Chapter 32 be a woman who will love

Any child can tell you that the human weakness is selfishness, stupidity, greed, and self righteousness.But only a mature personality has the ability to recognize the wonderfulness of human beings, to discover the source of human individuality and unlimited capabilities. Love occupies the whole of man's personality and spreads its splendor over the actions of all.A caring person who is passionate about his work, everyone around him and life. In the eyes of men, a caring woman is the most attractive wife. Smart girls tend to take the initiative to create opportunities instead of waiting for them.She enjoyed the whole process of courtship, which drenched her patience and skill.

As a woman, you should understand the value of a harmonious family and the meaning of a warm home to a woman.However, a complete family can never be separated from a man.I remember a saying that goes like this: "The more you know about men, the more security you have for women." Although this sentence is somewhat one-sided, it is not unreasonable.However, can women really understand the inner world of men? In life, men play different roles such as leaders, subordinates, husbands, fathers, and sons, and shoulder various arduous missions. This requires them to work hard when fulfilling their responsibilities to the family, wife, children, and the environment. Go all out.If these responsibilities are not fulfilled, men will be condemned by all parties in society. Therefore, to be a good man is actually very tiring and not easy to do.

To be a woman who knows how to love, one must learn to love her own man. This is the beginning for a smart woman to create her own happiness and happy family. So how can a woman love a man?Learn the following nine things, and you may become a woman who will love. Just love, don't compare, don't always talk about other people's husbands in front of your husband, don't criticize him for being worthless.You are his closest person, and if you love him, you must respect him. For most men, praise and encouragement can give him more strength to fight than insults.Therefore, even when you are quarreling, you should not hurt others. Physical damage is easy to heal, but mental damage will last for a long time.

As long as you experience it with your heart, you can taste it.Love is made, not spoken.The love that hangs on the lips and does not fall into the reality is pale and weak. Married life is reality, and romantic love is not real life. Money has a price, sincerity is priceless.Material pursuits are endless, and your life is not for others to see.Only you know whether the shoes fit your feet, comfort is the most important thing, you must know that true love is hard to find. If you don't trust your husband, it's like building a tower on sand, and you can't build a close relationship.Lack of trust is the biggest obstacle to intimacy. Everyone's growth experience will affect the development of trust ability. A happy marriage is based on mutual trust.

If you are completely dependent on others spiritually and materially and let the other party play the role of provider, then your self-esteem will be taken away by others, you will feel more insecure, feel lonely, and your sense of fear will deepen day by day.Therefore, true intimacy is a delicately balanced interaction.Proper dependence on your lover will make your attraction last longer. Women should reserve an emotional space to love themselves.They have the right to retain their privacy and to participate in social activities alone.Of course, it is also very necessary to keep a self-space for the husband.This situation often occurs in daily life: the wife always hopes that her husband can stay by her side, but the husband is not willing. Although the wife cooks delicious meals for him and gives him a lot of tenderness and feminine beauty, the husband still Not feeling happy.On the contrary, they will feel empty and boring, and the tighter the wife "sticks", the stronger this feeling will be for the husband.

Therefore, in married life, unless the couple can respect each other's hobbies and give each other a certain amount of space, no couple can be happy and complete. In modern society, the competition is fierce and the pace of life is accelerating. Everyone is very busy at work. Many people are too busy with their careers to take care of the couple's emotional life. As a result, the couple often cannot eat and rest together, which affects the relationship between the two. Consolidation and development of feelings.Therefore, no matter how busy the couple is at work, they should arrange it skillfully and squeeze out time for the two to enjoy the love together.

Your lover's parents are your own parents, and you love your house as much as you want. As long as you really feel that these are your parents deep down in your heart, and you are psychologically attached to the elderly, the elderly will feel your sincerity.Be nice to his parents, and he'll be nice to you.What's more, old people are like children, as long as they make the elderly happy like children. If a woman can always care about the man she loves, then he will be reassuring and trustworthy when he works and lives alone away from you and his family; if a woman is good at caring for a man, she will also drive him to care and understand him People around; a woman who can love a man must also be a confident and attractive person.

For a man, his greatest motivation is the encouragement from his wife.Therefore, as a woman, don't be too demanding and picky on your man, let alone compare him with other men. What you should do is to gently encourage him, praise him, cheer him up, and work hard to find His shining point.Even when he does a mundane thing well, when he takes a small step towards his dream goal, you should start praising him right away.You have to know that your praise at this time is not only an affirmation, but also injecting confidence into him.Your praise will even change his outlook on life and the whole way of life in the future. He will feel that he has the obligation and passion to work hard and strive for greater success for his family, his wife, and your future beautiful life.