Chapter 79 arouse the desire to speak

Everyone longs for friendship and hopes to have more friends.But friends are developed from strangers, and a considerable number of friends are met by chance.In a beautiful scenic spot, in a bustling car or at a small party, you can get acquainted with others with a knowing smile, a few decent humorous words, and a polite gesture.The key is to find out the opportunity for communication, take the initiative to extend the hand of friendship, and open the door of the soul that is closed to strangers. However, not all people are good at talking. Some people are relatively taciturn. Although they have the desire to talk, they don't know where to start.This requires you to change your attitude, use eloquence skills, and stimulate the other party's desire to talk.

If one of your topics interests the other person, no matter how silent he is, he will say something.Therefore, in the stagnation of the conversation, we must find ways to find and constantly arouse the interest of the other party, so that the conversation can continue. When you compliment a parent about their child, or even express your interest in that child, the parent will soon become your friend.Give them a chance to talk about their kids so they can talk naturally and freely. When meeting strangers, be a good listener, take the initiative to care about others, and stimulate their desire to talk by generously offering help.

When they meet for the first time or are not familiar with each other, no one is willing to give any help to strangers who are in trouble, because they are afraid that if they don't know the details of the other party, they will cause trouble.There is certainly some truth in this kind of thinking, but it is this "certain truth" that drives away the great opportunity to make friends.People who are good at communication don't think so. They think that it is convenient for them to be with others. Only by letting go of their worries and giving generously can they win the gratitude and favor of others-this is exactly a bridge to communicate feelings.

For those who are shy, the chatter should take the initiative to find topics to eliminate the tension of the other party. When making friends, the emphasis is on communication.From strangers to friends, it takes in-depth communication to understand each other.To achieve the effect of in-depth communication, it is necessary to stimulate the other party's desire to talk while mastering the art of eloquence in conversation. Only in this way can we deepen our understanding of each other, move from unfamiliarity to familiarity, and then become friends. Whether it can stimulate the other party's desire to talk is the key to in-depth conversations between the two parties.Take the initiative to open the topic, send a friendly signal to the other party, and arouse the other party's desire to talk, and you can achieve the purpose of communication.