Chapter 48 Setbacks make life more exciting

Setbacks are the cornerstone for the strong to hone themselves.Only when a person has experienced the baptism of setbacks can he truly mature mentally and have the real ability to adapt to the environment.After this kind of test, a person will truly mature and become a wise man who can easily control himself. Every setback is an improvement in cognitive level and an enrichment of life experience.Frustration is the best teacher and a fortune. It can broaden our horizons, understand the truth, understand life, and sublimate our lives.The more you accumulate, the more mature you are; the more setbacks you have, the deeper your life will be.A full life is created by continuous setbacks.

Frustration may bring us pain, loss and regret, but because of this, our perseverance will be strengthened by painful tempering, our thoughts will be deepened by collisions, and our hearts will be purified by the tempering of life. After experiencing failure, we will better grasp the opportunity of success; after experiencing pain, we will know how to create happiness; after experiencing loss, we will not easily give up what we love; Only then will you know how to enjoy the harvest of the spirit.At the same time, we have also learned a lot of life experience, how to bear the pressure, how to bravely face difficulties, get out of the shallowness of ourselves, get out of the sigh of sorrow, get out of the shadow of bad luck, and meet the wind and rain; , Standing firm in the potholes; more deeply realized the happiness of possession and the preciousness of loss.

Usually, the more a person has been in adversity, suffered pain and misfortune, the more he can inspire passion and fighting spirit, achieve a career, and create a brilliant life. People gradually mature through the accumulation of countless setbacks.Only through continuous setbacks and continuous attempts can we continue to mature and improve.Singleness means mediocrity and superficiality, and one more setback will lead to one more training and one more opportunity to accumulate experience.A setback is a fortune, which will benefit you for a lifetime. "Keep awake in times of misfortune," Smiles once said.Patients, people who have suffered setbacks and failures, they are all prone to have the illusion of bad luck.At this time, please be sure to open your eyes, open your heart even more, and observe the situation of others. People may not always have success but not failure.

Have you ever considered how many people are in the same situation as yourself?There is never a unique disease that is unique to you.There are always many people suffering from the same disease. The United States once had a president who used a wheelchair.When ordinary people physically need a wheelchair, it is difficult to participate in social activities. However, this president has done an excellent job. The difference between him and others is that he never defends his life, but strives to overcome it. Physical obstacles, start and finish what you can do.He is Roosevelt, one of the greatest presidents in American history.

People who can withstand difficulties that ordinary people can't bear in adversity, and who can hold their heads up, have common characteristics: The first point is that in the face of adversity and difficulties, never blame others, never blame others or fate.This is because they know that doing it the other way around is of no use. The second point is to bear the fate given.Don't think about how good it is to have such a fate, but should bear the bad luck and adversity from the front.It's about acknowledging reality and then thinking about how to recover from that reality.The determination to bear the reality of bad luck is courage.

Thirdly, they must be able to find lessons from adversity.What should adversity tell me?If the answer is found out, this answer will become the treasure of the soul and become the wealth of life. None of us like adversity, but there's no point in holding back, whining, and crying when life shows its harsh side.Let us remember these few words: we can't change the environment, but we can change ourselves; we can't change the facts, but we can change our attitude;Any bad thing is just a concept, how we look at it, it will feed back the corresponding information to us. If there is no setback in life, life is as plain as a glass of boiled water without taste; if there is no setback in life, life is like an endless desert without oasis; if there is no setback in life, life is like a pool of stagnant water without ripples.Just ask, what is the meaning of such a life?

A hermit in ancient Egypt said: "My life is rich, because I have experienced it all." May we all bring this high spirit of fighting, experience all kinds of tastes of life invincibly, and become a real person. Wealthy people.