Chapter 24 Sharing interests brings each other closer

One should not be too snobbish and selfish, let alone interfere with the interests of others. Even if you are playing a game, you need to leave a way out for others. There is no permanent winner in the world. Your kindness today is likely to be your future. way out. We need to know how to share the beautiful things around us with others, and don’t take good things all by ourselves. If we just show off and show off, we will be suspected of asking for credit. Of course, we will also feel very boring at the same time.Share the credit with others openly, on the one hand, you can be a good friend, on the other hand, others will think that you know how to make good interpersonal relationships, and give you a higher evaluation.

Getting along with people is often not a single-choice question-with you without him, but with multiple choices, which can be a win-win situation.Some people don't understand, they only know that the fish dies and the net breaks, either you die or I live.Examples of fighting for fame and fortune and dying together are often staged around us.This kind of person has never realized that giving in when necessary can bring greater benefits to himself. There is a young man who graduated from a famous school and is full of talents. He walks everywhere with an aura of pointing out the country and giving me no one else.He felt that others were like useless ants, unworthy of being compared with himself. "I have the strongest ability, so I deserve the most." He always thinks this way, he does not share the benefits with his colleagues, and takes the lead in everything.

What was the outcome?Colleagues in the department join hands and form an alliance to compete with this "excellent talent", work together to demolish his corners, drag him down, and trouble him everywhere. No matter how selfless and conscientious you are, we just won't cooperate .If a person is in this kind of environment, if he wants to accomplish something, it is really more difficult than reaching the sky! In the end, of course, this young man couldn't do a good job at work. He ran into walls wherever he went. He was stuck in his stomach and couldn't display his talents. He didn't even have a place to complain.So, the leader blamed him, his colleagues didn't feel sorry for him, and he didn't make a good impression in front of everyone.At this point, the chair assigned to him by the unit should be taken back.

There is a saying: "There are no permanent friends or enemies in the world, but only permanent interests." This sentence shows that the fundamental problem in the communication between countries and people is actually the distribution of benefits.Knowing the distribution of benefits, in fact, understands the essence of human nature and the truth of society. It is actually a pleasure to be able to share with others. Those who only enjoy happiness and beauty for themselves are often lonely and unable to experience real happiness. When you succeed, don't attribute all the credit to yourself, share it with others, not only will you be happy, but others will also be happy, so that they will be more willing to help you when they encounter difficulties.Even if you achieve the results by yourself, you should not take the credit for it alone. Those who have helped you should share this glory together.

We might as well pay attention to some details shared with others from our interactions with colleagues: (1) Share "little secrets" that can be said. Talking about private matters outside of work can help everyone understand and deepen their relationship. If you take the initiative to talk about private matters with others, others will tell you about them, and sometimes you can help each other.You know, trust is based on mutual understanding. (2) Share "happytime" outside the office. To regularly share relaxing time with colleagues and go "crazy" with everyone, you can inadvertently let colleagues accept and like your other side, and everyone's relationship will become harmonious unconsciously.

(3) Colleagues help each other. Ask others for help, and help others as much as you can.You know, a good interpersonal relationship is based on helping each other. (4) Share snacks with colleagues. If a colleague has something happy, buy something to treat guests, you should actively participate in it, and don't sit by the side without saying a word, showing an attitude of not being rare.Over time, of course people have reasons to say you are high-minded and arrogant, and find you difficult to get along with. Sharing credit generously will make your relationships more harmonious and your work process smoother.Don't worry about gains and losses, only by putting a long line can you catch big fish.

If you don't understand the principle of equal benefit and take all the benefits for yourself, then even the amazing talents can only be useless blank paper.If you learn some sharing principles, you can distribute the benefits to everyone, so that everyone's psychology can be balanced, so that you can get closer to each other, like brothers and sisters, so everyone will definitely work together to help you succeed smoothly. All successful people, without exception, know this.Entrepreneurs, don’t be afraid to share with others. The most successful career in the world that can help others succeed is for you, and the most profitable thing is to help others make money.Good things should never be swallowed by one person, but should be distributed to everyone.When the road is narrow, leave a step for others to walk; when enjoying a good meal, share some with others.This is the best way to be successful in the world.