Chapter 31 Chapter 30 Eloquence training method: make words more weighty

For a leader's speech to be acceptable, the first thing to do is to pronounce clearly and enunciate words clearly.Clear pronunciation can rely on usual practice, listening to other people's conversations, reading books and newspapers, and listening to radio broadcasts, all of which will quickly help correct pronunciation.When the leader speaks, every sentence should be clear and easy to understand, and avoid using difficult words.Don’t think that when you use difficult language, it shows that you are knowledgeable and courageous; in fact, speaking in this way will not only make people unable to understand, but also self-defeating, and will also cause others to suspect that they are playing tricks.Of course, a successful public speech also requires rich vocabulary and varied sentence patterns to make the speech exciting and make the audience want to stop.

For a leader's speech to be acceptable, the first thing to do is to pronounce clearly and enunciate words clearly.Clear pronunciation can rely on usual practice, listening to other people's conversations, reading books and newspapers, and listening to radio broadcasts, all of which will quickly help correct pronunciation.When speaking, each sentence should be clear and easy to understand, and avoid using difficult words.Don’t think that when you use difficult language, it shows that you are knowledgeable and courageous; in fact, speaking in this way will not only make people unable to understand, but also self-defeating, and will also cause others to suspect that they are playing tricks.Of course, a successful public speech also requires rich vocabulary and varied sentence patterns to make the speech exciting and make the audience want to stop.

Here are some simple, easy and effective eloquence training methods. The "reading" here refers to reading aloud, not silent reading. As the name suggests, "speed reading" means fast reading aloud.The purpose of this training method is to train the population to be articulate, accurate in pronunciation and clear in articulation. Method: Find a speech or a well-written prose.First take a dictionary or a dictionary to look up the words and words that you don't know or understand in the article, figure it out, figure it out, and then start reading aloud.Generally speaking, the reading speed is slow at the beginning, and the speed is increased gradually, and the reading speed is faster each time, and finally reaches the fastest speed you can achieve.

Requirements: There should be no pauses in the reading process, the pronunciation should be accurate, the enunciation should be clear, and the pronunciation should be as complete as possible.Because if you don't pronounce every character sound completely, then if the speed is increased, people will not be able to hear what you are saying, and fast will lose the meaning of fast.Our speed must be based on clear enunciation and clean pronunciation.We have all heard the commentary of Song Shixiong, an expert commentator on sports programs, and his commentary is very "fast".The "kuai" explained by Song Shixiong is fast but not chaotic. Every word and every sound is pronounced very clearly and accurately without ambiguity.The speed we hope to achieve is his kind of speed, with clear enunciation and accurate pronunciation, not just for the sake of being fast.

The advantage of this kind of training is that it is not restricted by time and place, no matter when and where, as long as there is an article at hand, you can practice.And it is not limited by personnel, and it can be completed by one person without the cooperation of others.Of course, you can also find someone to listen to your speed reading practice and ask him to help pick out the mistakes in your speed reading.For example, which word is not pronounced accurately enough, where the pronunciation is not clear, etc., this will be more conducive to your purposeful correction and learning.You can also use a tape recorder to record your speed reading, and then listen to it yourself to find out the shortcomings and make improvements.It would be better to have professional guidance.

But it should be noted that the speed reading method is not just to exercise the speed of speaking. The speed of speaking should not be too fast or too slow. Talking too fast will make it difficult for the listeners to cope with it, and they will get tired easily. Some people think that speaking fast Some, can save time, in fact, the purpose of speaking is to make the other party understand what you mean.In addition, whether it is a speaker or an obedient person, he must use his thoughts, otherwise, he cannot accurately grasp the content of the speech.Of course, speaking too slowly is also wrong. On the one hand, it wastes time, and on the other hand, it will make the listener feel impatient.Speaking is an art as well as a skill, and we must recognize this subtlety before we can be successful.When speaking in public, you must take into account the audience's reaction, and you must speak to the point. Don't be like a slut's foot wrap-it's smelly and long, and you can't be self-centered. Public speaking is to convey information and exchange ideas, so Be clear, explicit, and forthright.Talking nonsense and firing cannonballs are not popular ways of speaking in public. Talking nonsense does not mean that you are good at speaking, on the contrary, it proves that you lack enthusiasm and are irresponsible.As for talking like a cannonball, it can only be annoying, because as soon as you speak, others are tired of coping and have no chance to pronounce it. In the end, the two parties naturally broke up.

