Chapter 12 Simple Ways to Speak Effectively

I rarely watch TV during the day, but a friend asked me to watch a program just for housewives.The ratings of the column are very high.This friend insisted on letting me watch it, because he thought that the audience who participated in the show would definitely interest me.Indeed it is!I've watched the show a few times, and I appreciate one thing about the presenter: his ability to ask the audience to have a conversation.The way they talk also catches my attention.These were obviously not professional speakers, they had no training in the art of communication, some of them had poor grammar, but they were all very interesting.When they start talking, neither seems to be intimidated by the camera and holds the audience's attention.

Why can they do this?I certainly know why, and I've been using this technique in my own training classes for years.These simple and ordinary people grab the audience's attention.They talk about themselves, their embarrassing moments, their fondest memories, or how they met their wives or husbands.They don't think of an introduction, body, or conclusion at all, and they don't care about word choice or grammatical structure.But they can command the audience's appreciation—absolutely engrossed in what they have to say.In my opinion, there are three rules for learning to speak in public, that is: talk about your own experience or things you have studied;