Chapter 56 reflect life with love

"Behind a successful man there is always a great woman." This is true, and it is the same in the business field. For those young rich people who are young and rich, they have a perfect family and a stable relationship. An important condition for the career to continue to go uphill.But Jiang Nanchun is a special case, he is "fighting alone"!As of December 2007, the author still has not received any news from Jiang Nanchun's marriage organization Warm Xiaojia.Maybe soon. As the saying goes: "You stand at thirty." Jiang Nanchun, who has reached his thirties, is proud of his career, but there seems to be something missing, although all the "elements" that may attract the opposite sex such as youth, singleness, and wealth are not lacking.

Happiness has nothing to do with the spirit of Ah Q, and love does not depend on the red line of the old man under the moon or the arrow of Cupid.Even if the moving myth is infinitely true to reality, the gap between the lines makes the protagonist in the myth regrettable.Is Jiang Nanchun, who is "insulated" from love, experiencing the incompleteness of real life, or... Jiang Nanchun said: "After puberty, I feel like an adult immediately. Adults should not fall in love. This is my point of view. It's as simple as that." All his energies are focused on the Focus Media created by him, so the expectation of sweet love and the formation of a harmonious family only briefly stay in the depths of his good memory.

In fact, Jiang Nanchun is a very romantic and emotional person in his heart, because he used to be a poet.In fact, this point can be seen from his view of love - "love is pure, very cultured, and should be pursued purely". "In junior high school, my grades were actually quite excellent, but because I fell in love with the girl at the same table secretly, I must let her notice me, so I worked hard to study, and took every opportunity to show my talent and win her attention... ..." But Jiang Nanchun said: "I think my entire emotional development process was during the four years of college. Why? I especially like the four years of college. I think during these four years, I have developed the feelings of my adolescence into a Very good, very extreme stage, so I feel that a person’s love life at that time has been completed in this stage in these 4 years. But if I can choose, I still hope that my life in college can be reproduced , College love is the happiest time in life.

"We often write poetry, and we have written more than a dozen poems. We often put such a poster on the door of the girls' dormitory-a group of love poems dedicated to the female college students in New China. At that time, the behavior we often made was very Crazy, very passionate, often like this, very direct to express my feelings. But now it is completely different, after graduation it will be completely different, as if it has nothing to do with love, I think that era has passed, I feel that work It can change a person’s character. After working and doing commercials, I knew how to do things properly and how to talk to people, so I stopped playing. I never fell in love after I graduated from college. The matter of falling in love was concentrated in college. Since I talked about falling in love in college, I have basically been insulated from love.”

Regarding being unmarried so far, Jiang Nanchun's private explanation is that this is mainly because he is too busy with work and has no time to take care of his love life. "My life is a trapeze person. When I started, I was riding a bicycle, and I was also in the air, at a low altitude. Now I am traveling in big cities. It has been the same for more than ten years, and the rhythm and method have not changed." Jiang Nanchun, who basically goes to bed after 2 am and wakes up at 7 am to work, has endless business trips and meetings on his schedule.Even during the Spring Festival, he also spends time in various supermarkets doing research.Due to lack of exercise, Jiang Nanchun, who used to be in good shape, complained that he had gained weight, was under too much pressure, had endocrine disorders, and did not eat well, and eating box lunches was a common occurrence.

A man's sexiness really doesn't need wealth to embellish it. Of course, Jiang Nanchun, who can reveal this kind of heart, is a "sexy" rich man.In fact, Jiang Nanchun said humorously, "Even if the focus is on the market, it can't make me feel that first love."This rich poet who misses his ignorant emotions may never be able to get back the feeling that he once had but has now passed away. Everyone will have an unforgettable emotional experience.Whether to play and show off this life, or to appreciate the experience from it, are actually two attitudes that can make great things happen.Jiang Nanchun, who is "picky" about love, reflects his judgment on life with love. What does he get from love, who is "insulated" from love, is the perception of youth or the thinking of life?

Poetry is gone, and love is gone.