Almost everyone has had the experience of reciting articles, and leaders are no exception.The purpose of reciting varies from person to person.Some are because the teacher requires me to recite, so I have to recite to complete the learning tasks assigned by the teacher; some are to memorize a certain famous poem or sentence, so as to enrich my literary quality.The main purpose of what we call recitation is to train leaders' ability to speak in public. For this purpose, you are not only required to memorize a certain speech or prose to complete the task. We require memorization, first, to "recite", and second, to "recite".This kind of training has two purposes: one is to cultivate memory ability, and the other is to enhance oral expression ability.

Memory is an essential quality for good eloquence.Without a good memory, it is impossible to cultivate exports.Only when you have fully accumulated knowledge in your brain, can you open your mouth and talk endlessly.If your brain is empty, then your tongue will not help you.Memory is the same as eloquence. It is not an innate talent. Acquired exercise also plays a vital role in it. The more you memorize, the stronger your memory is. "Memorizing" is exactly the cultivation of this ability. "Reciting" is a kind of training for expressive ability.The "recitation" here is what we often call "recitation".It requires expressive and emotional expression on the basis of accurately grasping the content of the article.

The reciting method complements the speed reading method.The focus of the speed reading method is on "fast", while the focus of the reciting method is on "accuracy".That is, the speeches or articles you memorize must be accurate, there must be no specious places, and the enunciation and pronunciation must also be accurate. The method is: the first step is to choose an article you like; the second step is to analyze and understand the selected material and understand the author's thoughts and feelings.This will take a bit of work, and we need to analyze sentence by paragraph, deliberate each word and sentence, understand the author's writing background and thoughts and feelings, and pay attention to cultivating our own feelings; the third step is to analyze the selected speech words, Prose, poetry, etc. carry out some artistic processing, such as finding stress, dividing pauses, etc., which are conducive to accurate expression of content; the fourth step is to recite on the basis of the above steps.The process of reciting can also be carried out step by step.First, carry out "back" training.That is to memorize the article first.Eloquence and emotion are not required at this stage.As long as you can achieve proficiency in memory.And in the process of memorizing, I further understand the style and rhythm of the work, and lay a more solid foundation for accurately grasping the work.The second is to read aloud on the basis of memorizing the articles.Recite your memorized speeches, proses, poems, etc. aloud, and always pay attention to the correct pronunciation and clear enunciation, with a certain amount of emotion.The third is the last step of this training, which is to recite with full emotion, accurate language and intonation.

The requirement here is to memorize the article accurately and express the thoughts and feelings of the work accurately.For example, if we want to recite Gorky's poem, we should first understand that this is a prose poem.It is foretelling that the storm of revolution is coming, and it sings the image of Haiyan, a proletarian fighter.The entire prose poem is passionate, expressing the irresistible revolutionary passion of the revolutionaries.Then we must grasp this tone when we read aloud.Of course, it is not enough to just grasp the tone of the work.We also need to do some technical processing on the work, such as dividing paragraphs, determining accents, pauses, and so on.

