted to open a crack in the ground so that he could get in and hide immediately. Of course the emperor was targeting his brother-in-law, and he immediately came to rescue Yang Guozhong.The emperor said to Li Bai: "Uncle Guo lost half of the gold and silver to you. What do you want gold and silver for? The widow will ensure that you have food and drink." Li Bai has made full use of the technique of "borrowing the topic" here: the first "borrowing", borrowing to make a poem and bet with the uncle of the country; Borrow the second poem to ask Uncle Guo for an account, so that he will not step down from the stage. "Using the topic to play" is perfectly used by Li Bai. "Using the topic to play" refers to borrowing the other party's topic, developing it logically, rationally imagining, linking up and down, swaying horizontally and horizontally, and putting the other party in a disadvantageous position. Lomonosov was born in a fisherman's family and lived in poverty. After becoming famous, he still maintained a frugal style and didn't pay attention to clothes.Once, a well-dressed but ignorant person saw a hole in the elbow of his sleeve and remembered that Lomonosov was only devoted to studying knowledge all day long, so he pointed to the hole on his sleeve cleverly. "Can you see your erudition from there?" Lomonosov replied calmly: "No, not at all, sir. Stupidity can be seen from here." Lomonosov borrowed the topic of the holes in his sleeves to point out that judging a person's knowledge by the holes in his sleeves just exposed his stupidity and ignorance, and made sharp irony and sharp criticism. Life is inseparable from making excuses.Life without gimmicks is boring. It is said that the American five-star general Cartlett?Marshall also used the excuse to marry a beautiful wife. Marshall met a beautiful lady at a reception in his residence, and as soon as the reception was over, he begged the lady to allow him to take her home.The lady's home was not far away, but Marshall drove for more than an hour to deliver her to the door.The lady then asked: "Have you been here for a long time? You don't seem to know the way very well." Marshall smiled and said, "I dare not say that. If I am not familiar with this place, how can I drive for more than an hour?" and never passed your door?" The lady heard what the general had admired for a long time, so she also "made use of the problem" and simply married Marshall.In fact, Marshall was the original questioner. Using the method of making use of the topic, we can shift our thinking on the topic raised by the opponent, put the opponent in our position, and even imitate the judgment of the opponent, and retaliate against the opponent with double the strength used by the opponent. A famous clown actor in Russia, Durov, was resting once, and an audience member mocked him and said: "Mr. Clown, the audience welcomes you very much, right?" Durov said: "It's okay." Are you born with a stupid and eccentric face, so you are popular with the audience?" Durov then replied: "Yes. If I had a face like yours, sir, I would definitely be able to get a double salary. "The audience listened and had to go away in despair, because he understood what Durov meant: If I was popular with the audience not because of my performing arts but because of my ugly and stupid face, then your face Be twice as stupid and ugly, and you get double pay. Who said that "a scholar who is useless is a scholar"!However, if a scholar wants to succeed in borrowing topics, he not only needs to dare to be ironic, but also needs to make the language easy to understand. Meng Xiou, a talented scholar from Luoyang in the Qing Dynasty, was treated coldly at a certain tailor one day because of his mediocre clothes, and was later respected because he was recognized as a talented scholar. Therefore, at the request of the tailor, he used the title to recite a "poem": "A steel needle Mingling, holding it in your hands and shaking your spirits. Eyes grow on the buttocks, only recognize clothes but not people." Tailors cannot do without needles, and needles are similar to tailors, both "eyes grow on the buttocks, only recognize clothes Clothes do not recognize people."Meng Xiou made full use of the tailor's questions and needles, and used extremely popular language to satirize the tailor. Ji Xiaolan, a scholar in the Qing Dynasty, was very much loved by Emperor Qianlong.Once, the two were walking and chatting in the field.Qianlong suddenly asked: "Ji Qing, what is the meaning of 'loyalty and filial piety'?" Ji Xiaolan replied: "To report to the emperor, if the emperor wants his ministers to die, and the ministers have to die, that is called loyalty; !" Qianlong said again: "Well, well said, now, I want you to be loyal as a king, how about it?" Ji Xiaolan was surprised, and after a while, replied: "I obey the order!" Ji Xiaolan left after speaking. Of course, the emperor knew that Ji would not die, but he also wanted to see how he would rescue him, so he waited and watched how he would deal with it.After a while, Ji Xiaolan came back.Qianlong asked: "Why didn't you die, didn't you show your loyalty?" "I just wanted to jump into the river to show my loyalty, but at this moment I met Qu Yuan, and he wouldn't let me die!" "What do you mean by that?" "I went to the riverside , When I was about to jump down, Qu Yuan came to me from the water, and he said: "Xiaolan, why did you do this? I jumped into the river and killed myself at that time because King Huai of Chu was incompetent; but now, listen to me." Said it was an enlightened and prosperous age! How about this, you go back and ask the emperor to see if he says you are incompetent, if he says yes, you jump into the river again, and I will wait for you!' Then, I will come back and ask you!" After Qianlong heard this, he laughed loudly and praised again and again: "What a eloquent tongue, really worthy of being an eloquent talent today!" Ji Xiaolan is really smart, and her eloquence is fine.He can cleverly find a support for himself to get out of the predicament: Qu Yuan.Borrowing Qu Yuan's words, set up a dilemma for Qianlong, pointing out that "if the emperor admits that he is stupid, I will die."Of course the emperor would not push the joke to this point, so Ji Xiaolan naturally freed herself from "death". When you are in a difficult situation, you can use other people or things to find a decent reason for yourself and relieve the embarrassment. Sometimes, when encountering something difficult to get out of, telling the reason directly or keeping silent will bring disadvantages to yourself and push yourself into a more difficult situation.At this time, if you use other people or things to find a decent reason for yourself, you can resolve the embarrassment and eliminate embarrassment. Under the guise of other things, the "other things" must have a certain authority and shocking power at this moment, whether it is words or entities. There is a young man and woman who are passionately in love.On this day, the two of them came back from night school, chatted while walking, and realized that they had arrived at the door of the young man's house, and it was not too early at this time.A young man invites his girlfriend to come to his house to have a sit-down, and then to accompany him.The girlfriend said: "No, the teacher told me to come back early after school, otherwise you will meet bad people." This sentence made the young man laugh, and the young man couldn't force it anymore, and watched his girlfriend go away. The young woman cleverly borrowed what the teacher said and made a joke with her boyfriend, which not only found a reason for herself to go home, but also allowed her boyfriend to retract the inappropriate request with dignity.