Chapter 22 Enthusiasm narrows the distance between hearts

When the distance between hearts is close, everything will fall into place.For this reason, we must show our enthusiasm on important occasions and stimulate the other party's impulse to communicate with you.At any time, in everything you do, you must show your enthusiasm. Facing enthusiasm, an indifferent heart will warm up. Facing enthusiasm, the world will be bathed in spring breeze. The so-called enthusiasm in life actually means that a person should have a kind of enduring love.That is to say, in life, a person must first love himself, confirm himself, and extend this love to himself and others.A passionate person, regardless of age, maintains a youthful energy that keeps you going when the going gets tough and falters, and you get through it.The famous philosopher Emerson once said: "Without enthusiasm, great things cannot be achieved." Enthusiasm can shorten the distance between hearts, make a person's personality more and more beautiful, and make others willing to get along with you .The most irresistible charm of a person is his enthusiasm.

However, some young people in life become disheartened after hitting a wall a few times and suffering some setbacks and blows.It turned out that the enthusiasm for life disappeared, and the interest in everything was gone, and I was indifferent and insensitive to everything around me.It shouldn't be.The poet Allman once wrote: "Age wrinkles the skin, and loss of enthusiasm wrinkles the heart." A person who loses enthusiasm and adopts an indifferent and indifferent attitude towards everyone and everything is a person with an unhealthy mentality.Because they cannot see the essence of life and the true meaning of life, they cannot see the hope and dawn, they cannot find close friends and bosom friends, and they cannot arouse the enthusiasm and interest in life. What accompanies him all day long is the loneliness and desolation deep in his heart and emptiness.This is undoubtedly a pathetic self-destruction and self-burial.

Enthusiasm is like the sunshine in life, giving you light and warmth, hope and confidence, and supporting you to move forward without hesitation towards the established goal.Knowing the meaning of life, each of us can live with enthusiasm. Different ways show different temperament.No matter what your goals are, something you enjoy will keep your undivided attention.Your enthusiasm will spread like water.When you are engrossed in your interests, you lose track of time and become lost in illusion.When the work is done, you will feel peace and peace of mind.When you're focused on your work, it's like meditating. You forget who you are, and what you do spreads out like water. Your ideas come from all directions.Why can't everyone live their passion?Why do many people live in a half-dream and half-awake, always complaining that life is boring?This is because there are two main factors at play: one is that people don't know that passion is very important; the other is that people are not praised and encouraged for their passion, and as a result many people don't know what their real passion is .

One of the basics of living a happy life is finding out what your passions are.If you want to find out whether you are interested in a job, you can figure it out as long as you ask him if he would still do the job if there is no monetary reward.If you are passionate about a job, you will give it your all, whether it pays off or not. Enthusiasm is a great force that you can use to replenish your physical energy and develop a strong personality.Some people are lucky enough to be born with passion, others have to work hard to get it. So, how can we increase enthusiasm?Here are some suggestions for your reference:

(1) Learn about each problem in depth.If you want to be passionate about something, you must first learn more about things that you are not currently passionate about.The deeper the understanding, the easier it is to cultivate interest. (2) Do things with sincere feelings.Once you see genuine emotion in what you say and do, then you have a good ability to attract attention. (3) Spread the good news.In addition to attracting attention, good news can also arouse the goodwill of others and arouse everyone's enthusiasm and enthusiasm. (4) Cultivate a "you matter" attitude.Anyone has the desire to be important, and as long as this desire is fulfilled and others feel important, then they will do their best to work.

(5) Force yourself to act passionately.Dig deep into your work, study it, study it, live with it, gather as much information about it as you can.Doing this will unknowingly make you more enthusiastic. (6) Enthusiasm must not be confused with loud speaking or calling.If your heart is full of enthusiasm, then you will be excited, and then your eyes, your face, your soul, and your whole being will lift your spirits and infect others. (7) Physical health is the basis for enthusiasm.If a man is active in action, he will be active in spirit and emotion. (8) Speak words of encouragement.As you lift yourself up, you lift up those around you as well.

(9) You have to reflect on yourself.Always cheer yourself up. (10) Know that you are a born winner. (11) BE INSPIRED.Don't be content with the status quo, not just with yourself, but with the world around you. (12) The enthusiasm for success must eventually have the enthusiasm for action. (13) Dare to challenge yourself. (14) Under extremely difficult conditions, you must have the courage to "break the boat and sink the boat".