A mediocre, no wave, no ups and downs, a recitation to the end will not be successful.Some people grasped its passionate and enterprising tone when reciting, but did not pay attention to the recitation skills, and set their mouths on the highest note. As a result, when they reached the highest point of expressing their emotions, they could only be hoarse.We say that this is also due to inaccurate grasp.If attention is paid to the development of recitation skills and the emotional context of the work, such mistakes can be completely avoided. It is best to have professional guidance for this training, especially some guidance on recitation skills.If you don’t have this condition, you can also ask a friend to help you, and ask your friend to listen to your recitation. The so-called "bystander knows", the shortcomings that others can easily find can become the basis for us to improve our eloquence. Voice training is the training of personal voice.In life, we all like to listen to those full, mellow, pleasant voices, while dry and hoarse voices are often annoying.Therefore, developing a good voice and a melodious voice is a necessary condition for a high level of public speaking. The method of practicing voice is: the first step is to practice Qi.As the saying goes, when you practice your voice, you must first train your breath. The breath is the driving force of the human body's vocalization, just like the engine on a car, it is the basis of vocalization.The size of the breath has a direct relationship with the vocalization.Insufficient Qi will make the voice weak; excessive force will damage the vocal cords.So when we practice our voice, we must first learn to use Qi. Inhale: Inhale deeply, contract the lower abdomen, stretch the entire chest, and try to inhale as much air as possible.We can experience the inhalation method when you smell a fragrance.Be careful not to lift your shoulders when you inhale. Exhale: Exhale slowly.Let the breath out slowly.Because we sometimes need a longer breath when we are speaking, reciting, or arguing, then we can only achieve this purpose by exhaling slowly and long.When exhaling, the two teeth can be basically closed.Leave a small slit to allow the breath to pass through slowly. After learning the basic methods of inhalation and exhalation, you can go outside or go to the park to do this kind of exercise every day, and take deep breaths, and it will definitely be effective for a long time. The second step is to practice the voice.The sound source of human language is on the vocal cords, that is, our voice is emitted by vibrating the vocal cords through the airflow. Preparation: relax the vocal cords first, vibrate it with some gentle airflow, prepare the vocal cords a bit, and make some slow voices. Never open your mouth and yell, it will only damage the vocal cords.It's like we have to do some preparatory actions before doing intense exercise, otherwise it is easy to strain the muscles. The vocal cords are active, and we have to do some preparatory activities on the mouth.We know that the oral cavity is an important resonator of human beings. The loudness and roundness of the voice are directly related to the oral cavity, so don't underestimate the role of the oral cavity. Oral activities can be performed in the following ways: Do the practice of opening and closing the mouth to activate the masseter muscles, that is, the dough.In this way, it will be easy for the masseter muscles to move freely when practicing voice. Very soft palate.This method can be experienced by imitating the duck's "gaga" sound. There is another important resonator in the human body, which is the nasal cavity.Some people only use force on the throat when they pronounce, and don't use the two resonators of the chest cavity and nasal cavity at all, so the voice is thin and the timbre is poor.The way to practice the resonance of the nasal cavity is to learn how to call a cow.But we must pay attention, if we only use nasal resonance when speaking on weekdays, it may also cause the result of too much volume. We should also pay attention to, when practicing voice, don't go to practice outside when you just wake up in the morning, otherwise it will damage the vocal cords.Especially when the temperature difference between outdoor and indoor is large, don't open your mouth to shout, that way, the cold air will stimulate the vocal cords after entering the mouth. Practice enunciating words.Articulation seems to be far away from vocalization, but in fact the two are closely related.Only when the pronunciation is accurate, clear and mellow, can the enunciation be "correct and round". When we were in elementary school, we all learned pinyin, and we all know that each word is composed of one syllable, and a syllable can be divided into three parts: the beginning, the belly, and the ending. These three parts come from the phonetic structure. Generally speaking, the initials are what we call initials, the belly is what we call finals, and the end is what we call rhymes. Be sure to bite the beginning of the word when pronouncing the word.There is a saying that "biting a word weighs a lot, and the listener will automatically accept it." This is what it means.Therefore, when we are pronouncing, we must bite the beginning of the word tightly. At this time, the lips must be strong, put the power of pronunciation on the beginning of the word, and use the beginning of the word to ring the belly and the end of the word. The pronunciation of the belly must be full