Chapter 51 Impetuous, let lofty ideals come to naught

Impetuousness is an emotion, an undesirable attitude towards life.When a person is impetuous, he will be in a state of emergency, busy and annoying all day long, his temper will be irritable, his nerves will be tense, and after a long time, he will be engulfed by the torrent of life.It is not difficult to understand that anyone who succeeds must have a lofty heart and be down-to-earth. Deep in our hearts, there is always a kind of power that makes us feel at a loss and makes us unable to be peaceful. This kind of power is called impetuousness.Impetuousness is impetuousness, the greatest enemy of success, happiness and joy.In a sense, impetuousness is not only the greatest enemy of life, but also the root of various mental diseases. Its manifestations are diverse and have penetrated into our daily life and work.It can be said that our life is a life of fighting impetuousness.

Impetuousness is often manifested as: impetuous, impetuous, gossip, sloppy; looking for troubles, moody; anxious, worrying about gains and losses... Comparisons in the world are the direct cause of impetuous psychology: "Comparing people to others makes people mad."Through comparison, they are not adapted to the social living environment and dissatisfied with their own living conditions, so excessive desires arise spontaneously, which makes people appear extremely fragile, sensitive, and adventurous, and will blindly follow the slightest "temptation". Impetuousness is a morbid social psychology intertwined with impulsiveness, emotion, and recklessness. It is opposite to hard work, down-to-earth, hard work, and fair competition.Impetuousness makes people lose their accurate positioning of self, makes people follow the crowd and act blindly, which is extremely harmful to the normal operation of organizations, countries and the whole society, and must be corrected.

If we can persevere, truly calm down, study and work seriously, we will do much better than we are now.Only by wiping away the impetuousness deep in the soul can we find happiness and happiness. So, where is happiness and happiness?Happiness and happiness are actually in the hearts of each of us.You can withdraw whenever you want.There are many times when we all desperately need a fire in our hearts to kindle some hope.In many cases, we urgently need to sprinkle some water in our hearts to quench certain desires.You will feel, in fact, we are very happy, in fact, we are very happy. For example, the business world provides people with various opportunities. If there are more opportunities, there will be more temptations. If there are too many temptations, the mind will be easily disturbed. The confusion is manifested in the behavior of being busy and confused. This phenomenon is "impetuous".Businessmen often cannot help but ask themselves: What is the force that keeps our investment or work plans on hold?What is the force that makes our lofty ideals come to naught?What is the force that makes our management disorganized?

From a psychological point of view, the culprit of all this is the inability to control consciousness and behavior, and it is impetuousness that leads to the inability to control consciousness and behavior. There was once a shrewd employer who advertised to recruit a child. He said to the 30 children who applied: "Here is a mark, there is a ball, you have to use the ball to hit here, and each of you has seven chances. Whoever hits the target more times will be hired." As a result, all the children failed to hit the target.The employer said, "Come back tomorrow and see if you can do better."

The next day, only one little guy came and he said he was ready for the test.As a result, he hit the bullseye every time that day. "How can you do that?" asked the employer in amazement. The kid replied, "Oh, I really wanted this job to help my mom, so I practiced all night in the shed last night." Needless to say, he got the job because he not only had the The basic quality required for the work, but also showed his excellent quality. Probably everyone knows the charm of perseverance and eternal progress, but who can really do it!Everyone is distracted by impetuous mentality, how can they sit on the bench?

So how can we overcome impetuous psychology? (1) Know yourself and your enemy when comparing. "Comparison is the only way to distinguish." Comparison is an important way for people to gain self-knowledge. However, comparison needs to be learned, which is what the Chinese call "knowing yourself and the enemy." Only by knowing yourself and the enemy can you know whether they are comparable.For example, whether the abilities, knowledge, skills, and investment of the two people being compared are the same, otherwise they cannot be compared, and the conclusions drawn will be false.With this article, people's psychological imbalance will be greatly reduced, and those feelings of restlessness and loss will not arise.

(2) Be pragmatic. Pragmatism is the spirit of "seeking truth from facts, not self-righteousness", which is the foundation of development.Without the spirit of pragmatism, pioneering is just a trick.This truth is something everyone should understand. (3) Be good at thinking when things happen. When thinking about problems, we should proceed from the reality, not follow our feelings, and we should stand tall and see far when looking at problems, and be a real person.