Chapter 29 Femininity "captures" a man

When men evaluate women, they have different attitudes and opinions, but basically they evaluate women in terms of appearance and connotation.Of course, as for the rhetorical point of view itself, it is related to the quality and connotation of the man who evaluates the woman. At the same time, even today when individuality is promoted, a woman should be like a woman, or a woman should be feminine.The so-called femininity refers to a kind of personality, a kind of cultural accomplishment, a kind of taste, a kind of external expression of good taste, and of course it is a kind of inner temperament.In short, femininity is the charm and demeanor of a woman.For a woman with taste, the three points for beauty can be increased to seven points; for women without taste, the seven points for beauty can be reduced to three points.A tasteless woman, even if she has a flowery face and a proud figure, as long as she opens her mouth, it is enough to expose her poor heart and empty spirit.

Therefore, beautiful does not mean femininity. Some women regard "weakness" as the embodiment of "beauty", and interpret sister Lin's morbidity, melancholy, and bitterness as femininity.This kind of woman is always sentimental, as if life is a disaster, and although the Buddha saves all living beings, he can't lead her out of the sea of ​​suffering.This kind of woman seems to be born with only sorrow and lamentation, no joy and joy.If a man falls in love with such a woman, he will inevitably step into a world of depression, sorrow and sorrow. Therefore, "weak" does not mean femininity.

Unfortunately, some women's arrogance and solipsism cover up their femininity.This kind of woman absolutely believes in herself, and believes that there can only be one "self" among all living beings, not two.She stubbornly believes that "self" is the only "cutest person" in a man's heart.Because of this kind of blind and subjective arrogance, they are arrogant, and even if others are better than themselves, they still don't take it seriously, or they are jealous, or they find faults in others, expose their privacy, slander wantonly, and even use unscrupulous means.They always take themselves as the center of the circle and ask others to draw a circle around the "self", as if others have to live and die for her, right and wrong, good and bad depend entirely on her will.She is headstrong, willful, and never respects others.

Therefore, self-centeredness does not mean femininity. Many men think that sexy women are the most feminine.However, not every woman is naturally sexy.Putting sexiness on different women will exude different tastes or produce strange effects, which depends on whether the individual's cultivation and the way it is released are clever or artistic.The highest state is the aesthetically pleasing sexiness, which is "sexy in the bone" that kills people invisible.Knowing the sexy tricks, you will know how to discover, release and express your hidden sexy charm from the inside out, from head to toe.

The new sexiness index has already surpassed the problem of vision, body shape or how much exposure. A flowery smile, innocent or coquettish eye waves, and a melancholy and ecstatic demeanor when indulging in thinking or imagining are all more restrained sexy.The French are the people who have won the secret of sexy.The French are good at using body language, such as winking, raising eyebrows and pouting when they are helpless or amazed.Among all kinds of body language, inadvertent self-touch is the most ecstatic little gesture.Such as inadvertently biting fingers, resting cheeks, inadvertently pulling back hair chicly, gently holding the face with both hands, shrugging shoulders in desperation, crossing hands and stroking the shoulders, all these are small charming gestures.

Many people will be fascinated by the remoteness, wildness and mystery in the exotic.The way to manage the exotic atmosphere can be to wear some rich ethnic clothes and keep a head of straight, waist-length black hair (maybe let it be a little messy).If you have the conditions, let yourself travel more and spend more time wandering, which is the best way to maintain an exotic atmosphere. Women have multiple sexy zones, such as ankles, earlobes, shoulders, nape of the neck, arms, etc., so wear a small anklet on the ankle, hang a big earring on the earlobe, wear an armband on the arm or print a chic Patterns can significantly increase a woman's sexiness index.

The vast majority of jeans advertisements "sell" sexy, which shows the ability of jeans to manage sexy.In addition to the models who sell the jeans themselves, the unruly and self-contained image often shown in jeans advertisements actually has a subtle connection with sexiness to some extent.Zhong Chuhong, who was lying on the ground doing jeans advertising for Levi's back then, made her sex appeal doubled because of wearing perfectly cut jeans! People who play musical instruments and dance will always reveal a sensuality and tenderness mixed with sexy, and this demeanor is actually more attractive than sexy.Among them, men play the piano and saxophone, while women play the violin or cello, dance Spanish dance and tango, showing euphemistic or glamorous eyes.It's heart-wrenching and uncontrollable.

A Wang Qiushui or thin eyebrows and thin eyes actually have their own unique expression of sexy.Whether it is melancholy, ethereal, lazy, innocent with a smile or with flames hidden in the eyes, as long as there is charm and hope, the eye wave is the birthplace of sexiness. The reason why the French are known as the sexiest nation is precisely because the French speak full of sensibility and ups and downs, while French is like a whispering soft language.Even if you don't know French, isn't it a sexy experience to listen to a voice that is full of rhythm and beauty, and takes the listener to wander in dreams?

Cool and sexy has been popular for a long time, but under the general trend of returning to basics, angelic sexy is becoming more and more popular.Let your heart be as curious, innocent and enthusiastic as a child, so that you can reveal an alternative sexiness mixed with innocence and childishness in your eyes.In fact, Marilyn Monroe is very childish, and coupled with her devilish figure, together they constitute an angelic sexy. Unless you are naturally glamorous or unattainable.Otherwise, a woman who is afraid or unwilling to reveal her true nature, is lukewarm in everything, and restrains her emotions everywhere, probably has very limited sexiness.And women who dare to love and hate, and are full of enthusiasm and aura for life, they themselves are a fire, and they are also yearning for them.

Appropriate matching of black can certainly add a mysterious charm, while a moderate dot of red can also make people feel that you are a woman who loves adventure, loves challenges and is full of enthusiasm.Sometimes, when a beautiful woman puts on lipstick in public, especially the kind of wet lipstick, she may immediately show her charm and make men fascinated by it. Oddly enough, some degree of body odor is often what constitutes sexy "manliness" or "femininity."If you don't have sweaty or "feminine" scents, then pick out some perfumes that suit you. Sexuality through exposure is a delicate art.One of the big principles is to be vague and revealing, and the other is to be very selective.If you have a beautiful belly button, a small waist, skinny shoulders, a slender nape, and wonderful long legs, then you might as well show them.Otherwise, it's still the same sentence: "It's better to hide your clumsiness than to show your ugliness."