Chapter 40 It's better to catch his heart than to catch his heart

Women's misfortune in love, in addition to being unkind, is largely due to a biased understanding of love.Love is selfish, but a lover is by no means private property. Love should be maintained with tenderness, consideration, understanding, and communication, and should not use "criminal investigation and monitoring" or even "crying, making trouble, and hanging himself" to keep the husband in the house all the time. around, this can only be counterproductive. Although men and women are independent individuals, they still need to understand each other, support each other, comfort each other, and cuddle each other.A woman who knows how to coax a man is a haven for men to rest their souls and the love they crave.Men wandering in it will experience more warmth and sweetness, and in turn, women will also gain more love.

If you want to be a woman that your husband can't live without, be a woman who will fascinate him.Then, please "poison" your man!Let him slowly "poison" in your feelings, and you are his only antidote.Just think, how can he not surrender to you at that time, how can he leave you.Don’t say that this is the idea of ​​a bad woman, you must know that this kind of feeling that seems bad but not bad is very attractive to a man, which will make him deeply intoxicated. This kind of "badness" may be the best lubrication for your relationship agent. In fact, in fact, many smart women know that love does not need to be grasped too hard, and of course there is no need to give too much, too much will suffocate people.Love is such a special thing, you don't need to deliberately grasp it tightly, the more you want to grasp it, the easier it becomes a shackle.Love needs to breathe freely, whether it is "hard bubble" or "soft grind", it is not the form that love should have.Love is like an art. It needs to be reconciled with heart and romance, so that it can be harmonious and harmonious.You should pay enough attention to the following points:

Seductiveness is something that comes out of a woman's life, in fact, from the bone marrow.It is a kind of colored light with strong penetrating power, a wisp of strong poisonous smoke, which directly stimulates the man's consciousness, making him fall into a state of agitation where he is desperate and fearful of death. Appreciation, attraction, pleasing, obsession and other substances are hidden in "fascination", which has an innate talent. "Wildness" refers to an unrestrained, arbitrary, and unrestrained personality, usually manifested as pure nature without secular pollution, free and easy without being restricted by rules.When you touch her, you will feel that she is like a wild plant from the vast grassland, exuding a primitive wild smell; People think it is crazy, but it always reveals a gratifying freshness.As soon as she appeared, the air would immediately become alive, infecting everyone present would suddenly have vitality, and they couldn't help but want to jump up and down.

A woman who can only make men fear her but not love her, or only make men love her but not be afraid of her, is a failure. The real attraction of a woman is to make people linger but dare not get too close. Cultivating men's hobbies is a good way to "stabilize" men.After a strong business woman got married, she couldn't always accompany her husband to entertain after get off work, so she intentionally cultivated her husband's hobbies.She taught her husband to fall in love with playing mahjong, and gave him a set of karaoke with good sound to teach him how to sing.Later, her husband became obsessed with these, and the relationship between husband and wife was quite good.It turned out that this was the wife's good intentions to cultivate her husband's hobbies and prevent emotional smuggling.

The nature of a man is to be restless with the status quo. If a woman wants to keep a man by her side for a long time, the secret is beauty and children.In the Mood for Love, a woman can naturally attract her man. This is the first period when a woman can keep a man by her side.But because women's beauty is perishable, it is very dangerous after this period.Don't be afraid, you still have children, men like children, women's motherhood and the power of children are enough to keep men.When the child grows up, women should use their broad mind and friend-like warmth to make men have a quiet haven and a confidant in the midst of busyness and fatigue.

Sex life plays an important role in maintaining the stability of marriage. A psychologist carefully studied the reasons for the divorce of couples. There are four points: one is that both parties are not satisfied in sexual life; Abnormal state of mind, emotion, and body.Among them, the marriage breakdown caused by the first problem is the most. Someone once pointed out: "In addition to human factors, including social factors, the greatest pleasure of a man and woman union is the mutual satisfaction of sexual life. Without this, the tree of love will not be evergreen." Being a man, no matter the nature of his work, no matter how alluring or fascinated it may be to him, always brings him some degree of tension.After he goes home, if there is a comfortable, quiet and orderly environment, these tensions and fatigue can be eliminated, his mind, body and emotion can be balanced, and he will have more abundant mental and physical strength to meet challenges .

The main responsibility for making the home elegant and comfortable lies with the wife.As a wife, you must be clear about the decoration and arrangement of your home. Don't start from your personal hobbies, otherwise, your thoughts will be in vain. There is one sample collar that should be compulsory for women, and that is the skill of cooking.As the saying goes: "First grab a man's stomach, and then grab a man's heart." Men are worried that the beauty of their wives will attract others.If your husband or boyfriend was once proud of your looks, you must give him enough "sense of security" if you want to be with him.Tell him you have no second thoughts, want him to feel at ease, and want him to trust you.

Many families break up and love changes are due to the negligence of women, who overestimate the responsibility and restraint of men. Without restraint, men will fall into extramarital affairs as soon as they encounter temptation.Therefore, some women feel that their husbands should be strictly supervised to be a "strict wife". However, "too much is not enough" in everything. Excessive supervision will make men breathless and feel that the family is full of pressure like a company.Therefore, when a wife is a "strict wife", enough is enough, let him go when necessary, let him be free, and then "tighten" at the right time, so that he will be in your arms forever. under control.