Chapter 80 Charisma is more important than anything else

Without a noble personality, there will be no happy life; without a noble personality, there will be no noble cause.Charismatic people are often able to unimpeded on the road to success.Everyone should understand: Once you have personality charm, you will establish your own competitive advantage invisibly, which is called "personality charm capital". In today's society, the basic point of being a person is to have personality charm.What is charisma?The first thing to understand is what personality is.Personality refers to the sum of a person's character, temperament, ability and other characteristics, and also refers to an individual's moral quality and a person's qualifications as the subject of power and obligation.The charisma of personality refers to a person's very attractive power in terms of character, temperament, ability, and moral quality.In today's society, if a person can be welcomed and tolerated by others, he actually has a certain charisma.

Charisma is not about pursuing perfection, but about developing a positive attitude and expressing your true self.Personality charm is not deliberately expressed, the temperament of personality charm exists in the bones, and personality charm should be a kind of natural divergence. A healthy personality is not inherent, it needs to be accumulated bit by bit.Usually pay attention to cultivating one's own correct ideas, a good attitude, and an optimistic attitude towards life to shape one's own personality charm. In fact, charisma is not an overall concept, it does not require all the aspects it contains to be attractive to him, it is often determined by one or several aspects.Due to the limitations of energy, control ability, and psychological adjustment ability, these factors form a relationship of ebb and flow.

Secondly, personality charm refers to the attraction of a person's personality to others. Everyone has different preferences, different experiences, and different attracted objects.In contrast, it is almost impossible for everyone to make everyone like themselves.For us, everyone is an independent individual, and we cannot control other people. The only thing we can control is ourselves, and we can constantly improve ourselves according to our own requirements.Based on the improvement of ability, improve one's own image, cultivate one's own sentiment, and form one's own style.Face the evaluations of others with an open and inclusive attitude, accept their suggestions, and tolerate their shortcomings.

Again, the appearance of personality charm is a short or long process. Maybe some people will become the focus of the audience when they enter a certain occasion, but some people may be like a cup of tea. Only when they taste it slowly can they know the taste .There are some things that one does not really know until one grows up and matures. Specifically, the personality traits of charisma are manifested in the following aspects: First, in the attitude towards reality or in dealing with social relations, it is manifested as being sincere, enthusiastic, friendly, sympathetic to others and to the group, willing to help others and socialize, caring and actively participating in group activities; Have an enterprising spirit, be self-motivated but not arrogant, humble but not inferior; treat study, work and career with diligence and seriousness.

Second, intellectually, it is characterized by keen perception, rich imagination, strong logic in thinking, especially innovative consciousness and creative ability. Third, in terms of emotions, it shows that you are good at controlling and controlling your emotions, maintain an optimistic, cheerful, uplifting and open-minded state of mind, and have a stable and peaceful mood. When you get along with others, you can bring joyful laughter and make you feel refreshed. Fourth, in terms of will, it shows a series of positive qualities such as clear goals, self-conscious behavior, self-control, brave and decisive, perseverance, and initiative.

People with the above-mentioned good character traits are often popular and admired in the group, or they can be called "popular" people. William C. Durant, the founder of General Motors, once said: "Those great leaders, great companies, and great organizations are great not only because of their abilities, but also because of their personalities. .” When he chooses his subordinates to be important administrative assistants, first of all, he takes noble personality as an important criterion for selection.He even often said to his employees that he believes that "personality" is one of the most important factors for career success."Nobody can say exactly what 'personality' is, but if a person doesn't have healthy traits, he doesn't have personality. It goes without saying that personality is of the utmost importance in all endeavors," he said.

If the company wants to develop and the big boss wants to be successful, he must be recognized, trusted, followed, and cooperated by the key subordinates.In this way, when employees face opportunities, challenges and reforms, they can actively cooperate and achieve the perfect ending of united efforts. Therefore, the leader of an organization not only has an extraordinary willpower, but also transmits his willpower to his followers like an electric current, so that the whole team has the same strong willpower. Studies have shown that the vast majority of rich people have their own unique charisma.Many people just don't realize this point. When they fix their eyes on the wealth of the rich, they just talk about money.What they don't realize is that the thoughts of those wealthy owners with noble sentiments are often more important than money itself.