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Chapter 99 Sweet words to satisfy his wife's little wishes

We all have the experience of our wishes being fulfilled, which is a pleasant and wonderful spiritual experience.Fulfill a small wish for the one you love, for your wife, and you get happiness at the same time.Satisfying your wife's little wish will not cost much money and time, but it can express your deep affection for her.Her wish may be a potted flower on the balcony, a quiet and beautiful evening with you, a dinner you cook together.A man should know what to expect from his wife.If you don't know, you might as well ask her tactfully, and then realize it for her. Mark is a mathematics teacher, and he treats everything as strictly as a mathematical formula.His wife is a music teacher, and her character is like a string of flowing notes.They came together under the influence of the principle of complementarity, his wife likes his "silence is golden", he likes his wife's liveliness.

Life in front of him is a mathematical formula. He has careful arrangements every day, and then he does everything step by step.Although his wife would create some "accidents" for him on a whim, these "accidents" did not disrupt his life. On the weekend, his wife asked him expectantly, "What are your plans?" "There are two lectures I have to attend. What do you want to do?" he asked. "I don't think it's useful, but you don't want to give me your time." His wife used to complain like this, but this time, her lonely eyes made him feel that he really did something wrong.

After attending the lecture, he was attracted by a poster of a concert.The wife enjoyed the concert, no wonder she was so disappointed that day.They heard it twice when they were in a relationship, unfortunately he fell asleep and never heard it again.He suddenly realized how little he had done for his wife. After buying two tickets, he went home excitedly, and handed them to his wife like a treasure: "Next week, I will make an appointment with you in advance, so don't miss the appointment." His wife hugged him excitedly.In those days, his wife was very happy and treated him very well.

Sometimes a wife is like a child. She comes to you with an empty box in her arms, waiting for you to put your wish for her into it, her eyes full of expectations.Every time you play it, she will say to herself: Look, he loves me, how good he is to me.She is worried that love will alienate, so she needs to constantly prove it.Every time a man fulfills her little wish, it is a proof of "you love her and you care about her", and you are showing her: I am following your wish and walking side by side with you.In order to understand his wife's mind, a man will pay more attention to his wife's life and take the initiative to understand her.In this way, the communication between husband and wife will be further deepened.

Make a list, write down the things your wife wants you to do for her, find out at any time, add to it at any time, and give her a spiritual comfort every once in a while.If you persevere, you will see a change in your life, and unconsciously, you will become a good husband who is considerate of his wife. Being considerate is a very realistic thing, the more realistic and considerate, the more it can make your lover feel warm.Men need to understand this. Although women are romantic, they are not so romantic. Most of the time in their lives, they are very realistic and pay more attention to the life in front of them.The husband's thoughtfulness should also be close to life, satisfying her a small wish is a good way for a man to be considerate to his wife.

Women's requirements for men sometimes don't necessarily have to be rich, what they want is the sincerity of men.If a man can be considerate of his wife from an early age and let his wife feel your love, he will surely have a happy life.
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