Chapter 5 Touch people with sound

A woman's voice is a melody that can pass through a man's soul, and a man will always chew on a woman's voice in his most secret thoughts. A woman's gentle voice can often conquer and anesthetize a man.When a woman asks her male boss for leave or seeks a chance to go on a business trip, she usually uses a gentle tone and things will work out.In fact, the gentle voice looks soft on the surface, but in essence it burns like fire.Although men often boast that they are strong and iron, they often appear extremely fragile in front of gentle voices. However, in life, there are many women who speak very bluntly. Apart from not using appropriate language, these women have not paid attention to the tone of their speech: some women speak in a high-pitched voice, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. Maturity; some women talk too mechanically and mechanically, making people feel silly...

In fact, female voices can be trained just like female bodies. The voice can be beautiful or ugly, the key lies in how you grasp and control it.A woman's voice is like a musical scale, capable of infinite combinations.Everyone's voice range is very plastic, or high-pitched, or low, or single, or vigorous.When speaking, you have to control your pitch so that your voice is not shrill.Screaming can indicate nervousness, panic, or excitement; conversely, speaking in a low-pitched, limp voice can make you sound less enthusiastic and lifeless.Therefore, learn to change different tones in different environments, and use appropriate audio, timbre and volume to find the best effect.If you turn a blind eye to the flaws in your own voice, you will often turn a phoenix into a crow, because losing the original charm of a female voice is like losing the characteristics of a woman.

Of course, don't be overly proud and superior because you have a pleasant voice, otherwise you will be easily disgusted and resisted by men.Voice is a woman's weapon, and women should pay special attention to the sound of hurting others.Men are obsessed with women's voices, but if women's voices always show excessive domineering, this will hurt a man's self-esteem.Moreover, because men have a very strong memory for sounds.Once he dislikes a certain sound, it will leave an indelible impression on his mind. Psychological research shows that 80% of a person's perception and impression of external things rely on vision, and 14% of the remaining 20% ​​rely on hearing.It can be seen that the importance of hearing in the impression of people is still in the face-to-face situation; especially in modern society, using voice to handle official affairs on the phone, talking with friends or even lingering on the phone with a lover who is separated from two places It is already a very realistic thing.Maybe in the future world, women will be the masters.The main reason for women's authority and influence over men, besides wisdom, may be more important than women's voice.

If a woman's speech is both knowledgeable and interesting, and can be expressed with rich expressions and beautiful voices, it will achieve unexpected results. A beautiful voice has a direct charm, smart women should know how to control their own voice.Many white-collar women who linger in front of the dressing table are very interested in and confident in their appearance and clothing, but they seldom pay attention to their own voices.We often see some good-looking, well-dressed white-collar women who make men shake their heads when they speak, but those ordinary-looking white-collar women who speak neither fast nor slow and well-articulated are more "comfortable" "impression.

Therefore, as a white-collar woman, if you want to make yourself more attractive, in addition to all external conditions, you must also pay attention to your voice, not to mention that the voice is not only to attract the opposite sex, but also related to the success or failure of your personal work. So, how do you make your voice contagious? Correct and appropriate pronunciation will help you express your thoughts accurately and communicate well with others.If you mispronounce and slur your words, it can indicate disorganized thinking, unclear opinions, or apathy on a topic, which can make people feel so unnatural that it creates an instinctive resistance.

Talking loudly on any occasion will make the other party feel oppressed, tense, and easily fatigued, leading to inattention and reducing the effectiveness of communication.If it is loud to the point of "noisy", it is even more unwise to attract the attention of irrelevant people, which violates the principle of "don't let yourself be noticed" in communication situations.Generally speaking, the volume in social situations should be heard by the other party, and it should be slightly lower on the phone. In all occasions where spoken language is used, intonation is inseparable.Intonation is the most important expressive skill of spoken language. In a sentence, the intonation directly determines the expressive effect of the spoken word theme.The tone of speech is also a direct reflection of a person's inner attitude towards people and things.Appropriate intonation is conducive to the accurate expression of meaning and can improve the efficiency of communication.A gentle tone of voice can make the attitude of speaking appear amiable, and winning people's hearts and getting good communication results will help half of the success in the initial stage.

When you are talking with others, it is very important to choose the appropriate speaking rate.Speaking too fast, like too high a pitch, can give people a sense of tension and anxiety.If you speak so fast that some words are slurred, other people may not be able to understand what you are saying.Of course, if the speaking speed is too slow, it will gradually make people lose patience and feel anxious and dull.Try to keep your speaking rate just right, not too fast and not too slow, and keep adjusting as you speak. In daily life, we often hear the pronunciation of "huh... um...", which is the nasal sound.If you often use a nasal voice when you speak, you will definitely not be popular with others, because your voice will sound complaining, lifeless, and very negative.If you want your words to be more attractive and persuasive, if you want your language to be more engaging, stop using nasal sounds from now on.