Chapter 14 Section 14

At that time, the four of them signed up vigorously to learn Taekwondo, preparing to practice kung fu, not only to protect themselves from rape, but also to eliminate violence and make the rapists frightened.At that time, even the slogan and the reputation of the rivers and lakes were thought out.The slogan is "Control Violence with Color", and the nickname is "Punish Flower Thieves".As a result, they ran away one by one within a few days of practice, because they couldn't bear the hardship and couldn't see the day when Kung Fu would be perfected.If you continue to practice like that, you may have to take seven or eight classes in a row to defeat a talented man who has no strength.The most important thing is that the coach is not very good-looking, and he can't arouse everyone's desires. If the training is boring, he will give up halfway.

Everyone decided to start with themselves, start with precautions, don't walk alone in the dark at night, don't strike up conversations with strange men, be careful when eating out, keep drinking glasses in your hands when attending parties, etc. Any opportunity for bad people to take advantage of. CAROL was still a "department-level cadre" at that time, and she was particularly worried about encountering rapists. The words of "Lingxian" seem to have a kind of evil magic power. You know it is wrong, but it penetrates into your mind all of a sudden, making you accept it completely. "Lingxian" said that she was no longer a department-level cadre, so she was not afraid of being raped, one more time, one less time, it made no difference.Conversely, cadres at the department level should especially protect themselves from being raped. What is the reason?Of course, once raped, he is no longer a department-level cadre, and depreciated in the eyes of his boyfriend or husband.

She thought angrily, if she was raped, what kind of boyfriend or husband could she talk about?Those men in China are full of feudal thoughts. If his girlfriend or wife has suffered such misfortune, he will still want her?He didn't have the courage to go to the perpetrator for revenge and desperately, he would only vent his anger on the unfortunate victim.In a place like China, once a girl encounters such misfortune, it is considered finished, and no man will love you anymore, as if you are not a victim, but a whore headed by all kinds of evil.So since ancient times, Chinese women would rather die than be humiliated, because you would rather die, and the end you get is similar to death, maybe even worse than death.

She remembered that her mother had a classmate named Ping, who was very beautiful, and she was in the same production team with her mother when she went to the countryside.Later, Ping was raped by the captain of the production team. Ping sued the captain.The captain's wife actually came forward to speak for her husband, saying that a man and a woman are one-on-one, how can there be rape?It's all consensual.As long as this woman doesn't want to be put down by that man, can he have sex with her? The captain's wife is a tall and thick woman with a dark and savage appearance. She stood on the dirt platform in the team as an example and challenged the men present: I am standing here now, whoever of you come up and try, single-handedly, let's see you Can you talk about brute force and bring me down.Even if you can put me down, I'll keep your little mouse out of the hole.

There was an uproar in the audience.I don't know if it's because the men present are all small and weak, or because their little mice are unwilling to enter the tigress' hole, or because they don't want to embarrass the captain, anyway, no one is willing to go up and down the captain's lady who looks like a hag. , the case will be over.As a result, Ping turned into a coquettish woman, and everyone in the team said that she seduced the captain and wanted to drag revolutionary cadres into the water.In the end, it was the captain who pleaded for mercy and did not punish her.After that, of course, she didn't have a role in recruiting, and her boyfriend left her.

After resuming the college entrance examination, Ping entered the university and finally left that place, but that incident can be said to have affected her whole life. She has never been married. After graduation, she volunteered to be assigned to a place far away. go home.Sometimes when I came back, I would visit my mother, and the two of us would sit on the balcony and talk about our girlhood dreams, about the men in our lives, and occasionally about the time when we went to the mountains and went to the countryside. CAROL always heard her say that if I didn't think their lives were worthless to me, I would have killed him and his wife long ago.

My mother always shook her head and sighed: Hey, as a woman, I have to suffer so much! At that time, Carol was always afraid of Aunt Ping. She said to her mother, "Aunt Ping is so fierce. Is she a bad person? Why does she always say she wants to kill someone?" My mother smiled wryly and said, "She is not a bad person. Sometimes good people want to kill people because they have been wronged and have no place to appeal." With CAROL's current understanding, of course he felt that Ping was wronged.Rape does not necessarily require brute force to subdue the victim. The perpetrator can use the weapon in his hand, the power in his hand, the privacy he holds, etc. to threaten the victim to submit.What is rape?Any sexual act against the will of the other party is rape.However, in Ping's era, the legal system was not perfect, and under such circumstances, Ping must have nowhere to appeal for grievances.