and full, and the mouth shape must be correct.The sound should be vertical, not horizontal, round, not flat.However, if it is not handled well, it is easy to make the sound flat, collapsed, and not round. The suffix is ​​mainly the attribution.Guiyin must be home and complete, that is, don't pronounce the word "half-cut", but pronounce the sound completely.Of course, the end of the word must also be able to be contained, and the sound cannot be dragged too long. If we can follow the above practice requirements, then your enunciation must be mellow and loud, and your voice will become pleasant to the ear. Here are some more exercises like this: Take a deep breath.Count and see how many you can count. Run about 20 meters, and then read a passage of text, try to avoid panting. Read the following idioms according to the requirements of the characters: Heroes, good men, strong soldiers, strong horses, scrambling to be the first, being upright, being upright and thinking The fruit is rich and colorful, the heart is bright, the mirage is indecisive Long history, beautiful mountains and clear waters Read and practice password: (1) The pacesetters rush to the north slope on all sides, and the artillerymen line up on the north slope; (2) Go across the wide ditch with a melon basket, hurry across the ditch to see the strange dog; just see the strange dog buckle the melon basket, and see the dog when the melon basket is empty. (3) Hong Xiaobo and Bai Xiaoguo are collecting radishes in baskets. Hong Xiaobo took a basket of white radishes, and Bai Xiaoguo took a basket of carrots. I don't know whether Hong Xiaobo harvested more white radishes or Bai Xiaoguo harvested more carrots. The retelling method is to use the method of repeating other people's speeches to train people's quick thinking, temporary memory and oral expression ability. The method is: choose an article of appropriate length and a certain plot.It is best to have a strong narrative paragraph in a novel or speech, and then ask someone who is good at reciting to read it aloud. It is best to record it, and then listen to it and repeat it again and again, repeating it many times.Until I can fully retell this work.When retelling, you can record the content of the first retelling, and then compare it with the original text to see how much you can retell, repeat it, and watch how many times you can retell the entire content.This kind of practice is not just about reciting, but about exercising the coherence of language.It would be even better if you can retell it in front of everyone. It can also exercise your courage and overcome your nervousness. This requires us to retell the basic plot at the beginning, and to retell the meaning in our own words when remembering the original words; Retell a certain character language or descriptive language; when retelling for the third time, you should basically and accurately retell the character's language and basic descriptive language, and gradually increase the requirements.Before doing this kind of exercise, it is best to formulate a specific requirement according to your actual situation and the situation of the selected article.For example, if you choose an article with a total of 10 sentences, you should retell the basic plot and a few key sentences when you retell for the first time; you should be able to retell 5 to 7 sentences for the second time; For the third time, you should be able to repeat 8-10 sentences.Persistence will inevitably improve language coherence and memory. When starting to practice, it is best to choose materials with short sentences and interesting materials, so that you can grasp, memorize and repeat them easily.With the deepening of training, you can gradually choose some materials with longer sentences and less plots for practice.In this way, from easy to difficult, step by step, the effect will be better. This practice must be sustained.Some students choose those articles with long sentences and few plots as training materials at the beginning, but the result is that more haste makes waste.It's like learning to walk. If you don't learn to walk, you must fall if you want to learn to run.This training is boring, without patience and perseverance, it is difficult to achieve the purpose of the practice. Human knowledge is actually learned through imitation, and the process of imitation is also a learning process. Therefore, as a leader, you should pay more attention to the people around you, and learn from and imitate those who have expertise in speaking.As time goes on, the ability to speak in public will inevitably increase with time. The specific method is as follows: Imitate professionals.Find a person with strong public speaking ability in your life, and record his most wonderful speeches for you to imitate.You can also record the voices of announcers and actors that you like and are suitable for you to imitate, and then imitate them. Thematic imitation.When several good friends are together, ask one person to tell a short story and humor first, and then everyone takes turns to imitate to see who imitates the most.In order to stimulate enthusiasm, you can also use the form of scoring. Everyone will score together and praise the most successful imitation.This method is simple, easy and entertaining.As long as there are three or four people after dinner, it can be done.What should be noted is that the short stories and humor that everyone tells must be fresh and interesting, and everyone loves to listen and learn.And before speaking, you