Chapter 4 Smiling is the best way to make a good impression

When I visited the Louvre for the first time, I was fortunate enough to see the treasure of this famous museum - Da Vinci's masterpiece "Mona Lisa Smile".In fact, the woman depicted by Da Vinci in this painting is indeed very strange, because no matter from which angle you observe the painting, all you see is the warm smile of the protagonist in the painting.In fact, what really fascinates the world about this painting is the reserved smile of the woman in the painting. Her smile is so charming that many scholars devote themselves to studying the secret of Mona Lisa's smile.

The power of a smile is truly amazing, it’s just unspeakable.Human beings are God's most favored darlings, so God also gave laughter to human beings, making it a privilege owned by human beings. In our life, smiling is also a woman's main weapon. A smiling woman is sunny, confident, mature, kind, intelligent, elegant, happy, lucky, happy... A smile, especially a smile from the bottom of a woman's heart, is enough to make the dark sky shine brightly, and make the mediocre world create great miracles... No matter you are a "beautiful woman" or a good-looking Ordinary ladies, as long as you have a smile on your face, it will increase your good impression in the eyes of others, and you will be able to create a variety of styles with a smile!

When a woman smiles, her lips are slightly parted, her teeth are slightly exposed, and the corners of her mouth are curved upwards, making her face as beautiful as a blooming flower!A smile makes a woman have a beautiful mood, a smile makes a woman have a generous heart, a smile makes a woman charming, a smile makes a woman have a youthful and beautiful face. A woman who faces life with a smile is the most beautiful. She observes the world with calm eyes, feels everything with a normal mood, and thinks about problems with a calm mind.A smiling woman not only has a charming demeanor and a beautiful mood, but also keeps her youthful spirit forever.Smiling can also adjust emotions and create atmosphere.A smiling woman has a peaceful mind and will not be too demanding on a man.She quietly enjoys the man's giving, silently gives her true love, and feels everything with an ordinary mood.When there is unexpected joy, she will not dance; when bad luck comes, she will not panic.She has the demeanor of a lady from all over the world, and she will never play tricks in front of men.Even if she is dissatisfied with a man, she will not be hysterical, because a smiling woman has a tolerant heart, and she will not complain easily.

Of course, smiling women will also experience hardships and twists and turns in life, but they deeply know that instead of living in complaints and resentment, it is better to play the strings of life calmly, and it is better to let a smile hang on the beautiful face all the time superior.Therefore, they chose to always put a faint smile on their faces, so that a kind of charm from the inside out will bloom naturally. Swaber, the most powerful assistant of the steel magnate Andrew Carnegie, once proudly said to me: "The reason why I can become the highest paid person in the United States is mainly because I have a charming charm. My personality, my character And my secret to getting along with people, these are the reasons for my success. However, the most charming thing about me is the smile that comes from the heart, and my smile is definitely worth a million dollars."

Therefore, ladies, you must remember that a sweet smile is more convincing than any fancy words.As a woman, whether you are attractive or not, if you can smile at someone, you are saying to others, "You know? I like you very much, you bring me happiness, and seeing you makes me happy." I am very happy." If you don't believe me, ladies, why are dogs so cute?In fact, it is very simple, because they first expressed their liking to us, and naturally showed a kind of excitement.Infected by this liking, humans naturally regard them as their most loyal friends.Therefore, I should tell you ladies, if you desire that other people be very happy to see you, the first thing you need to do is be very happy to see others.

Life cannot be without laughter.If we can keep an optimistic smile forever, it will not only benefit our health, but also become a great motivation for our career success.Laughter is especially important for women. Laughter in appropriate occasions can show their best taste. Laughter can bring about uplifting emotions that can benefit life, thereby increasing people's self-confidence.In fact, whether it is the deep-seated optimism in people's hearts or the layers of smiles rippling on their faces, they all clearly demonstrate their full understanding of their own abilities and their incomparable trust.Albert Bandura, a psychologist at Stanford University who has done a lot of research on this, believes: "People's confidence in their abilities will have a huge impact on their abilities. Ability is not a fixed asset, it is extremely elastic, and the key is How to play it."

However, I have to tell the ladies that when I say smile, it's not just a simple facial expression, it's asking for a genuine, heartfelt smile from the ladies.If the ladies make a mechanical and hypocritical smile against their will, it will only attract disgust and resentment from others. Needless to say, a healthy smile can enhance interpersonal relationships, adjust emotional atmosphere, eliminate psychological depression, and improve people's quality of life.Ladies, I have some very good advice that you should read, it may be of great help to you. Whenever you go out, you should look in the mirror to see if you are frowning.Then you should raise your head, straighten your chest, take a deep breath, and let the fresh air fill your chest.On the road, no matter who you meet, as long as you know them, you should face them with a smile.You also have to concentrate if a handshake is required.

Fill your heart with love for the world.You recall the things that made your heart happy, the smiles and smiles between friends, the friendly gatherings, and the friendly handshakes; think about those good teachers, classmates, and neighbors who have cared for you...you will naturally Smile. People with a good sense of humor are usually happy and often give others a laugh.Observing things with an optimistic and humorous attitude can help people get out of trouble.For example, when encountering an embarrassing situation, a person with a sense of humor can use self-deprecating methods to turn embarrassment into peace and laugh it off.

Master the art of relaxing and regulating your body and mind, and your body and mind will maintain a natural smile.Only a smile from the heart can make oneself gain the favor of others in a smile.