Chapter 28 be a flirtatious woman
Modern women don't need to wear exquisite clothes or expensive cosmetics, but they must have a romantic atmosphere.A woman without romance will not make people feel cute even if she dresses up dreamily.
Romance is a symbol of beauty, and women with romance are the cutest.Because of romance, a woman takes the man she loves to a western restaurant to enjoy the candlelight dinner; The concert hall accepts the cultivation of guqin and guzheng; because of romance, women use their own subjective perception of beauty, and turn themselves into the embodiment of objective beauty.
The lives of modern people are mostly busy.The pressure of life makes everyone more or less depressed. A woman who likes romance and is good at creating a romantic atmosphere will make her popular very well.Romantic women are usually more open-minded and don't care about other women. They will set their sights in the distance and be full of good vision and expectations for their future life.They often bring a lot of fun to the people around them, making them full of romance under her infection.
So add some romance to your life!No matter what stage your life is at, because romantic sentiment is a very valuable taste, it can make your life interesting and meaningful, and it will make people understand what is life, what is life, what is love, what is It is friendship, so that people will cherish today's beauty even more!
Indeed, women with emotional appeal can touch men's hearts the most, because men also have a heart longing for romance under their rough appearance.Although emotional appeal cannot be equated with romance, emotional appeal can create romance.Emotional sentiment is actually a pursuit of quality of life, which requires personal enjoyment and tasteful cultural consumption.
In life, many women associate emotional appeal with the above-mentioned high-end places, and think that emotional appeal is a kind of luxury enjoyment, which is always out of reach of ordinary people.In fact, this kind of thinking of ladies is wrong. Mood is a woman's taste in life, and it is a style expressed by thoughts and feelings.Ladies should be clear that sentiment has nothing to do with money or status.
The famous American psychologist Donald Carter once said in an interview with me: "Modern people are facing more and more pressure, and many people can't bear it. Therefore, both men and women need to find a way to relieve these pressures. Stress. In my opinion, the best and most effective way is to adjust your life with mood. It can make life colorful and make you feel happy. Of course, these don’t need to cost you a lot of money.”
The top British fashion designer George Dreyer also said: "Sentiment is not a luxury. As long as you want, everyone can live a very romantic life every day. For example, if I give you a basket of Some of the pears are rotten, so what should you do with them? Some people will say eat the rotten ones first, because you can save yourself the next part. But when you finish eating the rotten pears, you find that the good ones are gone Rotten. In this way, what you eat will always be rotten. Some people say to eat the good ones first, because that way you can enjoy the deliciousness. But when you finish eating the good pears, those rotten pears are no longer available. In this way, you waste a lot. In fact, you only need to use your brain. Why not dig out the rotten part, boil it into pear syrup, and eat the good part in the process? This is A great way to kill two birds with one stone. Obviously, it won't cost you a lot of time or money, but it will spice up your life."
Ladies, as long as you have a heart that loves life, then you will definitely be able to change your life through emotional appeal, and you can also use emotional appeal to win the love of men.Ladies have to play many roles in life, daughter, girlfriend, wife, mother, and if you can make each role perfect and make your life full of emotion, then your mood will be much brighter, and the people around you The mood will be much brighter.
Emotional women know what they need most, they will arrange their lives well, and they will also maintain the most important things in their lives.Only a woman who understands emotional appeal can truly love others and make herself truly happy.And only when a woman is happy herself can the men around her be happy.Although love is a difficult question to explain clearly, happiness is an indispensable factor in love.
In life, if you want to obtain an eternal love, it is also very important to know how to create emotional love.Many women think that love is two people who like each other, help each other, and then start a family and have children.Indeed, life in reality is like this, but love is a romantic word, and it does not need emotional adjustment all the time.Love without sentimentality would be dull.
Therefore, if you want to truly become a stylish woman, you can work hard in the following aspects:
Dr. Louis M. Whiteman has studied more than 1,500 married couples. He found that many men believe that the wife does not know how to express love is the second most common cause of marital disharmony after nagging. reason.
Many women can handle sudden crises with ease.Even if the husband loses his job, or suffers from a serious illness, or is sentenced for a crime, the wife is as strong as the rocks in the Strait of Gibraltar to support her husband.However, when her life was stable, she forgot everything, and forgot to express her most desired love to her husband. She forgot to tell him that his position in her heart was so important—this situation would be Very sad and dangerous.
In life, many couples are always able to make sacrifices in big things, but they are always unable to be tolerant in small things.For example, she could not treat her husband's former girlfriend calmly.If the husband casually mentions that he met his ex-girlfriend, what a wife should do is to praise her for her goodness and tell all you know.If you don't know anything, it's not a bad idea to even make something up to please your husband.
If your husband took you to the theater and had a great evening; if he sent you a bouquet of roses; or if he just took out the kitchen trash every morning... for these little things, a wife should thank her husband doing these things.If the wife thinks that the husband should be doing these things, then the husband will soon stop doing these things to try to please his wife.
But in the middle of life, most wives have long been used to the "little things" that their husbands do every day, so they don't know how much he does.There are even wives who think their husbands don't help them at all - he doesn't change the baby's diaper, he doesn't turn that leaky faucet tight, he doesn't always considerately pour a glass of water every night Put it on the bedside... When your husband is not around, you will finally be surprised to find that your husband does many inconspicuous things every day, but you didn't notice it, and at this moment you can only do it yourself up.