must make some preparations, you must speak accurately, vividly, and vividly, and you must not bring some wrong things, otherwise the people who imitate will follow in the wrong way, harming others and themselves. Feel free to imitate.We listen to the radio, watch TV, and movies every day, so you can follow the announcer, actor, and actor to imitate at any time, pay attention to his voice, intonation, his demeanor, and movements, and imitate while listening, and imitate while watching, This method can also increase vocabulary. Here it is required to imitate from the tone, speed of speech, expression, movement and other aspects of the imitated object, and to be creative in the imitation, and strive to be better than blue. When doing this kind of exercise, one must pay attention to being selective.To choose those language actions that are good for your body and mind to imitate, some of our students are very good at imitating, but they are not serious enough when imitating, and they only choose some dirty words to imitate. This method of imitation. The imitation method is a method that is easy to learn, highly entertaining, and has quick results. It is suitable for all age groups. If you study hard and practice hard, you will surely see immediate results. People have heard stories, but not all have told stories. Telling stories seems easy, but it is not so easy to tell them. As the saying goes: "It is easy to see flowers, but difficult to embroider them".The stories told by others are vivid and attractive, and even make you forget to eat and sleep to listen to them, but when you tell them yourself, it seems to be different, dry and unattractive.Therefore, storytelling is also a kind of ability, and not everyone can tell a story well.Learning to tell stories is a good way to practice eloquence. Telling stories can improve people's abilities in many ways.Because there are monologues, dialogues, and descriptive and narrative language in the story, storytelling can train people's various oral English abilities. The method is: Analyze the character of the characters in the story.The plot of the story is expressed through the words and actions of people with various personalities, so we must first study the character traits of the characters and the relationship between the characters before telling the story.For example, if we want to tell the fairy tale "The Emperor's New Clothes", then you have to analyze several characters and their personalities, and then make the king's stupidity and ignorance, the liar's cunning and insidiousness, the minister's flattery, indiscriminate Right and wrong, and even the innocence of children are expressed in words, which is a very difficult job. Grasp the personalization of the story language.The language of the story is different from the language of other literary forms, and its biggest feature is strong colloquialism and strong individuality.So when we get a piece of material, don't start practicing telling it right away, but first transform the material into a story suitable for us to tell. Repeat the story.After the above analysis and processing of the materials, we can start to practice speaking.Familiarity with the content is achieved through repeated practice.Finally, I can integrate my own feelings with those of the characters in the story, so as to vividly express the plot of the story and the character of the characters. In addition, while practicing speaking, it is also accompanied by facial expressions and movements.See if your expressions and actions are consistent with what you are telling when you tell the story. The requirements are: first of all, the pronunciation must be accurate and clear.The flat tongue sound, the warped tongue sound, and the four tones must be clear.It is best to be able to speak in Mandarin.Secondly, don't read it as it is written.It is not allowed to read a story with a storybook in your hand when telling a story, that would be like reading a story.Tell stories in colloquial language. Due to the differences in personal knowledge, psychology and age, the methods of practicing eloquence will also be different, but as long as you choose the method that suits you best, coupled with persistent hard training, you will find the golden key to open the door of "eloquence home" . Social life is complicated, and people will always encounter some things or occasions where it is inconvenient to speak out, which requires us to master euphemistic and subtle speaking skills.Implicacy is a method of public speaking that does not express the original intention directly in a conversation or debate, but expresses the original intention in a tortuous and obscure way, with charade characteristics. After World War II, a reporter asked George Bernard Shaw: "Who is the person you most admire in the world today?" Bernard Shaw replied: "If you want to say the first person I admire, you should first push Stalin, who saved the world. World civilization." The reporter then asked: "What about the second person?" Bernard Shaw replied: "The second person I admire is Mr. Einstein. Because he discovered the theory of relativity and pushed science to a new level. Our future has opened up infinite and broad prospects, and his contribution to mankind is immeasurable." The reporter asked again: "Is there a third person in the world that you admire?" Bernard Shaw smiled and said: "As for the third person Personally, for the sake of humility, please forgive me for not saying his name directly." If you think about it