Chapter 43 recharge your husband

Timely encouragement is as important to a man as fuel is to an engine.Sometimes luck takes a toll on a person's morale.If the blow is serious, it may make people unable to lift their heads all the time.At this time, if our loved ones say, "Honey, don't be so downcast, this kind of thing is nothing. I believe that you will succeed!" It will make a big difference. When every man struggles in a difficult environment, when he encounters a crisis, when he is on the verge of failure, he needs someone who sincerely trusts him.A man needs a wife who can restore his self-confidence, who has confidence in him no matter the circumstances.If even his wife has no confidence in him, how can others have confidence in him?

The magical dynamic of total trust can help a person regain his confidence and never give up on himself. A senior expert on family issues once said: "Many women don't know what compliments, especially from wives, mean to men. When a man hears from his wife: 'My dear, you I'm the best, I'm so proud of you! I'm so lucky because I chose you! You know what? You will be the greatest glory in my life' When you say something like this, there is no one who is not full of fighting spirit and high spirits Yes. For men, their greatest motivation is the encouragement from their wives.”

Is this statement ridiculous?No, it's completely true, and many men who have achieved success bear this out. Mr. Rob de Belle has always dreamed of becoming a great salesman, because he loves the sales industry very much in his heart. In 1947, Mr. Depelle finally waited for the opportunity and became a salesman of an insurance company.However, Mr. de Belle does not seem to be suitable for salesman, because although he has worked very hard, his business has not improved at all.The salesman has no business, it is like the human body has lost blood, and Mr. Depelle is very annoyed by this.At this time, he felt very nervous and painful, thinking that the best choice he faced now was to resign.

However, Mrs. Depree didn't think so. She kept saying to Mr. Depree: "See what's wrong with you? Has this little setback crushed you? It's only temporary, don't worry, my dear. Next time, next time you will succeed, believe in yourself. You will be the best salesman, I have never doubted that." Later, the de Belle couple decided to exercise themselves first, so the two found a job together in a factory.For the next two years, Mrs. De Bere encouraged her husband.She always reminded her husband not to neglect his appearance and conversation, and she often pointed out the good qualities in him.Most of all, Mrs. De Belle always said: "Trust me, Rob, you were born to be a salesman. If you have the ability, why waste it? Go on, you must It will work."

With the continuous encouragement of his wife, Mr. Rob de Belle regained his confidence.He once said to me: "Dell, think about it, what reason do I have to live up to my wife's deep trust in me? She has always encouraged me and let me build up my confidence in myself. What should I do? Do I have to wait? No, I immediately chose to leave the factory and devote myself to sales again. This time, I am more confident than before.” What a great woman and what a wise wife.Indeed, if a wife continues to praise and motivate her husband, it can definitely make their life look new.Yes, sometimes, a word from the wife can change the husband's attitude towards life, so that there will no longer be dark clouds in their minds.

Ladies, do you know what's on my mind right now?If I were the owner of a sales company, I would very much like to hire such a man as my salesman.I know very well that such intelligent wives will always adore their husbands, and they do not want or see him fail.Therefore, even when their husbands encounter setbacks and failures, they will support them with all their strength and help them up when they fall.Next, they will sincerely soothe the wounds of their good husbands, and then bravely send them back to the battlefield. Ladies, I want you to trust your husbands from the bottom of your heart.Remember, confidence is to a man what fuel is to an engine.Ladies, when you infuse confidence into a man, they keep the men's engine going, keep the engine running in men, and it's like recharging the batteries of their minds.Under the combined effect of these several kinds of motivation, men will no longer experience failure, and what awaits them is only success.

As wives, ladies are obliged to trust your husband.As his disciple, you have a very unique perspective, which will allow you to see special potential in your husband that others cannot see.Why?Because in order to do this, there must be sincere love from the heart and a unique vision. You must verbalize your confidence in your husband, otherwise it will be of no use.The wife must use praise and encouragement, and use words and actions full of love to show that she has enough confidence in her husband.