Chapter 91 Lesson 8 Perfect Eloquence for Family Happiness

A first-class female secretary knows how to make her boss like her.She will carefully study the hobbies of her boss. She knows what the boss likes and what makes him angry.Of course, she knows better about the environment in which she can do her best work—even if it changes some of her hobbies. We might as well learn some related skills from the work of the secretary.We can do as much for our lovers as a secretary does for her boss. Generally in those happy families, the wife can make the husband happy very considerately. Mrs. Eisenhower said: It is a woman's main job to remember many small things to create the happiness of others.

Perhaps these little things are not as small as one might think.The best manners always start with small sacrifices.This is the secret to a happy marriage.Willing to give up some of my own hobbies, the big rewards my wife gets are worthwhile compared with those small sacrifices. Mrs. Olga Cabablanca's husband was once a Cuban diplomat and an internationally renowned chess champion. He was smart, dexterous and popular everywhere.Like many men of extraordinary ability, he is very stubborn about his own ideas, but their marriage is very happy and successful-they enjoy sweet love, romance and mutual respect.Olga Cabablanca had brought so much joy to her husband that he was sometimes glad to give up some of his obstinate opinions in order to win her favor.

How did she create this miracle?It's just a "small sacrifice".When Mr. Cabablanca was in a bad mood and didn't say a word, she left him to think alone without irritating him with nagging.She would have liked to dance, but her husband preferred to stay at home most of the time, so she willingly gave up many glamorous social gatherings.If her husband didn't like what she was wearing, she would immediately change it to something he liked.Her husband is a reader who loves philosophy and history. Olga originally only liked lighter books, but she still carefully read the books her husband liked.

Catch up with your husband's thinking, appreciate and understand his conversation, and always keep in sync with your husband, which is the basis for establishing mutual trust.