Chapter 79 A smile is your best business card

A sincere smile is an invaluable treasure for making friends, the best business card for communicating with people, the highest art of social interaction, and an everlasting light for people to communicate.So wherever you go, be greeted with a smile and a smile on your face.In this way, you will have a lot of life harvest. Life doesn't owe us anything, so there's no need to grimace all the time.Be grateful for life, at least it gives us life and space for us to live. It is normal for a person's mood to be affected by the environment, but if you have a sad face and are unhappy all day long, there will be no change in the situation.On the contrary, if you live with a smile, it will increase your affinity, and others will be more willing to associate with you, and you will get more opportunities.

Only those who have sunshine in their hearts can feel the sunshine of reality. If you always have a bitter face, how can life be beautiful?Life is always a mirror that reflects our image. When we cry, life cries. When we smile, life smiles. A smile is an attitude towards life, not necessarily related to wealth, status, or circumstances.A rich man may be worried all day long, while a poor man may be happy; a healthy person may be sad, while a disabled person may be calm and optimistic; people are likely to smile. A smile is the best business card in life, who wouldn't want to make friends with an optimistic person?Smiling can give yourself a kind of confidence, and it can also give others a kind of confidence, so that you can better stimulate your potential.

Smile is the best language between friends. A natural smile is worth a thousand words. Whether it is the first time you meet or you have known each other for a long time, a smile can narrow the distance between people and make each other more powerful. feel warm. Smiling is a kind of cultivation, and it is a very important cultivation. The essence of a smile is kindness, encouragement and warmth.People who really know how to smile are always easy to get more opportunities than others and always easy to succeed. Before you can make friends with someone, you must first understand how powerful a smile is.Viber once said a famous saying: "Some things cost you a lot, but they can only bring short-term value to your life. A smile can get you the most return at the least cost. .” A sincere smile is a common greeting around the world.

Smiling is like warm emotional sunshine that others enjoy bathing in. W. James once said: "Behavior is basically produced after emotion. But in fact, behavior and emotion are inseparable. We can indirectly regulate the emotion that is not controlled by the will by restricting the behavior that is directly controlled by the will. For example, although there is no reason, try to smile, and after a while, there will be a reason to smile." That is to say, if you pretend to be happy, then you will gradually be happy in your heart Emotions. People who spend their days with a sad face don't realize that they're neglecting one of their most attractive traits.Babies who are two months old will smile when they see their mother's smile. When they are five months old, they will cry when they see their mother frowning. After entering nursery schools and kindergartens, they will imitate the expressions of teachers.Much research has been done on the imitation of this expression, and it is not my intention to cite them here.In short, if children are born with people who are gentle, cheerful, happy, and always smiling, this is undoubtedly very important for the formation of their character.

This shows how important it is to smile!No wonder comedy writer Charlie Chaplin said, "Smile, even when your heart is broken." All in all, when you face someone you like, don't forget to smile more, and then open your eyes, you will see the power of a smile: it can easily turn a person you know well into your friend.So, how to keep smiling all the time? (1) A real smile first requires sincerity in the heart. A mechanical, habitual, and completely fake smile is just a kind of "foolishness" of the facial nerves.Although a person can smile beautifully after training, if he doesn't really want to laugh in his heart, then his smile will definitely not be able to infect others.

(2) When people are in a bad mood, pay attention to remind yourself to keep smiling. In life, people often feel uninterested in many things, lose the joy of life, easily pessimistic and disappointed, and their tolerance for setbacks is also reduced.At this time, the facial expression is often dull, and such an expression is an obstacle in interpersonal communication.Therefore, people always hope to get out of this state as soon as possible.At this time, self-changing facial expressions-smiling is a simple and easy way. (3) If your mood is melancholy and unhappy, you might as well start by changing your expression.

You can practice smiling in front of the mirror first, try to relax your muscles, and smile naturally. At the same time, think of some things in your life that have made you laugh happily. Practice a few times and you will be able to laugh naturally. (4) Even if others look at you sharply, you should smile back. For people who are eccentric and shy by nature, if we can greet them with a smile, the barrier between us will disappear, and the tense face of the other person will quickly relax and smile.This kind of smile is like a small stone thrown on the water, which can continuously increase and widen the friendly ripples.