Chapter 13 Chapter 12: All "married"

The younger sister finally decided to marry her boyfriend who had been in love for many years in autumn, and the time was set on November.I happily accepted the important task of helping to book the banquet hall in Changsha. I thought it would be safer to book early, so I started contacting after receiving the task. First call a five-star hotel near our home: "Excuse me, do you have a medium-sized banquet hall for weddings at noon on 'Eleventh'?" A gentleman answered the phone, and he said without hesitation: "It's full, it's full, it's already full, why don't you change it for another day?"

I can't accept this approach, why?My sister has planned everything and coordinated in every aspect, how can the date be changed casually?I hesitated for a moment, and then simply resorted to my trump card: "I am the famous host He Jiong, please help me to see if there are any vacant banquet halls, big or small." The gentleman said politely: "I have heard it, Mr. He, our halls here are booked three or four months in advance, it is really a bit late for you to book at this time. Or I can help you move the room for the night." ?Not so good?" Of course not.According to the rules in our south, there is no marriage after noon.My "famous show host" retreated in disgrace and hurried to try another place.

After I brazenly introduced my popular status countless times to countless people, I was very surprised to realize that at noon that day, all the banquet halls of all the star-rated hotels within ten miles of our home were booked, and the authoritative industry insiders were still there. It can be concluded that the situation in the whole Changsha should be similar. If calculated in this way, how many loving couples walked on the red carpet in Changsha that day?Why are you all "married"? Speaking of marriage, the marriage of my old partner Li Xiang is perhaps the most famous in China right now?I remember the first time she told me "I want to get married", I still didn't take it seriously, and said with a smile: "You find a marriage partner first, then talk about it." She hesitated to speak, and nodded thoughtfully.At that time, she had just ended a relationship, and her mood fluctuated violently. I really thought it was just a woman's sigh of loneliness, but I found out later that it was probably the period of the famous "propose marriage after meeting three times".

In fact, everyone is wary of "love at first sight", and even more nervous when it comes to marriage. Many friends around me even have marriage phobia.Some of them have doubts about marriage because they saw their parents quarreling and awkward since they were young. Some of them have completely lost confidence in marriage because the rate of marriage failure around them is too high.I really met a situation where all the people in the crew got divorced!It turns out that people really need the sense of security brought by marriage, but in the current situation, there are really many people who are in love like that, but they are not married. Many people are less and less dependent on "marriage papers".

However, from the perspective of habitual thinking logic, when love reaches a certain level, the relationship should be sublimated, and marriage will also be regarded as the inevitable result of love.There will even be many happy "Li Xiang" who have built a fast lane between falling in love and getting married, and the progress of "quick marriage" is close to that of F1.One day, when chatting with us, a work partner of Li Xiang said that she and her boyfriend fell in love at first sight and got engaged shortly after they met.At that time, the sisters were very surprised, especially Xiangxiang and her assistant kept trying to persuade her to be cautious, saying that she must have acted impulsively, and expressed deep doubts about such a speed.It didn't take long, Xiangxiang, who opposed the "quick marriage" with a high profile, took the lead in agreeing to the marriage proposal of the boyfriend he just met. The most amazing thing is that the assistant lady also met a boy at the same time, and she also announced that she was going to get married within a month.

Is this "quick marriage" thing really contagious? I'm very confused lately.Is it just a coincidence that there are more marriages around me during this period, or is it really because of some reason that the whole society has entered the peak period of marriage?Is it possible that the turmoil in the international situation and the economic downturn will make people lack confidence, and try to find some stable factors to comfort themselves, so everyone "married" one after another?For today's people, is marriage a promise, a trust, or a bet, an adventure?Today we, after all

What do we need to keep our relationship fresh and strengthen? I have always thought that getting married or not is a matter of nature and will, and at that time, it is really beautiful to kneel down naturally holding the ring.However, there will always be reporters who follow the clues and ask me with interest and following the logic of the unfounded: "Li Xiang is going to get married soon, so will you also be infected by her, longing for such happiness, and get things done quickly?" ?” Asking this way, it seems that before Xiangxiang’s marriage news came out, I was always lost in the direction of happiness. I couldn’t laugh or cry. I didn’t bother to explain my so many doubts, so I just said harshly: “Xiangxiang married her, what are you doing to me? What's the matter?"

As soon as I turned around, I received a call from Xiangxiang: "Hurry up and take the measurement!!! The best man's clothes have to be made, and there are only more than three months left!" What a world!