CAROL knows that although the United States emphasizes the rule of law, women will also be wronged.She had read some reports about women being raped and sexually harassed, and they went to court. The court actually said that the women themselves were dressed too revealingly and deliberately seduced men to commit crimes.It means that a man can’t control himself in front of seduction, which is due to his animal nature, so if you don’t want to be raped by a man, don’t dress too revealingly, don’t show off in front of him, otherwise it’s your responsibility if something happens. Some people actually say that women are actually willing to be raped. They say that many women have fantasized about being pressed down by a strong man, tied their hands by him, and being raped wantonly by him. They say that many women have gained from this fantasy. Great satisfaction, so almost every woman has longed to be raped in her heart.Men who are too polite and cautious in sexual relations are often not liked by women.

This, she thought, was nonsense.Maybe a woman would like the person she loves to be more masculine and wild, but how can she welcome a person she doesn't love who violates her will and plunders her body?It was an insult to her personality.Whether the hands are tied or not, whether the movements are fierce or not is not the key, everyone has their own hobbies, the key is whether it is what she wants her to be willing to do.The same is the contact between male and female sexual organs. If you want to, you have sex. If you don’t want to, even if it comes from your husband, it is rape.Isn't there such a thing as marital rape now?

Thinking that he was about to fly to a crime capital, CAROL felt so scared and so lonely.I don't know if I will stay in City B, can I find a hotel or something to stay for one night.Where can I find the hotel?How can I get to the hotel if I find it?How do you know the cab guy won't drag you out into the wild and do whatever he wants to you there? Even if you are lucky and meet a kind taxi driver who takes you safely to the hotel, how do you know that the hotel is not an inn like Sun Erniang?Maybe it is not possible to sell human flesh buns, but it is still possible to sell human flesh sandwiches and start a human flesh business, right?Moreover, there are so many rooms in the hotel, and the soundproofing equipment is good, so ghosts don't know what happened.

It's really annoying, when you come to this unfamiliar place, you have to use other people's language even to call for help.There is no rapist here, only RAPIST, you have to shout "NO, NO, NO!" If he wants to kill you, you have to shout "HELP! HELP!" Can't think of these words in English. She also knew that the United States allowed private gun ownership, so it felt like everyone on the street was carrying a shotgun, or had a pistol in their trouser pocket, and shot people for no reason. Some American movies and novels she had read gave her the impression that American criminals were a group of unreasonable lunatics.Their criminal motives have gone beyond the traditional criminal motives.Things like robbing money, stealing things, and taking revenge are all outdated.Criminals in the United States are mostly psychologically ill. They have no reason to kill, they just want to kill, and they can't stop once they kill, and they won't stop until they reach a certain number.They kill people, they get caught, it's okay because the lawyer will prove that they are mentally ill and cannot be held responsible for their actions.You said, is it worthwhile to travel all the way to the United States and die at the hands of such a lunatic? RAPISTS in the United States are no longer rapists in the traditional sense, with different motives and different methods.Their motivation is no longer to satisfy animal desires. People who are only for satisfying animal desires will leave when they are satisfied.But the RAPISTS in the United States seem to be sadists, neither cruel nor addictive.I don't understand their language, and I can't even try to persuade them not to commit crimes.Maybe tell him "I have AIDS" and he'll be too scared to go any further?But what if he wants to kill AIDS patients for the sake of the people?Being raped or being killed, which is more important?Maybe neither can escape? Carol was thinking wildly like this, when she heard a few words "FROMCHINA" from the radio, she looked around, as if no one was Chinese or Asian except her, so she listened intently.After listening to it, she felt as if she was asking a Chinese person who "comes to the city" or "ginseng milk" or "pregnancy milk" to go to the information desk.She couldn't help laughing, who is this, with such a strange name? After a while, the radio began to repeat again, and heard the phrase "FROMCHINA" again. Suddenly, as if someone had called her, she realized that she was calling her, and it must be Lao Mei who didn't know how to send this "LI ", which became "LAI". "Come into the city" means "Jingcheng Li", that is, "Li Jingcheng".She walked over, pointed to the name on her boarding card and asked, "Are you calling this person?" The airline's ASSISTANT looked at the name, nodded, and then babbled in English.She listened hard, but only caught a few words, among them the name JASON. She had to "I beg your pardon" several times, the ASSISTANT repeated it patiently, she finally understood, Jason said that he already knew that her flight was late, and told her not to worry, no matter how late she was , he will wait for her at the airport.He knew she would take flight 7674 and he would wait for her at the baggage claim area of ​​flight 7674. She felt a heat in her heart, and tears welled up in her eyes.