Chapter 70 are you a career woman

If you have your own job, if your husband's career requires you to give it up, are you willing to give it up?If you are not willing to do this, there is no point in reading this book.You want to be successful yourself, not help your husband be successful. Helping her husband succeed is actually a job that requires professionalism.You should believe that helping your husband is very important, and you must devote all your energy, otherwise it will be difficult for you to help him. The following story is very true.Sadie Wells is the wife of the famous explorer Caves Wells. When they met, she already had a job she loved very much. This charming girl originally valued her career very much. Thoughts have changed.

Sade's original job was as a broadcast and speaking agent, and she was very successful.Caves Wells met her through a business relationship, and Caves fell in love with her and married her.But the premise of marriage is that she can continue to engage in her work. They got married in March. In June, the husband will leave for Turkey to climb Mount Ararat.She had intended to stay at home and work, but on the eve of departure she could not stay alone, so she said, "Come with you this time, just this one time!" And they set off.That difficult trip was a nightmare, although Cavis wrote a best-selling book "Kaput" based on this adventure.

When Sade came back to continue her work, she felt that her work was too boring compared with this expedition experience, so she and her husband went to Mexico a year later to climb Papacati Petel. .This was a severe test, cold, hungry, and exhausted throughout the journey, and most of the time was spent in unpredictable thrills, but they felt extremely excited. Her thoughts of doing things independently were blown away by the biting cold wind on the mountain.She learned that being Caves Wells' wife was more important than being successful in her own work.As soon as she got home, she closed her business.Since then, she has traveled all over the world with her husband, and her life is like a travelogue full of surprises.Japan, Iceland, the jungles of the Malay Peninsula, Africa, the valleys of Kashmir... They have left their footprints everywhere.

Sade said: "I was so childish in the past, thinking that the important thing was to have my own business. But compared with what I went through with Kavis, my past life seemed so narrow! I was able to put my own Interest blends with him, shares the joy of victory and success with him; at the same time, we face disappointment and trouble together. "The greatest compliment I ever received was the dedication Kavez wrote to me in Caput: 'To my dearest friend, Mrs. Sade.' It satisfies me more than any other appreciation I have received in my life." It can be seen that Sade's change of opinion is quite dramatic.However, quite a few wives find that maintaining the happiness of the family and promoting the interests of their husbands is their most meaningful work. Sade can be said to be a typical example.

Of course, I do not ignore the many wives who have to go out to work for various reasons, and at the same time pay them my deepest respect. I am sure that women are capable of supporting themselves by their labor; Perhaps at some point, you will have to rise up to take care of the family, and the original good plan may be ruined by illness, death, unemployment and disaster. In fact, the work of helping the husband is so great that it demands the full attention of the wife.If a wife devotes all her energy to her career, it will be difficult to have the remaining strength to help her husband.Of course, there are exceptions to everything; but in my experience, when the goals and interests of both partners are aligned, the marriage will be happy and the husband's success can be expected.

Therefore, an important principle that must be paid attention to is—— If your career conflicts with your husband's needs, it's best to give up your career and be willing.