Chapter 48 stop nagging baby

Tao Lesi Dix believes: "The character of the wife has a lot to do with the happiness of a man's married life. If the wife is irritable, nagging, and picky, then even if she has Other virtues are useless. There are many men who live very decadent lives without the slightest fighting spirit. It is because his wife is endlessly suppressing his every thought and hope. She always sighs and complains about her Husband does not make money like other men; complains that her husband does not write a bestseller like other writers; complains that her husband does not get a good job. If a husband has such a wife, he will It's a little unlucky." It is true that a wife's nagging and fault-finding can bring more misfortune to a family than extravagance.

Dr. Toman is a famous psychologist. He has conducted detailed investigations on 1500 couples.According to the survey, in the eyes of husbands, the wife's biggest shortcoming is nagging and picky.Survey data show that nagging and critical than any other serious damage to normal family life. Socrates' wife, Lan Sipper, was a famous shrew. In order to avoid her, Socrates spent most of his time hiding under the trees in Athens to meditate on philosophy; outstanding big figures, such as Napoleon III of France, Abraham Lincoln and even Augustus Caesar in Rome suffered from nagging wives.

Throughout history, wives have believed that their husbands can change after their nagging and faultfinding.But a large number of facts have proved that this method is futile.Of course, if the sun rises from the west, perhaps their husbands may also be changed under their torture. A young man who has just found a job in the highly competitive advertising industry needs a wife's love and encouragement to keep him going.His wife, active and ambitious, was impatient with her husband, accusing him of clumsiness.He told me in pain that under the constant ridicule and blows from his wife, he almost lost his courage. The most terrifying thing was that his wife seemed to have the power to wear through a stone.In the end it eroded all his confidence.In the end, he lost his job and his wife divorced him.But after the divorce, as sick people eventually recover, he regained his lost confidence.

There are very few couples in this world who do not quarrel, but as long as people are mentally healthy, there will be no cracks in the relationship between the two parties due to disputes.If a husband is faced with nagging after returning home every day, then no matter how great his career is, he will definitely slip from the peak of his career.Needless to say, nagging can destroy any self-motivation. In his speech at the University of Virginia, Professor Sham W. Stephen called for four kinds of powers that a husband should have: the power to refuse nagging and faultfinding; the power to move freely; the power to change clothes after a busy day at work And the power to stop yourself from getting stomach bugs.

Now, do you already believe that a man's success is hindered by nagging?If you don't know if you are nagging, you should ask your husband right away.You'll be shocked if he says you're a nag, but don't deny it immediately, because if you don't recognize your mistake, you'll never be able to correct it.If you also love nagging, you should already understand that nagging is very destructive, you should understand the great pain caused by nagging, and you should sincerely want to correct this problem.Do you know the remedy?Take a look at the six suggestions below: When you can't help but get angry right away; when you nag endlessly on the details of a problem, ask them to point it out right away and fine you $5.

If you've reminded your husband to fulfill his promise to do the dishes, and he doesn't respond after you've told him six or seven times, it means he doesn't want to do the washing, so why bother talking to him?Your nagging will only make him determined not to give in. My grandmother always said, "Don't use something sour, use something sweet to catch more flies." It still holds true today. "Honey, if you mow the lawn, I'll make you your favorite fruit pie tonight." "Honey, you're so capable, you've made our lawn so tidy that even Eileen Smith is envious Well, she said she wished her husband could be as capable as you are." All similar methods can make it easier for you to achieve your goals.

People who are constantly sad because of trivial things will have a nervous breakdown sooner or later.It is unimaginable that some wives can lose their temper after urging their husbands to get towels in the bathroom several times.A sensible woman will never pay the price of a French brand name for a cheap dress, because they know that it is simply a waste.Keeping your humor in will put you in a good mood, only a fool would giggle anytime, anywhere.However, most people don't understand this truth, and they often lose their temper because of some trivial things.Angry turns love into hate. When something unpleasant happens, try not to express your opinion right away, but write it down on a note.Wait until you've all calmed down before discussing the comments.If it's something small.You must be embarrassed to open your mouth again.Husband and wife should use mutual trust to make the atmosphere harmonious and discuss issues rationally and calmly.

According to Charles Scooper's experience, if you want to manipulate a man, don't use the command method, but use the incentive method to make him do what you want him to do.He can't be wrong, because this ability allows him to have a million-dollar annual salary.