Chapter 43 always see hope

In fact, everyone living in this world is extraordinary, but in reality he looks ordinary and lacks the ability to be an extraordinary person. This is temporary and uncertain, because a person's true strength There is a process of being stimulated and excavated.This great power may be in a state of hibernation, requiring constant self-improvement to wake it up.To develop your full self, you must keep this in mind at all times. A hundred years of life is gone in a blink of an eye.Ups and downs, setbacks, mistakes, and misfortunes often break into our lives unexpectedly, causing us pain, tears, and burnout.Since then, we have been far away from the calm and calm, like a torrent falling into a dangerous shoal, a ship encountering a hidden reef, and an eagle being caught in a long wind... Nature has always destined life to be catastrophe, testing our will, and the only relief is to make life full of hope.

One day, a donkey of a certain farmer accidentally fell into a dry well. The farmer racked his brains, but still couldn't think of a way to rescue the donkey. Several hours later, the donkey was still howling in pain. As a last resort, the farmer decided to give up the donkey. He thought: Anyway, the donkey is too old to save it.However, this dry well had to be filled anyway, not only to prevent human and livestock from suffering again, but also to bury the donkey to avoid its pain.So the farmer invited neighbors to help. With a shovel in hand, the farmer's neighbors began to shovel the soil into the dry well.When the donkey learned about his situation, he cried miserably at first.But unexpectedly, the donkey calmed down after a while.The farmer looked at the bottom of the well curiously, and what he saw surprised him: when the soil shoveled into the well fell on the donkey's back, the donkey's reaction was amazing—it shook the soil aside, and then Immediately stood on top of the new pile of dirt that was shoveled in!

Just like that, the donkey shook all the soil that everyone shoveled on it to the bottom of the well, and then stood up again.Soon, the donkey triumphantly rose to the mouth of the well, and then quickly ran away amidst the surprised expressions of everyone. Why was the donkey freed?It is itself that saves itself, and its thought brings hope out of despair.Just like the situation of donkeys, in the journey of life, sometimes we will inevitably fall into dry wells and be dumped on us by all kinds of silt, and the secret to get out of these dry wells is to put the mud Shake the sand off, then stand on it.No matter what difficulties and setbacks you encounter, don't pin your hopes on others, only yourself is your savior.

Everything depends on oneself, the world belongs to oneself.Difficulties are blessings, which make us strong; setbacks are wealth, which make us believe in ourselves; despair is like a beacon, which makes us see hope; we are gods, because only we can control our own destiny. Hope is the light in the dark, the sunshine in the cold winter, and the bane of all cowardice and failure.Don't give up hope at any time, as long as you still have dreams, as long as you still have expectations, as long as you don't give up your efforts, there will be many opportunities and luck waiting for you in life, giving you a big surprise, allowing you to enjoy the fun of life infinitely.If life is compared to a lever, hope is its "fulcrum". With this proper fulcrum, it is possible to become a strong and powerful life.

Hope is the color pen of life, only full of hope can make life colorful.So what can we do to make life always guided by hope? (1) Set goals. Hope is always associated with the realization of goals, so how to set goals becomes the first step in developing the potential of hope.Appropriate goal setting affects your level of motivation, effort and persistence, as well as your willingness and ability to find creative ways to achieve your goals. (2) Make the goal flexible. Stretch goals are hard enough to spark your excitement and exploration, but not so hard that you're out of reach, they give you the chance to "experiment" and give you a sense of success if you try hard enough. reasonable expectations.

(3) Go step by step. Stepping forward is an essential ingredient in order to achieve a hopeful goal.In the step-by-step process, difficult, long-term, and even seemingly impossible goals are broken down into smaller, more attainable "milestones."By continuously building small "milestones", gradually approach the final goal.This step-by-step process of achieving the goal can increase your confidence and courage in achieving your goal, and it can also give you the opportunity to verify whether the originally designed path to the goal is correct, so as to lay a solid foundation for successfully meeting the next challenge. sustainable foundation.

(4) Find like-minded people to go on the road together. The process of achieving your goals may be long and painful, requiring a lot of hard work and encountering many difficulties. If you fight alone, you may soon exhaust your fighting spirit and perseverance. You can find someone who is similar to you. People with similar goals form a team, and everyone can support each other when encountering similar difficulties and find other solutions together; if you can’t find people with similar goals, it’s okay, don’t forget that you still have family and friends.