Chapter 25 with powerful people

It is a huge mistake not to make friends with people who are better than ourselves. The value of associating with someone who can inspire the good parts of our lives is far greater than the chance of fame and fortune, because such associations can make us The power is increased a hundredfold. Malmfold said: "Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves." A person is easily assimilated by the environment from thought to behavior. If the friends around you are mediocre people, probably you Every day, I will indulge in playing cards, getting drunk, and chatting.If the friends around you are eager to learn and motivated, and you can learn from each other and encourage each other, you will make a difference before you know it.

American psychologist Maslow once said: "If you want to know how fast a person can run a mile, you don't study ordinary runners, you study runners who are better than you, because only runners who are better than you Great people let you know how big your potential is." We advocate following success, which refers to following positive top players in all fields, that is, being with people with strong energy. No one in the world can completely leave the group and live alone. People always have to live in groups.In human society, each person is like a branch on the vine, whose life depends entirely on the main vine.When a branch breaks away from its main branch, it shrivels and withers.The reason why a cluster of grapes are delicious and fragrant is entirely because they are attached to the main branch of the grapes, and the branches alone are powerless.If the branch is to be cut off from the main branch, the grapes on the branch will wither.

Social interaction can enhance a person's abilities.The wider a person's contacts, the more his knowledge and morality will grow.If he is cut off from man, all his powers are weakened. The greater, the better quality, and the greater variety of energy a person absorbs from other sources, the greater his personal power will be.If he has social, spiritual, and moral contacts with his peers, he must be a powerful person.On the contrary, if he cuts off the relationship between others and me, he will definitely become a weak person. Human beings need all kinds of spiritual food, and this kind of spiritual food can only be obtained by mixing with all kinds of people.

When facing and contacting a person with great personality and strong personality, who doesn't feel that his strength will suddenly increase several times, his wisdom will suddenly increase several times, and his various functions will suddenly sharpen. A few points.And it seemed that the power hidden in his life that he had never dreamed of before had been liberated for him.And enable oneself to say and do things that can never be said or done when one is alone and without contact with him. The man who mingles with others seems to be perpetually on his "voyage of discovery" discovering new "islands of power" in his life which, if he were not in frequent contact with others, would be lost. Forever buried in obscurity.

As long as he is willing, everyone he handed over can tell him some secrets and give him a certain influence.Some information may be unheard of to him, but it is enough to change his career. If he chooses to absorb it at this time, it will be extremely helpful to him.No one can develop his full energy in an environment alone, and other people often become the inspiration of his own potential. No matter how much knowledge a person has, no matter how much he has achieved, if he cannot live with others, cannot communicate with each other, cannot develop rich sympathy for others, cannot develop a little interest in other people's affairs, cannot help others, and cannot share with others. Pain, share happiness, then his life will be lonely, cold, without the joy of life.

People should get in touch with people who are higher than themselves, and people who are experienced and knowledgeable, so that they can be well influenced in personality, morality, and knowledge, so that they can have more perfect ideals and ideals. More noble sentiments inspire your own efforts in career. Most of a person's achievements always come from the help of others; others often project hope, encouragement, and assistance into our lives invisibly, and stimulate us spiritually, often sharpening our various abilities . The growth of life depends on the mind to absorb nutrients from everywhere, and this kind of nutrition cannot be detected or measured by the senses.The "power" is absorbed from the ears and eyes, and this kind of power is not absorbed through the sensory visual and auditory nerves.A successful person must have good interpersonal relationships, and behind a successful person, there must be a well-developed network of relationships.

Therefore, the strength of a person does not lie in how many stones he can lift, but in how many people he can get help from.