Chapter 14 Be a happy intellectual woman

Women must read, women are beautiful because of reading, women who love reading are a beautiful scenery wherever they go.They may be ordinary in appearance, or they may be plainly dressed, but they have an inner temperament, elegant conversation, and otherworldliness. Books can affect the human mind, and the human mind and human temperament are interlinked.Reading can enable us to acquire knowledge, increase our talents, improve our realm of life, and make our lives very fulfilling.In addition, reading can also make us happy physically and mentally and cultivate our sentiments. "The world is very beautiful, but if there is no woman, it will lose its color; a woman is very beautiful, but if you stay away from books, it will lose its essence." Books are like a key, which can broaden a woman's vision and purify her heart heart, filling her mind.It makes women smart, tough, and mature, and makes women understand that the appearance of packaging is important, but more importantly, it is to nourish the soul.A woman who reads is beautiful, and if she likes to read, it is equivalent to turning the ordinary time in life into a moment of great enjoyment.A woman who loves to read, her beauty is not flowers, not fine wine, she is just a cup of light tea exuding a faint fragrance.Reading some good books will keep a woman eternally beautiful.

Romain Rolland once said: "If you live with books, you will never sigh." It can be seen that if you want to be a woman in the new era with independent ideas, connotations, and strong femininity, reading is the only way. For books, different women have different tastes, different tastes will have different choices, and different choices will have different effects.Books have improved their realm of life and made them live a full life. Moreover, in general, educated women are at the top of women's lives in society, and they enjoy more life opportunities than ordinary women, such as opportunities for education, career opportunities, marriage opportunities, opportunities for promotion, and opportunities for high remuneration. Should be the happiest woman.However, the reality of life of intellectual women is not the case for everyone.

Intellectual women are professional women or career women, and the best professional positions and the most successful careers will inevitably bring troubles and confusion to people, because heavy responsibilities are more challenging.Entering the new century, science and technology are changing with each passing day, and ideas and concepts are constantly being liberated and updated, which undoubtedly provides intellectual women with an unprecedented broader world to reflect their own value.According to statistics, women account for 1/2 of the world's population. They pay 2/3 of the working hours of all human beings, but they receive only 1/10 of the remuneration, and their property is only 1%. Only 3% to 4%.

Although intellectual women should pursue noble careers and achieve success because of their knowledge, they cannot lack the happiness that an ordinary woman should enjoy.In daily life, everyone has mental and emotional depression and fluctuations, which are not only related to inherent factors such as personal personality, menstrual cycle, endocrine status, etc., but also very vulnerable to work pressure, career ups and downs, love setbacks and family discord Influenced by other external factors, it is not uncommon for educated women to suffer from stress and social illness.Some people say that it is difficult to be a woman, but in fact, it is even more difficult to be a happy intellectual woman.

So, how to become a happy intellectual woman? Creating a good mood is a compulsory course for intellectual women.Psychologists have a vivid saying: "Mood is an elongated emotion", which leaves a clear imprint on all other experiences and activities of a person.As the saying goes, "People feel refreshed when they meet happy events". A good mood makes people feel that "everything goes well", and they can solve problems easily; a negative mood makes people depressed, bored, and even slow in thinking.Intellectual women can best become the masters of a happy state of mind because of their knowledge.But to consciously cultivate and control one's own state of mind and maintain long-lasting happiness, one must keep in mind the sixteen-character motto of psychologists: "Inspire your spirit, enjoy yourself, have a wide range of hobbies, and be willing to communicate." James said: "If you feel If you are not happy, then you have to find a way to be happy, and that is to lift your spirits." Always be happy for what you have and not worry about what you don't have, which is the main way to enjoy yourself.Cultivating a variety of hobbies can cultivate sentiment and increase fun.Making friends extensively is an essential part of maintaining a happy mood.

If this realization makes sense, then intellectual women should strive to be healthy women.Regarding healthy women, there is no uniform and clear standard.According to psychological analysis, it can be understood from three aspects: psychological statistics, psychological symptoms and inner experience.According to sociological interpretation, it can be based on the ability to solve practical problems faced in life as a standard.Those who can correctly understand their own social roles and correctly understand their social environment.Intellectual women who have the ability to solve the problems they face, have certain goals and work hard for them must be healthy women.