Chapter 36 don't cheat on him

In an impetuous society, some people's emotions have become volatile, so that the balance of marriage is also in a state of imbalance.Although every married woman does not want her husband to cheat, it inevitably happens.Therefore, cheating on her husband is a topic that every married woman must face. Marriage between a man and a woman is not like in fairy tales, "the prince and princess live happily ever after".The union of two people is that two people face some responsibilities together, including hurts and mistakes from each other.Marriage is very important to every woman.However, marriage is not the whole of a woman's emotional comfort, let alone the whole of a woman's life and life.If a woman can figure this out, even if the marriage goes wrong in the future, she doesn't have to worry about it.However, please keep in mind that when making a choice, don't pursue emotional supremacy.In addition, you must clearly remember that no one can make promises to you about your future life. The only way for you to keep yourself from being harmed or less harmed is to make your mind independent and strong enough. , you are always living alone.

You should know that, for men, having an extramarital affair is to add some seasoning to the boring life, and it is to add happiness to themselves. What they need is a sense of freshness, a sense of romance.But most of them are "beauty lovers love wives more", because they don't want to bear the double condemnation of morality and society, let alone give up marriage and family.If your husband really has an affair and wants to leave you, but you don’t want him to leave, you need to be gentle and calm, and you need to be calm and rational, and don’t impulsively do things that you regret, and don’t cheat on him .

Because of revenge, not only hurt himself, but also hurt him.It can be said that people can forgive their husband for having an affair, but they will accuse you of infidelity, even her relatives and friends.Maybe you will feel happy when you take revenge, but this kind of behavior makes you violate the rules you have always followed, and the pain caused by this kind of behavior may be painful in the depths of your soul for the rest of your life.Are you willing to let yourself feel a lingering sense of guilt all the time?Do you let the tension of walking on thin ice stay with you all the time?Will you be living a tightrope walk of fear all the time?If you don't want to keep yourself divided, conflicted, and miserable for a long time, then don't cheat.

Because you should know, if you give up all your life because of your husband's change, is it worth it?How will she face her children and parents?Even if it's a divorce, can you really be sure that the next man will be a devoted lover?Perhaps his overall quality may not be as good as the current man.Therefore, while facing the harsh reality, what you have to do is to accept the fact that it is not perfect, which is a wise choice. In addition, you have to keep your dignity. No matter how much you love him, no matter how much you are attached to him, if he is determined not to come back, you must not bow down, make a scene, let alone seek death.You know, if you do this, it will make your lover feel upset and get farther and farther away from you.Even if you are unfortunate enough to pass away, the happiest person is still your love rival.Therefore, don't use this bad strategy, but live with more confidence, and you will become more rational and attractive.In the next few days, maybe you will start a more sincere new love, and maybe make your lover fall in love with you again and even more crazily.In fact, people can always start life again.Just don't pin the hope of life on others, only you are your own savior.You can only change yourself and adjust your mentality.

Extramarital affairs are like fireworks blooming in the night sky. They are only beautiful for a moment, but the wounds left on the soul and family are hard to heal for a long time.Any indulgent behavior is ultimately the one who bears the responsibility. Therefore, when facing feelings, smart women will be more rational, and will not play with fire and set themselves on fire, and will not choose cheating as a means of revenge. Ten psychology of extramarital affairs: Physiologically unsatisfied, the reason is that the husband and wife are not in harmony, or the lonely couple lives apart, or one of them has a physical defect, so he actively seeks a third party or is willing to accept a third party to compensate, resulting in an extramarital affair.In fact, the whole content of married life is not just sex life. Husband and wife communicate more emotionally with each other, strengthen contact, express their miss for their lover, and live a fulfilling life, so why do they need to make up for it?

The two who fell in love did not come together in the end, but they still have a relationship.At this time, once one party's life is difficult or the relationship is not harmonious, the other party misses the old love and actively throws himself into the arms of the lover, resulting in an extramarital affair.In fact, unmarried lovers should face the reality.Now that you are married, you should cherish the relationship between husband and wife and take on the responsibilities of the family. Even if life is difficult or the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, you should not use extramarital affairs to escape. For the other party, it is not so much Helping the other party is better than destroying the other party's family happiness.

Because some people are greedy for the other party's money, they don't care about their own personality at all, and they devote themselves to the other party in exchange for money, and have extramarital affairs.In fact, if you have more money, you can use it more, and if you have less money, you can spend less. They are all external things, how can they be compared with the precious personality.In addition, rich people should also know that others only care about your money, so why should you give your true feelings to each other and have a relationship. He likes beautiful women (men with fit bodies), so he takes the initiative to attack and have extramarital affairs.In fact, the external beauty will fade with age, but the spiritual beauty is eternal. Like fine wine, it can stand the test of time and get better with age.Therefore, you should be good at discovering the shining points of your spouse, and give a little more of your true feelings, so that Xi Shi will naturally appear in the eyes of your lover.

Received help from the other party due to difficulties in life, or one of the husband and wife was away, feeling that he could not repay the help of others, so he offered his body and had an extramarital affair.In fact, when someone helps you, you don't think about your return. Just keep this kindness in your heart, why sacrifice your body?But don't do bad things with good intentions and affect the other party's family. One of the husband and wife has an affair, so the other party does not listen to dissuasion to retaliate against the other party, but takes the initiative to seek a third party, resulting in an extramarital affair.In fact, why do you need to know your mistakes and make mistakes?Choosing such an approach is not to fulfill the other party's mistake.Marriage and divorce are very free. If the broken relationship is irretrievable, why not let it go.It's better to be good and easy to break up, and being a friend is better than taking revenge on each other.

Couples who have lived for many years feel dull and boring, and then see the tenderness, romance and charm of the lover in the play, living a happy, chic and comfortable life, so their hearts are ready to move, and they want to experience this kind of life.Driven by curiosity, an extramarital affair occurred.We must know that curiosity killed the cat, and don't let a peaceful life be ruined because of curiosity. Some people think that life is too short, why not enjoy yourself while you are young?So promiscuous heterosexual friends, extramarital affairs.In fact, the difference between humans and animals is that humans have thinking and creativity.Everyone should consciously resist obscene film and television books and establish correct morality and outlook on life.

Because of mutual support and help at work, the two fell in love with each other for a long time, and the two had an extramarital affair.In fact, work and life are separate. Happy cooperation at work does not mean harmony in married life. Why don't we get along like brothers and sisters? Each other uses each other because of some constraints.The two colluded with each other and became a partner to commit crimes. Neither of them could do without the other, and they had an extramarital affair.As the saying goes: "Don't stretch out your hand, you will be caught if you stretch out your hand."Once the dongchuang incident is revealed and people are sent to jail, such an extramarital affair has to go to the prison to "love".