carefully, you will understand Shaw's original intention. The reporters understood it and admired Shaw's subtle and humorous speaking skills, and at the same time they got a satisfactory answer. In daily communication, people will always encounter some things that are inconvenient to say, can’t bear to say, or can’t be said directly due to the limitation of the language environment, so they have to "evade words to conceal meaning, and use strange examples to refer to things" (Liu Xie, "Wen Xin") "Diaolong? Xieyin"), intentionally said something related or similar to the original intention, to highlight the meaning that was intended to be said directly, and to make the originally difficult communication smooth. In the following situations, you can try to express your opinions in a tactful and subtle way, and you will often receive unexpected consequences. When it comes to expressing something, an action, or a request that is difficult to say, subtlety can help you out. It is inconvenient to speak clearly about some difficult issues, but when everyone can understand, in order to take care of the face of the other party and maintain their own dignity, you can conceal it when speaking in public, and let the audience experience it for themselves. On February 21, 1972, Nixon visited China and stayed at the Diaoyutai State Guesthouse.Nixon, Kissinger and staff from the White House were arranged in Building 18, while Secretary of State Rogers and others lived in Building 6 not far away. Kissinger lived in this building during his previous two visits.From the arrangement of the residence, Nixon noticed that Zhou Enlai was very familiar with the national conditions of the United States and knew the system of "separation of three powers and checks and balances" established by American power. After arriving at the hotel, everyone sat down on the sofas arranged in a big circle in the living room. Premier Zhou Enlai greeted the American guests one by one, and made a few small jokes from time to time during the greetings to enliven the atmosphere. At that time, due to the lack of formal diplomatic relations between China and the United States and historical reasons, the expression of many issues was difficult.How to maintain one's dignity without embarrassing the other party has become the ideal state of diplomatic activities.When negotiating, the use of implicit methods can not only express one's own meaning, make the other party get it right away, but also make the negotiation go smoothly. Zhou Enlai's diplomatic style is clearly reflected in the use of implicit methods. In the evening, at the reception welcoming President Nixon and his party, Zhou Enlai said: "Due to reasons known to everyone, the exchanges between the peoples of the two countries have been interrupted for more than 20 years..." This "reason everyone knows" is really wonderful. It makes people here know that the cause of this fact is the US blockade and interference in New China, but it does not hurt the face of the Americans.Hearing this "reason", the Americans and Chinese present tacitly smiled at each other. When you find that the leader or elder has indeed made a mistake and it is inconvenient to point it out directly, using implicit language can play a persuasive role. Qi Jinggong abused torture, and the people complained.Yan Ying always wanted to take the opportunity to persuade him.One day, Duke Jing of Qi said to Yan Ying, "Mr.'s house is too close to the market. It is small and damp, noisy and dusty. I want to change you to a better house." Yan Ying declined, "It is also good to be close to the market Besides, how dare you bother the villagers to help me build a house and move.” Jing Gong smiled and said, “You are near the market, do you know the market prices?” Yan Ying nodded.Jinggong said: "Then what do you think is expensive and what is cheap in the market now?" At that time, Qi Jinggong used the torture of cutting off the legs of the people, so there were many fake legs in the market.So Yan Ying took the opportunity to say: "The expensive is the cheapest." It means that the demand for artificial legs in the market is increasing and the price is constantly rising, but the shoes are very cheap.Qi Jinggong realized his mistake and was spared the torture of cutting off his legs. In order to prevent misunderstanding and estrangement, and to make the other party accept the suggestion, the technique of polite criticism can be used for some special people. Cao Yu Zhongfang Dasheng and Chen Bailu had this conversation: Fang: Zhujun, why have you become like this—— Chen: What is this? Fang: Uh, uh, so hospitable - so refreshing. Chen: Wasn't I very cheerful? Fang: (refusing to tell the truth directly) Oh, I'm not, that's not what I meant...I said, you seem to be more generous than before. Chen: I know in your heart that I'm a little too casual and don't care too much. You probably suspect that I'm a libertine, don't you? In this dialogue, Fang Dasheng intended to criticize Chen Bailu for being "too casual", but he was afraid of hurting the other party when he said this, so he used words such as "hospitality", "refreshing", and "generous" to criticize Chen Bailu tactfully, making him Chen Bailu naturally became alert.This kind of blunt criticism is a kind of rhetoric. Another method is to hide first and then show up, that is, first lead them to show their views, and then present facts to prove their wrong views, so that they can deny themselves and achieve the purpose of education. When you don't want to, don't have or need to directly criticize some wrong words and deeds, use implicit language to make euphemistic and indirect criticism, which can not only save face for the criticized, but also make the point clear.Always remember that if you criticize someone harshly instead of veiled and indirect, you may have forgotten.However, the person you hurt will never forget. Chinese people attach great importance to the issue of "face", and we should also pay attention to this when colleagues and friends criticize each other.Many people in life are not like this. They often ruthlessly strip off other people's face and hurt their self-esteem, but they are still self-righteous.In fact, as long as you think about it calmly, for those who are introverted, save face, or who are occasionally negligent and suspicious at work, you only need to implicitly express this kind of criticism, and you can achieve your ideal goal. Charles Scoble once passed his steel factory, it was lunch break time, he saw several workers smoking, and there happened to be a big sign above their heads, which clearly wrote: "Strictly No Smoking." Instead of yelling at the "No Smoking" sign, Scoble walked towards those people, handed them a few cigars in a friendly manner, and said, "Guys, if you can go outside and smoke these cigars , then I am really grateful.” When everyone heard this, they realized that they had violated the factory regulations, so they all extinguished their cigarettes.Scoble's criticism is implicit and full of human touch, so everyone is willing to accept such criticism. When you are not sure whether some of your demands and wishes are reasonable, whether others support them, or it is inconvenient to speak out out of demeanor, using implicit language can help you maintain your self-esteem, avoid embarrassment, and achieve success. "Tan Sou" records such a thing: Song Taizu once promised to grant Zhang Rong the post of chief historian, but he did not order it for a long time.So when Zhang Rong went to court, he deliberately rode a skinny and sick horse.When Taizu saw him, he asked, "Aiqing's horse is too thin. How much food do you feed it every day?" Zhang Rong said, "Feed one stone every day." "I promised not to give it in my mouth." Taizu understood Zhang Rong's words, and soon granted Situ the official post of historian. But implicitness is not paradoxical, it is pretentious, and the purpose of implicitness is to let the other party hear the "undertones" and "undertones" to achieve the purpose of speaking.If implicitness is understood as evasive and evasive, it runs counter to the purpose of implicitness.In public speeches to inspire fighting spirit and exchange ideas, it is better to speak frankly and directly. If you speak too implicitly, people will think you are too hypocritical and artificial, and they will not understand the purpose of your speech.As for public speeches such as news releases and debates, you might as well be more reserved and use more "overtones". In a dynamic context, stimulated by external information, people's thinking activities will gain a wider space, and their thinking state will also show the characteristics of jumping, flexibility and machine change. Creativity, even people will have a sudden whim, flashing many sparks of thought and language that cannot appear in a state of meditation.Therefore, the language expression under the control of dynamic thinking will be more exciting, vivid and full of appeal. 1. Practice thinking and eloquence through conversation Conversation is the process by which people exchange thoughts and feelings.Dynamic thinking usually exists in the communication process, and it is most active when communicating or confronting with the communication object.Among them, conversation with the purpose of information exchange is a simple, effective and ready-to-use method for practicing thinking and eloquence, which deserves attention. During this process, people's thinking machines are in full operation. Under the guidance and control of thinking, the two parties continue to send information and receive information from each other, realizing information exchange and communication.Especially in fruitful conversations, people are bound to be energetic, have frequent mental activities, have rich associations and imaginations, and various functions of thinking will be brought into play better. The materials in the corners are also activated, awakened, and mobilized, which expands the thinking and presents unprecedented creativity.Therefore, in the process of dynamic oral acceptance and response, people's thinking can be sharpened, their thinking ability can be developed, and their eloquence can also be tempered. 2. Practice thinking and eloquence in dialogue Dialogue is a two-way language communication that requires positive and timely feedback from each other, which is self-evident for the training and improvement of the question-answering side.Especially in dialogue activities where opinions are inconsistent, you must capture the core of the other party's meaning as quickly as possible, and even guess the second half of the other party's sentence after hearing the first half of the sentence, so as to win a few points for your own thinking and coping. seconds of time.Use this time difference to think and conceive quickly, and conceive a response speech in a few seconds. In practice, if you can persist in doing this for a long time, it will be of great benefit to training your quick thinking and eloquence.